and i was so focused on having nobody i forgot i had my self

feng shui is real.

delete photos. delete apps. rearrange some furniture. give some clothes away. delete numbers. make your phone display neater. organize your seasonings. organize your clothes. organize your life so you can think clearer.

more studying, more walks, more reading, more skill-based hobbies, more experimenting w pretty fits and hairstyles, more gym, more exploring new things in general, more whole foods/healthy recipes, more financial literacy, more time management, more time off the phone, more being out the loop. nothing else matters

Fear will trick you into living a boring life

i highly recommend for women and girls to be intellectually curious and difficult to shame

my favorite thing to do is show a ngga how it was never that

“The best way to hone your skills and develop your own style is to just do the work. Over and over again. The more you create, the more natural it becomes. The more natural it becomes, the less you think. And when you stop thinking, this is when the magic really begins to happen.”

— Seth Apter (via artpropelled)

“I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don’t know why, some people fill the gaps and others emphasize my loneliness.”

—Anaïs Nin

build a circle of friends who are genuine. who are safe energetically. who are mature spiritually. who hold space and not animosity. who hold compassion and not judgment. who take time to check on you and your process. who grow through life with you + wish you well.

Fear will trick you into living a boring life

i highly recommend for women and girls to be intellectually curious and difficult to shame

to me there is absolutely nothing empowering about sleeping with a man who you are not madly in love with, and him you, that would not sacrifice his life for yours. sleeping with a man who wouldn’t do anything for you is the gravest sin to your soul and your body as a woman.