bold — always applies.
italic — sometimes applies.
bold italic — favorite with certain partners.
blank — no preference.
strike — never applies / not comfortable with / hard limit.
𝐈𝐍𝐂𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒 / 𝐇𝐀𝐁𝐈𝐓𝐒.
submissive • dominant • prefers to top • prefers to bottom • likes to switch • heterosexual • gay • lesbian • bisexual • asexual • pansexual • demisexual • enjoys sex with men • enjoys sex with women • enjoys sex with genderfluid , agender , demigender , or nonbinary individuals • enjoys sex with all genders regardless of identity • enjoys sex with multiple people at a time • initiates • waits for partner to initiate • spits • swallows • morning sex • night sex • sex any time • no sex drive • low sex drive • average sex drive • high sex drive • fluctuating sex drive
𝐁𝐎𝐃𝐘 / 𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄.
slender build • medium build • athletic build • muscular build • curvy build • voluptuous • chubby build • wears boxers • wears boxer briefs • wears lingerie • goes commando • shaves • trims • waxes • does not shave • cup size a - c • cup size d - f • 1 - 5 ” in length • between 5 - 6 " in length • 6 - 9 ” in length • 10 ” or over in length
𝐒𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐃𝐒.
silent • quiet • loud • grows in volume over time • bites hand • bites partner • bites pillow to muffle self • calls out partners name • curses • fakes • exaggerates • prefers a quiet partner • prefers a loud partner • prefers a partner who grows in volume over time • no volume preference • turned on by dirty talk • turned off by dirty talk
𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐍 𝐎𝐍𝐒 / 𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐊𝐒.
having their hands pinned • pinning their partner’s hands • having their hair pulled • pulling their partner’s hair • being watched ( by their partner ) | being watched ( by a third party ) • watching their partner • receiving oral • giving oral • calling their partner ‘ daddy ’ • being called ‘ daddy ’ • calling their partner ‘ mommy ‘ • being called ‘ mommy ‘ • calling their partner ‘ master ‘ • being called ‘ master ‘ • calling their partner ‘ mistress ‘ • being called ‘ mistress ‘ • calling their partner ‘ sir ’ • being called ‘ sir ’ • giving praise • receiving praise • biting / marking • being bitten / marked • spanking • being spanked • teasing • being teased • having toys used on them • using toys on their partner • giving anal • receiving anal • choking • being choked • dirty talk • being tied up • tying their partner up • being worshiped • worshiping their partner • humiliating • being humiliated • degrading • being degraded • being pegged • pegging their partner • being edged • edging • age gap • anonymous sex • blood play • breeding • chastity devices • clothed / partially clothed • deep - throating • gun play • intercrural sex • knife play • lingerie • nipple play • orgasm denial • overstimulation • pregnancy • prostate milking • public sex • rimming • roleplay • sadism / masochism • size difference • squirting
𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐂𝐄𝐒.
bedroom • shower • bath • pool • ocean • kitchen • home bathroom • public restroom • car • tent • alleyway • field • forest • empty or abandoned building • library • rooftop • terrace • dressing room • elevator • parking lot • museum • cemetery • church • beach • closet • hospital