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Oh little one,

Let Daddy’s hand wrap around your velvet smooth neck. Look at me as I slowly squeeze, look at Daddy as your vision fades. Let Daddy be the only person you see till you pass out and let out the last Breath. Do not worry little one, you’ll feel Daddy when you are slowly roused out of slumber. And when you finally look into my eyes once awake I will tell you how proud you have made me.

Such a good precious little one

“Little one you are a precious little bean come to papa and give cuddles”

Daddy’s words

What does it mean to be collared?

From my experience in the DDLG lifestyle, when you plan to give this kind of accessory to your little or a sub you are make an a promise to be the best version of yourself to them so that they can trust on you their being. It isn’t just a random accessory it’s almost like an oath. 

An oath to always be there to take the stress of the world off their shoulders. To always be the shoulder they cry on, Getting their heads when they have a nightmare, Listening and hearing their words instead of just saying you heard them.

So if you go into a relationship wanting to mark your little or sub it isn’t just an action you do all willy-nilly . You need to be able to do these actions with a thoughtful mind and heart. Look at the future with them in it and see what you can build when you place the collar on them. Never look at it as a short term goal to place this item on them. Because every single one of those little And sub Are the most beautiful and precious beings in this world.

Move forward. 

Despite all the pain that one might go through. Standing still is not an option That you should do. If you stand still you let things build up. You Erode The lining of yourself. You’ll let the pain take over and let that be your personality. Pain is indeed hard to overcome if it’s not physical. Emotional traumatic pain is one that is a slow healing process. And the only way for the process to begin is if you discover that you need to heal. The treatment Begins with Acceptance of the outcome. And the one to complete this task as you alone. And I mean that in a holistic sense. You need to be OK with your self after your event, You need to rebuild yourself after losing….

I lost a partner because of hypothermia and I lost A love From the grief that I could not overcome. Be a better Daddy to your little not just a Dom. 

A Daddy lost

After learning my mistakes and learning how to grow as an individual and as a caregiver for the last few years. I know why I love this community. The growth of seeing a little through the hardships and Seeing the excitement, the wiggles, the truth talks. Now I just focus on creating art, honing my mind, and building up my body. I know I’ve made mistakes and it’s worse when you are a caregiver. Because you should know better. I let my grief of losing a partner by hypothermia Impacts a very important little relationship. And I lost them through my own pain and without my own understanding of my own actions. Do not start anything when in grief. Learn to heal with that pain. Learn to build circles with that pain. But do not be confined in that circle with someone else because in the end you were still healing. After some time now understanding pain I am now a Daddy alone but Patient for when it does happen I know how I aspire to be and how I will treat them. Into the one that I did lose I am wishing you all the happiest moments and memories and dreams come true. All littles deserves there Dreams and happiness met.

Ik Han van - Dutch

Seeing a little In their space of creativity Fills me with joy and pride for them. I miss the excitement and joy when they Etch Every line, How they mix and blend the colours together. It is absolutely adorable after the drawing is done they are so gleeful and wiggly to come and show you their hard work. I’m proud of every single piece Of creativity that a little creates. The importance of a Daddy Giving their time to their little to appreciate this hard work cannot be rushed. If you don’t have a little or a caregiver Try to build your artistic side. In many ways It helps you realize why you fell in love with this lifestyle. Why you might call yourself a little or why you call yourself a caregiver. Never be harsh On yourself or doubting that you have any ability because, I truly believe you do. I want you to reach deep inside yourself to find that spark. And maybe that spark will ignite a flame that will bring about a powerful change. So Be the most creative you can possibly be while you’re in your safe space.

One great thing to lose yourself in is anything related to art. I really enjoy 3D avatar building not the rigging tho man that process is tedious

To anyone who has a little. Cherish them. Mine died to do to hyperthermia. And the constant agony behind not knowing to have been there at that time. I miss them been five years. 

What I have learned though trying to move on from your pain is that the pain of losing someone should not impact the next step into moving on. I know I tarnished another little because I was so broken. I know that I was in a bad place and I wish I could go back to that version of me to just tell them that you’re not ready. I’ve been repairing the damage that I’ve caused myself for two years truly working on oneself. And I’ve discovered a lot about myself. And the one thing that I can never escape. Is that I do connect with the DDLG community. I love what they can represent. I love the innocent love behind it. I love the feeling of growing together. 

I will be searching and hopefully one day I can find myself the one I call my little.

Be safe and good

Being a Daddy Dom for a little is a Lot responsibilities that you take on that you might not even realize when you step into the role. But one role that will love you fulfilled. You might not realize the void they fill when you fulfil their needs. You don’t realize how much you crave for them to cuddle up in your arms to tell you about their day. You don’t realize that the little squeaks giggles and random noises they make are the things that give your day the spring and energy you need to grow as a person for them. You don’t realize how much power a little sub has over you. 

treat your Littles with dignity and respect. 

Let’s chill little one ^.^