Please go watch Sex Explained on Netflix. Not only is it a great resource for the basic sex education that is sorely lacking in the U.S., but some of ya’ll need to take a deep breath and remember the difference between fantasy vs reality. This purity culture thing that we’re going through right now is directly harmful to responsible, healthy sexual expression.
BTW this woman, Lisa Diamond, is a noted psychologist and has been pushing for greater understanding of womens sexuality as a whole.
(me trying to explain fate/go dantes to someone completely canonblind) so remember the chapter where edmond dantes turns into a powerful magical being who possesses people's shadows and fights people in their dreams
i absolutely dig dantes-salieri-jalter kinda disaster family dynamic because most of the time it’s tired Italian man trying to kinda keep in check two aggressive angry French people and it’s ’this is my angry french husband dantes and our angry french daughter jalter’
which becomes even more hilarious when salieri is the one to get angry and not in avenger-levels of unhinged but actually angry (like a disappointed mom) and dantes with jalter just go ‘oh fuck—‘ because they aren’t qualified to deal with angry italian man