I know y’all know how frustrating it is to try and scroll through a tag to see fucking memes instead of the porn you were looking for. Absolute nonsense. Tiring. I’m just mad and horny bro.
Also, I have received your requests! In respect to blm I’ve decided to not post any writing for a little bit. It just feels wrong trying to write about imaginary kpop scenarios while there’s so much awful shit happening in my country. I will have your requests up eventually! I hope you understand ❤️
A while ago, someone asked me for a Jeongin fic where ‘he has a noona kink’.
I didn’t know if I should laugh or puke.
Let me explain.
Because honestly, the person who requested was definitely not from a culture where using honorifics to address people older than you is basic courtesy. They probably don’t realise the significance of these honorifics.
At first, I wanted to explain to this anon that they were the one with the noona kink; people who come from cultures which use honorifics excessively do not EVER find them remotely sexy. No. Really, trust me, I’m from one such culture.
And then, I realised there was a deeper issue.
I can’t help but see noona/oppa kinks as a form of cultural fetishisation.
Like, my friend is dating this cutie a year younger than her, and he calls her didi out of habit, not as a kink. It’s awfully disconcerting when a foreigner - someone who doesn’t realise the significance and meaning of the words they are using - turn an honorific into a kink/fetishise it.
Please don’t. You don’t know what it is like to use honorifics. It is hella creepy. I mean, if a foreigner asked me to call them akka/anna/didi/bhaiya specifically as a turn on during sex, I’d get the fuck away from them because eww.
Yeah, we talk a lot about racial fetishisation, but fixating over titles from a foreign culture is a sort of unhealthy cultural fetishisation, too. It is awfully uncomfortable.
Honorifics aren’t the same as sexualised titles. Please DON’T.
Any writers, if you see this, please share and take heed; please try to incorporate this into your writing. I’m sure kpopie writers on tumblr are as understanding as they seem, and I hope we can stop encouraging unhealthy fixations of this sort.
can i have a scenario where wooyoung is the readers sisters friend so like is semi friends with the reader (like they joke around with eachother and stuff) but like the sister actually has feelings for wooyoung and like turns out he does too so they like hookup bc they have both been waiting for it for so long (???) i dont know if this makes sense but rn dealing with a sitch like this so......
hey after a long time I finally posted this!
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