Matt is harassing Avery on twitter now

yknow, i used to be vers. a vers bottom, even. sure, i'd flip fuck every once in a while *crowd raucously cheers and claps* -- thank you, yeah, thanks -- but the catcher's mitt was my home turf, know what i mean ? that's where the magic happened. but nowadays -- now that, yknow, nobody wants to work anymore -- i happen to be a vers top. that's how the cookie crumbles, folks. i tried to take it slow, changed my grindr profile to Vers, but yknow what happens when you tell people, when you put it out there to, yknow, these puppygirls and catboys and all them, that you're versatile, you say you swing both ways, and all they hear is Top. they say there's a top shortage, right ? *crowd boos and sneers* that's right. so i don't even bother anymore. what they don't tell you, alright -- what they don't teach you these days is that it takes some real vulnerability to be the top. yeah, that's right. when you're a bottom, you think, yknow, this is as vulnerable as it gets, right? to have someone inside of me ? *crowd erupts with laughter* but through that same mechanism, the bottom experiences desire internally, that's the secret. and for the top, it's external-- the top has to extend desire, has to make desire known -- to reach out there, hands exposed to the void between hearts, and say: i want you *crowd gasps, shuffles nervously in their seats* and that's it, folks. that's all she wrote. tops- topping, from that precipice, is the endless enumeration of ways to want. and that's why nobody wants to do it anymore.

Y’all need to get off this fucking website, holy shit.

Matt Mullenweg, tumblr’s ceo, is literally over on twitter right now trying to harass and brigade against that Irish girl who got banned for posting her transition photos on here, alluding to contacting the police with accusations of ��terrorism”.

Like, I need you all to understand, by being here, you’re helping lighten the lead weight around this man’s neck by driving site use.

Bailing on this site for twitter is the best decision I ever made, and if what you’ve heard about what goes on over there is too intimidating, cohost and bluesky are picking up plenty of steam and could both stand to have a more vibrant contingent of trans women, if you wouldn’t rather just drop social media entirely.

I’ve watched this dogshit site grind up and destroy so many other trans women over the 12 years I’ve used it, both through what it’s admins choose to do and what they choose to ignore, but now the literal CEO is on a different website, stalking the feed of a former user and trying to goad people into turning on her by listing off the nsfw names of her blogs??

This is nuts, plain and simple.

We all have nostalgia for how this site played a role in us finding and building community, but it’s time to fucking go. We can find new places to shape with our collective presence that will hopefully not devolve into *this* after hurtling in that direction for quite some time.

We gotta fucking go.

"Don't show your back to a Savage Wolf! It'll attack if it sees this opening."

perv4perv is actually something that can be so wholesome

Checking out the Abiotic Factor demo with friends from my server~

If you love Biscuits and Gravy like I do you'll love this dinner recipe.

1 pound pork sausage

4 servings gnocchi

2 cups chicken broth

1 cup pureed pumpkin or butternut squash

½ cup heavy cream.

Brown the pork sausage. Add the broth, gnocchi and pumpkin. Let simmer about 10 minutes. Add the cream. Salt and pepper to taste.

It's basically dumplings and gravy, the pumpkin or butternut squash lives in harmony with the rest of the flavors and add the creamy gravy texture. It's one of my favorite meals and I have it at least every other week.

the water fountain in the 24h gym displays light-hearted little messages when you use it. "use me to stay refreshed!", "impress yourself!", that kind of thing

tonight, at 3am, while I was completely alone in the gym, it gave me a message i haven't seen before

"dare you to turn around and smile at the person behind you :)"

happy electric feel friday