nova-alien
💙 𝑵𝒐𝒗𝒂 💙
🌴〖️ see my carrd here! 〗️🌴🌴〖️ 21+ || ✡️🇮🇱🇺🇦🇺🇲 || she/they/he 〗️🌴🌴〖️ physically and mentally disabled 〗️🌴🌴〖️ about me, BYF, DNI 〗️🌴
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who tf forgets to text someone they're genuinely interested in??????? no one
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the aroace experience of confusing people by treating them like a partner NOOO!!!!! I DONT HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU!!!!!!! I JUST VALUE OUR FRIENDSHIP A LOT!!!!!!!! PLATONIC!!!!!!!!!
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"you're not aspec you're just confused" can't i be both
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Straight trans men are queer enough
Asexual men are queer enough
Aromatic men are queer enough
Aroace men are queer enough
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apologies to anyone who ever thought i was cool and reached out to me only to discover i am just a weird little hermit who can't carry on a conversation to save my life
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being chronically ill with fluctuating symptoms is so annoying because when it's at it's worst im like "okay i desperately need some type of mobility aid right now, i haven't been able to leave my house in days" but then i'm able to go for a walk one day and suddenly i feel like im exaggerating my symptoms and that i actually can walk fine and it would just be embarrassing and pointless to ask for a mobility aid assessment
but like ... not struggling as much one day doesn't take away from the days that i struggle the most
our pain is valid even when it's not at it's worst and we deserve the accommodations we need even if we don't always need them at all times
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“Oh, you shouldn’t block people just for being rude to you in the notes” buddy, I will block you for being rude to somebody else in the notes. You don’t get to use my posts as a platform to verbally abuse other people.
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i hate when i, a completely healthy person (very chronically ill), get sick (flare up) for no reason at all (i exerted myself way past my limit just cuz i didn’t wanna be “annoying”)
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Anxious or worried? Try asking yourself these questions!
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i want folks to understand that painting trans men & mascs as inherently violent and dangerous is done so that we are too scared to take the space & resources we need by force because if we do we'll be seen as predatory and abusive and an "i told you so" situation. this is intentionally done so we stay on the outskirts of the queer community if we get involved at all whatsoever
if you feel this is happening to you, you're not alone. this is done on purpose. i will not let myself be silenced, and i will advocate for you if i must. we deserve to be able to make space for ourselves without opposition. if there were no opposition, we wouldn't have to fight and be seen as violent to begin with.
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The idea that emotional abuse and neglect have to be purposeful, with intent and malice, in order to be "enough" is wrong, and is not supported by science
I can't believe I have to say this.
Well meaning, well intentioned parents can and do neglect and abuse their children without EVER realizing it.
A parent can love their child and want the absolute best for them, and still fuck their children up in horrible ways that will stay with them for life.
When it comes to trauma and DID, this isn't an area where you can play Olympics. Anyone who can look at another person and go, "that wasn't enough, you have to have more trauma," is in the wrong.
You are flat out wrong.
Your behaviour is wrong.
Your facts are wrong.
Your understanding of trauma, CDDs, and DA is wrong.
Your actions and words are wrong.
Look at generational trauma, homophobic and transphobic parents that just "want their children to succeed" while stamping out any and all "weirdness", parents with their own mental illness that prevents them from responding appropriately their children or causes outbursts, parents with outdated strategies that they thought worked on them, parents that mishandle their child's outbursts with speed rather than understanding in mind, abusers that are young and don't understand what they're doing, single parents that work two jobs and now their kid has to take care of themselves and their siblings, nuclear families with low income, body shaming parents that just want to protect you from other's cruelty, the list goes on and on.
You've probably experienced more than one of these.
And probably for a long time, right? Maybe your entire childhood?
Huh, it's almost like that's repetitive, longterm trauma.
Do NOT let anyone invalidate your trauma.
It was bad enough.
More reading.
And more.
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Horniness is not intrinsically less pure than any other human motivation
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