I gotta ask, what if a sub doesn't act out at all... but at the same time wants punishment?

Hi Anon, thank you for your question. Apologies for taking awhile to respond.

Your question is a good one, and I think it's important to consider what 'punishment' means in the context of your dynamic.

Is a punishment meant to correct a certain behavior the sub is trying to stop? Is it a way to keep the sub in line and well behaved? Is it a form of training? Is it just a fun play session? Essentially, you should ask yourself and your sub what function the punishment should serve in your dynamic. Most importantly, ask your sub, what sorts of things would they like to be punished for?

If a punishment is just a play session which is not disciplinary or a correction of the sub's behavior, it sounds like what you're really talking about is a "funishment" which you can just as easily give out as a reward for good behavior, even or just for fun. Punishments don't have to exist to correct the sub's behavior, they can just be fun play within the dynamic. They can even be flipped and given out as rewards for good behavior. Overstimulation, for instance, is a great punishment, but it's also a great reward, you just have to adjust how you frame it to your sub.

If you want to actually punish a sub because of something they did (or didn't do) an easy option is just adding a maintenance punishment to your routine at a regular interval (each week or month would be my suggestion). They get their punishment at a normal time no matter what, and you can increase or decrease the intensity based on how they've been doing for you.

Another option is to give your sub a kinky task that you both know is impossible for them for instance:

"Hold this vibe on yourself but don't cum," "let me throat fuck you with this dildo, but don't you dare gag" "take this spanking without flinching or moving" "stretch your hole with thia dildo but stay completely silent"

When your sub inevitably fails their task, you can gleefully punish them. If they manage to succeed, just give them a task that's actually impossible. This works especially well if you gamify these tasks. Frame them as a "challenge" that your sub is unlikely to complete, but if they do, maybe they earn a reward.

Good luck giving out those punishments🖤

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Being someone’s permanent puppy <3 no clothes but your collar unless they feel like dressing you up for fun, sleeping in a cage and needing to wait for them to decide to let you out. When they do, you can’t get too excited, doing their tricks for your food so you stay well behaved. After, you might get to play, but first they might just want to pet you, hands drifting lower and lower until they’re tracing over your puppycunt and you can’t help but roll over and spread your legs <3

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I desperately need a desk pet!

It’s so unfair that I sit at my table all day studying, working, and doing stuff, while the space between my legs is empty. Working would be so much more fun if I had a puppy between my legs. I would pull his collar, force him in between my legs by his hair and call him a good boy while choking him, just to make sure he knows that his only purpose in life is pleasing me.

keep me as your personal lapdog. train me to sit on your lap and cockwarm you when you feel the need. while you're busy working at your desk, im getting soaked around your hard cock. bounce me on your dick. im so eager to please that you command me effortlessly. get handsy with me. squish my thighs or pet my head or rub my belly when you need some intimacy. instruct me to bark and yip at your touches. tell me what a good dog i am for you

Sometimes I really just want to yank a cute little pup into my lap, seeing their eyes widen as my cock gets hard under them, desperately clawing their clothes off and scratching into their pretty wiggling puppy hips with my nails to make them sit and stay

Pulling out cute whines and whimpers their sweet lil mouth with rough slaps and spanks against their clit and ass. Hearing the cute bell on their collar jingle as I spank them, seeing their poor little pet brain melt, as I make them beg to cum just from the pain and sting on my hand on their soft skin

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"that's it, sweetheart, mark me up. good boy, it's okay, I love wearing your marks"

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fuck y'all the other day my lover slapped my ass pretty lightly and playfully, and i thought it would be amusing to call it a cowardly slap...

and the way that i was immediately cornered against a countertop, melting under his cocky stare, trying my best to stay normal and negotiate my way out of turning around so he couldn't hit me with the makeshift paddle in his hand. guys.. oh my god. i was completely unable to hide how turned on i was.

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Thats it puppy, just relax and let me play with you. U dont need to do anything rn ok? U dont need to do anything to make me feel good or earn my attention, this is all about u rn. Just let me make you feel so good ok, let me play with you and touch you. Let me turn u into a whimpering lil mess just because u deserve it and you look so pretty when ur like that. Good puppy... just turn off all ur thoughts and let urself feel good.

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I want a dom to bend me over their lap to play with my ass while we're watching TV. They squeeze and slap my cheeks, they finger my hole open, they absentmindedly drag their nails over the tender flesh. I whimper and moan and grind my little cock against their thigh, ignored and desperate, getting harder and wetter the long they play. But they aren't thinking about that. They play with me because I'm theirs to toy with, theirs to enjoy.

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I want a dom to edge me in morning, to bring me to the brink and make me stop. I want them to tease my cock with featherlight touches and blow on it to make my hips roll and then tell me to get dressed. I want them to take me out for the day, denied and desperate, and occasionally slide their hand into my boxers to check how wet I am, to play with my cock, to rub sensitivity gel on the head. I want to be so horny that all I can do is stare at them, their lips, their hands, their thighs, their crotch. I want them to take me home and fuck me stupid.

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