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One important thing to remember in life: Do not coddle men.
Do not do their work for them. Do not perform uncredited labor for them, including intellectual labor. Do not bend over backwards to help them. Do not tell them they are good at things they are bad at.
Do not smile at them when you don’t want to. Do not laugh at their terrible jokes or stroke their egos or let them think they are better than you when odds are good that they are almost definitely not.
Do not even deal with men whose presence bothers you when you can get away from them/when you aren’t regularly forced to be near them for things like work. Do not include men in your life who don’t deserve to be in it any time that you can avoid it at all.
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How To Maintain Your Wife’s Privacy From Your Family Members
1. Request your family not to enter your wife’s room unless she approves, for example, when she is lying down or if she has closed the door. (Note; every jealous husband should at least have a lock on his bedroom door!)
2. Ask your brothers not to hover outside her bedroom door.
3. No one should rummage through her cupboard or handbag unless she approves.
4. She should not be ‘deliberately’ overheard when she is talking on the phone.
5. If she has gone somewhere with your permission, everyone else in the house need not now where she has gone and for how long.
6. Her laundry should not be hung in a place where your male relatives can see her personal garments.
7. Sometimes, she should be allowed to eat her meals in privacy with you, where she will be comfortable. Note that scholars opine that the husband cannot force his wife to have all her meals with her in-laws…
8. Lastly, do not reveal her secrets or personal affairs to your family members. If they ask too many questions, make it politely clear that this kind of inquisitive behaviour is not right.
[Traversing The Highs And Lows Of Muslim Marriage, by Sadaf Farooqi, p. 72]
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A genuine question - how can you wake up and think to yourself “I’m hella proud to be American”?
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IF YOU NEED TO CALL 911 BUT ARE SCARED TO BECAUSE OF SOMEONE IN THE ROOM, dial and ask for a pepperoni pizza. They will ask if you know you’re calling 911. Say yes, and continue pretending you’re making an order. They’ll ask if there’s someone in the room.
You can ask how long it will take for the pizza to get to you, and they will tell you how far away a dispatcher is.
Here is an example video
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You can tell how dangerous a person is by the way they hold their anger inside themselves quietly.
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Abusive men pave the way for lazy men to get wives and girlfirends.
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Emotional abusers will never give you the closure that you seek, and that will always be their last power over you, but only if you allow it.
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