idk who it is but I know a fat girl out there needs to hear this: you do not have to overly hyperfeminine yourself to be beautiful. You don’t have to adopt a rockabilly or 1950s housewife style in order to be beautiful or sexy. You can wear whatever you want and you can not wear makeup and not keep your hair perfect all the time you are beautiful. Also if you want to do those things you can obviously but like you can be as feminine or not feminine as you want.