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nifragtumble · 3 days
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Wearing a chastity cage isn’t really chastity.
It’s just a game.
Even when your balls are swollen, your cock is aching and you are begging your wife to let you lick her pussy and give her an orgasm.
Real chastity is when she squeezes your balls, laughs and tells you to go for a cold shower because she just wants a cuddle.
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nifragtumble · 9 days
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So, my wife might unlock my cage for occasional penetrative sex, and may let me cuddle her (and help) get herself off with fingers (and sometimes tongues), but I often wonder how often she is getting herself off in bed on her own, or in the shower, or with a FWB, or any other way you could imagine, when I’m not there?
Any mid 40s wives of 15+ years with two kids and a stressful job (and stress-head husband)… how often do you go solo (or outside the marriage) to get some action? And would you ever admit it to your husband?
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nifragtumble · 11 days
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A week in my new cage already, and tonight is date night, just a couple of drinks at a local bar.
I’m hopeful she will come home happy and horny and will use me to get herself off. Tongue and fingers only of course, my wife thinks nothing of keeping me locked for a full month between orgasms, so a week hardly even counts anymore.
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nifragtumble · 18 days
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It has been a few months without being caged by my wife because I now have to wear a suit at work instead of baggy jeans. I had been worried about my bulge being too visible.
We have been looking at a flat cage and I had been unsure if I would even fit, but we took the plunge and went for a Bound micro cage in black with a black elastic waistband to keep it pulled tight to my body.
It is tiny. Took me about ten minutes to get almost 18cm of cock into its new 12mm home. But after a few tries with different base rings I’ve found it’s easier than a traditional cage to put on.
I’ve told my wife I think her clitty is bigger than mine now and we have agreed that it is best to keep a key each at first - mine is for hygiene and emergencies only - hers is for if and when she wants penetrative sex.
Tonight I’ve suggested a trip to the local wine bar and for us to try and give her an orgasm just using my tongue.
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nifragtumble · 24 days
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nifragtumble · 25 days
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This story was an attempt to describe my feelings for my wife and how the revelation she made about an old lover with a massive cock changed how I saw my own body and shook the confidence I had in my own cock size.
Fucking her with a penis sleeve and her laughing reaction as well as seeing her cum coating the fake cock as she asked me to take her doggy style opened my eyes to how the truly well endowed must feel, and when I took the sleeve off and she felt so stretched it made me imagine how it must be like to reclaim a hotwife.
The cum kiss describes our first experience with sharing the taste of my cum and has been repeated many times, the experience was not as great as the time she told me that she wanted me to cum inside her, and afterwards she made me lie on my back as she climbed on top of me with her knees on each side of my head, I nearly begged her not to as she lowered her pussy lips onto my mouth and I spent several minutes licking her clean and tasting my hot cum from her.
If you could like and share the story it would be fantastic, and if you enjoy it then I’d love a message on here or Literotica.
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nifragtumble · 1 month
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This story is probably the longest I’ve written. I had been messaging with someone on Tumblr who shared quite a few of my kinks. He sent me several pictures of himself and his wife. He had a very small penis and a BBW wife who looked strikingly similar to my Claire. He read and liked my Literotica stories and we decided that it would be fun to write one about him, me, and our wives. He asked me to include his favourite small penis humiliation comments as well as Tyrique or Ty who he wanted his wife to cuckold him with.
The first part of the story about a chastity date where the waitress spots the key on Claire’s necklace had already been written and I really enjoyed combining my own chastity and bi fantasy with his sph and bbc fantasy. I had been locked for several weeks by my wife as I worked on the story and I think my frustration and general horniness made me go a lot further than one of my normal fantasies.
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nifragtumble · 1 month
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Having tried to write about some shared experiences and what I thought my wife might think about while she masturbates or while I fuck her I had been getting more and more into chastity play. This led to me trying to put into words how wearing a cage made me feel and how this started to change our relationship.
When caged I feel more and more aroused as time passes, being unable to relieve myself I found that my mind would start a fantasy and I would spend hours adding more details. In this story I tried to capture two of these.
The first a rather selfish one, casual sex with a sexy stranger, I loved the thought of pushing my cock deep into her throat as she looks me in the eye, the dirty talk about her husbands smaller cock and her pulling her pussy lips wide open for me to look inside. I could almost feel how tight her ass would have felt around my cock.
The second was a lot more about giving up control and being made to watch my wife being pleasured by two men, seeing in close detail how a larger cock would stretch her pussy and how she would grunt and moan as a second cock pushes into her asshole. Then the thought of her making me clean her afterwards and how it would taste and feel on my tongue.
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nifragtumble · 2 months
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This was the final chapter of my first story series. I think I used it to try and look at and explore our sex issues from my wife’s point of view. A lot of it still resonates now and it helped me to understand her pressures and problems better.
The end of the story was me finally putting into words what my perfect kink would be, to be locked in chastity by a sexy, dominant woman who would use tease and denial to excite us both.
I love the idea of her having me wear a large dildo over my cage to fuck her as she instructs me and takes charge without stress, worry or guilt.
I had to include the fantasy of pegging, but at the time it was something I thought would be hot, but without really knowing how it would work, but I’ve watched and read a lot about this since.
Having her make sure the pegging dildo was picked to match my own cock while hers was based on a much larger ex is something that has almost grown into a go-to fantasy.
If you do enjoy the story then please do rate and leave a comment.
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nifragtumble · 2 months
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This story was inspired by me being asked to take the kids for a walk during lockdown because my wife wanted to relax and have a bath, seeing her sneaking her vibrator into the bathroom made me think about her spending an hour or two masturbating to her own thoughts. The memories are part real and partly how I wanted her to be during the weekend away, the night did end with me suggesting finding a third which didn’t happen. It got me thinking of what could have happened if she had taken me up on the offer and what it would have been like with another woman and another man. I think the MMF version would have been the sexier night, and I’m surprised while re-reading it that there wasn’t much in the way of thoughts of guy on guy, or her having me wear a cock cage. If I re-wrote it now I think this would have been more of a cuckolding story rather than a wife sharing one.
Please do give it a rating on Literotica (if you like it) and any comments or feedback would be greatly appreciated.
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nifragtumble · 2 months
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My second story, and the follow up to Part 1, my wife wanted to know what BBW meant and she said that there was a lot more sex in it than the first story. The tease and denial of the husband in chastity was very close to how she had started with our real life chastity play, when she would lock me for a night or two then want sex, now she would happily have me locked for several weeks at a time. The cum kiss at the end was something I had thought about for a long time, but had never been brave enough to ask for. It was only a few weeks after I had sent my wife this story to read that she had me lie on the bed blindfolded and she knelt between my legs and sucked me, the desire to share my cum vanished with my orgasm, but she pressed her lips against mine and pushed my load into my mouth and I swallowed it while she kissed me.
If you like it then please give it a rating and leave a comment, it would be much appreciated.
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nifragtumble · 2 months
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The Taboo of Male Chastity
Male chastity is one of those things that is often judged before being understood. Just the idea of locking a device onto a males sex organ, so he can’t get an erection or play with himself, often turns both genders off the idea.
It’s like looking in on a bdsm scene for the first time without any knowledge that it’s consensual and being creeped out. However, the taboo is created only out of misunderstanding of what it actually is, and what it actually does.
Male chastity, in it’s most basic sense, is abstinence. It’s just a device that aids a male to remain abstinent for his partner while giving her the authority to decide if and when his abstinence ends. 
So chastity combined with her authority, just makes abstinence more fun, it makes it something difficult to endure, resulting in much deeper intimacy.
It’s also something that trains him to overcome all of his lust, and focus his attention not on his selfish desires, but on hers. It makes chastity the perfect tool for developing a sex life that works both ways and creates a very satisfied female partner, and a very happy attentive male.
The honor system can work, but generally it takes a lot more work, and many more accidents along the way. Tease and denial without chastity is definitely possible, and can be a lot of fun.
However, chastity does add an extra dimension, because it is a device that is wrapped around his genitals, and grips him gently all day long, reminding him often of his sacrifice for her.
It serves to keep her on his mind, which makes him automatically more romantic, more chivalrous, kind, thoughtful, and overall, far less argumentative. His sexual release being conditional upon her approval, keeps him in constant devotion to her.  This can really show the difference between the honor system, and using chastity.
The idea that chastity is unsafe and unhygienic is often a concern that puts many off. When done right, and when fitted properly, a male can pee, and keep clean, with minimal removals.
This might take a bit of time to get used to, but the better the fit, or even a custom device, and hygiene is not a problem. Neither is safety, because once it fits right, it will not deter him from doing any activity, including swimming, going to the gym, or riding a bicycle.
One major concern is that it shrinks the penis over time.  This is a myth that can never be proven because the penis cannot shrink, just like it cannot be enlarged. The reason for this is because the penis is not a muscle, it is a sponge that fills with blood.
After a while in the cage, it gets used to only being able to fill with blood a small amount, and like a sponge, it conforms to the size it’s allowed. Many instances on the internet show a submissive’s penis getting progressively smaller using chastity. This is true only to the extent that he keeps wearing small devices and never allows for a full erection. 
Once the cage is removed, after a few days or weeks, the penis will naturally begin to grow back to its usual size. So yes, it can shrink it, but only if it’s never allowed to grow to its normal size.
Chastity is meant to be fun. It’s really not meant to be a method of sexual denial. It’s meant to be a tool that helps a male deny himself for her. Most males lack the self control, and after a few days, the temptation gets too great and results in gratification.
Chastity can really help with this, where the temptation is removed simply because the device reminds him that he’s not allowed to give in to temptation. It becomes a great tool for helping a male conquer lust and develop self control over his own sexual urges. This helps him become a better man, and have more respect for women in general, especially his partner.
Male chastity actually has a long history, and if you look back in time, men have used chastity for hundreds of years. They understood the power of sexual energy, and how it can be used for spiritual exploration, and enhancing and nourishing the physical body for endurance in all things.
Many athletes to this day practice abstinence and use their sexual energy to help them win over the competition. Men have also used chastity to bring sexual energy upwards through their body, to cleanse their body of negative energy and old habits, as well as to give themselves multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms extending throughout their whole body.
There is a whole lot of men who can learn from their sexual energy when it’s directed in ways beyond ejaculation. Chastity teaches submissive males this, and it brings them much more in touch with their body, and as a result more in touch with their partners.
When a couple within a female led relationship can see beyond the taboos of male chastity and try it for themselves, then tend to never go back. There is a huge following now, a new trend that is rising, because of male chastity.
The benefits speak for themselves, and the more males come in touch with their bodies, the more they understand about their partner creating harmony. It’s worth trying, even for fun as an experiment, just to attempt to understand it.
Many males fear that going into chastity, and giving up that much control, means that sex will occur less often, but that’s not true at all. Chastity actually sexually charges the relationship, and helps her to develop her own desire, which is something few women ever do. To really explore her desire, and know it’s okay, guilt free, and encouraged by her partner to do so.
This sexual charge, combined with her desire, means there will likely be a lot more sex. It’ll just be a different kind of sex, which a submissive male will come to love.
He may not get let out of his cage each time, but he’s going to discover the true value of giving pleasure. It will cater directly to his submissive desire, which will bring him deeper into subspace, that alone will automatically be more powerful than a sexual release for him.
He will come to love that depth of subspace, through giving pleasure, far more than being released from it. It will make him crave to give pleasure even more.
Eventually he will reach a point where he craves to give pleasure, more than his own sexual release. He will feel naked without his chastity device on, as a symbol of his submission to her.
In the end that’s all chastity becomes, a symbol that he is dedicated to her, devoted to her, and loves her without any selfishness. It’s a beautiful symbol and many female led relationships have discovered it’s beauty, and have incorporated it into their lifestyle and never look back.
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nifragtumble · 3 months
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What would be better than spending Valentines evening tied to the bed wearing a cock cage, some hotwife bbc porn playing on the tv.
When your wife gets back from her date night she climbs on top of you and lets you eat a huge cream-pie from her shaved pussy, then she unties and cuddles you to sleep.
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nifragtumble · 3 months
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This was my first story published on Literotica. Written from Claire’s perspective and based on some real events. I wrote it originally for my wife as she will sometimes masturbate to erotic fiction. I had been downstairs and sending her some short stories to read while she lay in bed naked playing with her little clit. When I sent her this story she knew instantly that I’d written it and, after she had read it she messaged me to tell me to get upstairs and fuck her.
If you like it then please give it a rating and leave a comment, it would be much appreciated.
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nifragtumble · 3 months
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2024 Modern days relationship!
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nifragtumble · 3 months
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She’s ready 👅
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nifragtumble · 3 months
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Approved 👅
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