tumblr are you telling me something

something really beautiful about finding some extremely taboo piece of erotica & recognizing that the author is like, a person with aesthetic tastes? like they put jokes in, they're horny but they have a story to tell, something something the indominable spirit of the artist

sometimes the way some people on here talk about fat people is like bizarre

I love when someone wears a loose shirt every day so you can’t really see their body shape until they bend over or reach or something or twist a certain way and the shirt pulls tighter and reveals some of them. It’s like. Not to sound like an 19th century man abt to faint from seeings a woman’s ankles but it feels so teasing and drives me crazy. When they bend to grab something and I can see that their sides are soft against their shirt or they reach for a top shelf and their top pulls up just slightly enough to see where their tummy rounds and meets the band of their jeans. It makes me feel insane because I still can’t really see their shape or the full extent of where they’re soft but it’s just enough to make me think about it for the next week or so

teasing someone for burping when they’re stuffed to their absolute max and can’t help it, especially when it was you who stuffed them, knowing full well they get like that when they eat too much or too quickly. knowing they need help soothing their packed belly, their cheeks red as the pressure brings up thick, deep belches with an embarrassed “excuse me.” or whining “you fed me too much” or “I can’t help it, I’m so full baby, please don’t stop.”

praising them for eating so well interspersed with gentle teasing “oh baby, you must be full” or “good job darling, let’s get another one out, okay?”

Feedee happily stuffing themselves on a ton of spaghetti before huffing down a rich slice of chocolate cake too,,, already swollen from all the carbs from the noodles only to follow it up with even more carbs, whimpering a little after each bite, desperately running their hand over their food baby to make room,,, completely engorged by the time they're done and having to immediately succumb to a food coma as they squeeze out as many burps as they can for a crumb of relief, but still not regretting a thing 🥰

person a and b both having a bit of an exhibitionist streak in them, especially when it came to eating with a group of friends.

they’d go out to a restaurant with their friends, sitting next to each other at the table. when the waiter comes over for drinks and appetizers, a orders themselves multiple appetizers, and a sugary soda to go with it. they eat and laugh with their friends, all the while throwing glances to b who’s next to them, watching them with a glint in their eye.

by the time a is done with all their appetizers, the waiter comes back over to take their orders. while the rest of the group orders lighter meals, a orders the largest burger on the menu, asking for extra fries and onion rings. before the waiter leaves, they ask if they can order another burger, too. b has to pretend they don’t choke on their water at the request, looking over at their lover who grins back at them mischievously.

they continue to talk like normal, catching up on work and vacations and pets, no one catching on to the tension between a and b. when the plates get brought out, one of the others at the table looks at a’s plate and laughs, asking if they’re sure they’ll be able to finish all that. a snorts when b grips their thigh, their own, much smaller plate paling in comparison to a’s.

a makes it through the first burger with ease, shoving fries and rings in their mouth along with it. b cant help but to glance over at them, then look around the table to see the way their friends were looking at a. occasionally, they’d let out a burp or a breathy moan, and b has to hold back their own moan at the way their friends look over at a, who’s busy shoving the second burger into their mouth.

by the time they’ve finished all their food, everyone else is long done and watching a eat, placing bets on whether or not they’ll be able to stomach it all. b shifts in their seat the whole time, their face burning red, watching their lover stuff their face, groaning around the food in their mouth. they lean back in their seat and let out a burp, a hand falling to rub at their belly, their eyes catching b’s, who was staring at them incredulously.

they push it a little further, whining a bit as they dig the heel of their palm into the crown of their belly, panting around a confession of how stuffed they are. one of their friends laughs, says they weren’t sure a could ever finish that much, while b burns with arousal beside them, their knuckles white from their grip on their own thigh.

as they all get up to leave, a turns to b and smiles as innocent as they can manage, asking if b can help them stand up, they’re so full they can barely move, and b almost trips over their own feet. they stumble through saying yes, as they help pull a to their feet. they walk out to the car together, one of a’s hands staying on their belly.

when they get to the car, b is on a immediately, leaning over the center console to kiss them, their hands falling to a’s stomach, rubbing their hands up and down their side, dipping under the shirt. when they pull away, a grins, “all that kissing got me worked up, i think i could do with a little snack.”

i've been having a good time reading historical feedist stories and felt inspired 🌟

Fat people can be elegant and gothic and scary in a hot way and mysterious and tragically beautiful. These aesthetics aren't locked to a particular body type.

consider: a character who does not realize how Full they are until they try to stand and their tummy sloshes

boys are meant to be eye candy and get fat.

i don’t make the rules

red flags in feeders (a warning for feedees)

I've been thinking about some of the red flags I've seen in feedist circles over the years, primarily displayed by feeders.

here are some signs to watch out for when you're with a feeder:

🚩 they only say "feederism" (which centers feeders in the community, pushing feedees to the margins) and never "feedism." 🚩 they ask for payment in return for encouragement, but refuse to help you deal with the cost of gaining (e.g. outgrowing your entire wardrobe, eating more food). 🚩they constantly lament their attraction to fat people and/or preference for fat bodies. 🚩 they're unprepared for the realities of having a feedee/fat partner. 🚩 they care more about your size than your happiness. 🚩 their idea of what counts as 'fat' is inherently tied to a certain weight. 🚩they're staunchly anti fat acceptance/liberation/etc. 🚩 they make you talk about your traumatic experiences with fatphobia because it turns them on. 🚩 they try to force you to wear only tight and/or revealing clothes by any means necessary. 🚩 if/when you lose weight, whether intentionally or not, they get angry at or disappointed in you. 🚩 they constantly try to push your limits when you haven't asked them to. 🚩 they pressure you into aspects of feedism that you aren't comfortable engaging in. 🚩 they're unwilling to incorporate broader kink best practices such as aftercare, safewords, RACK checklists, etc. 🚩 they don't support sex workers' rights and/or accuse feedists (especially feedees) in this community who ask for money of being "fakers." 🚩 they play oppression olympics (acting like any marginalized groups they're part of "have it worse" than fat people, therefore they're *always* the victim and you're *always* the one at fault). 🚩 they don't believe fat people are a marginalized group whatsoever, or refuse to say whether or not they do. 🚩 they believe stereotypes about fat people and treat us as a monolith (e.g. "all fat people are greedy" and "the fatter someone is, the lazier they are" etc.) 🚩 they throw a temper tantrum when you retract your consent/change your mind about how big you want to be.

that's all I can think of at the moment, but I'm sure there are more out there.

people patting their bellies after they burp omg yummyyyy

stuffed belly in tight clothes is sexy stuffed belly in lingerie is sexy but are we considering stuffed belly in soft cosy pyjamas????? In something fleece and snuggly????? Stuffed belly in a onesie???????? Stuffed belly hiding under an oodie????? Are we Thinking About It???

my belly is getting so close to hitting the space bar

awh did i accidentally make your ass fat? is that the third new belt you've gotten? i'm sorry, baby. why don't i make you some cookies to make up for it, and then we can have dinner? 😇