and who is cuter than him

i think the most fucked up thing about dr. cockroach is that he barely had any (decent) content. like i'm better off than the poor fucks who like over the hedge and whatnot but two decent ten minute shorts do not a rich man make. but even with all this in mind just seeing him in the background sickens me sufficiently. i've never been this bad about a man's body language but dreamworks did something diabolical with his zippy ass

roach world 2024

the problem with my mva self insert is that from a timeline perspective, i settled on the idea of him being captured in the 80s, but i don't LIKE THE 80S!!!!! they don't really do it for me. my eyes begin to melt

monsters vs. aliens is insane because it's the only franchise i can have dreams about consistently. last night i had a dream where i was dating dr. cockroach, and we had to do some world saving stuff a la status quo. at one point we had to split up but before we did we shared a long hug (win. i got to feel his spindly warmth. CUTE) and then i pinched his ass. twice. lol

if i may add, i also think one of the reasons it's important to learn how to maintain your own boundaries rather than expect everyone to bend over backward so nothing triggers you is because everyone is just human.

people forget things, and if the onus is on others to remember every single thing that may trigger every single person that MIGHT see their posts, it can get overwhelming fast. most importantly, and this is why i wanted to chime in, some people literally can't do this. hell, this is why i'm against individualized blacklists in public discord servers. it is already too much to expect out of one individual to know every obscure trigger of every person they barely know but might interact with, but that's not even taking into account the way disability affects this issue.

there are lots of people with cognitive disabilities and disorders for whom remembering triggers like that is literally impossible, and setting extensive blacklist memory and accommodation as the standard alienates these people from your communities. someone with a memory disorder is going to find it even more intimidating to be expected to remember all of this information about people they don't really know. this shouldn't even be an expectation in the first place.

outside of these circles, it's just important to learn to deal with these things as best you can. that's not to say you can't avoid them ever. i have ptsd, i cover my ears and leave the building when certain songs play to avoid panic attacks, i have friends who know all of my triggers. as you said, though, it's not safe to display them out in the open where any bad actor could find them and use them against you. not only that, but it is up to YOU to cope as best you can with these things rather than getting upset with others. your comfort is by and large your own responsibility.

unless your well-being is being knowingly disregarded by people who have a responsibility to maintain it, it is not acceptable to require others to twist in circles around you to make sure you're comfortable. especially in internet spaces like people's personal blogs. some people may want to tag things for you, that's their decision, and it's very considerate, but it is NOT something you should expect. (nor should you feel required to do it!) by anticipating this behavior, you're also harming your ability to appreciate the courtesy as anything but standard. to truly be grateful that someone would go out of their way for you like that.

recovery is hard, and everyone deserves to feel safe, but if someone is posting something that triggers you so much that it's a problem, try to fix the problem on your own before involving anyone else, especially if they're not someone you're close with.

I am too young, but too old to be explaining this to people, but the burden of someone’s triggers is on them. They can ask for you to tag things, but that is an ASK and that should not come above other people’s comfort.

Boundaries are for when one knows when to walk away. Not to control people’s behavior; one may ask and someone may indulge, but it should never be used as a mean of control. If one is using it as a means to control, please seek a professional for guidance away from that behavior, to educate one’s self on how to properly have boundaries; if someone is using it as a means of control towards you/a loved one, please speak to them about it and disengage if it continues to be a problem.

There is a reason why movie ratings have ratings and don’t call out people’s names. Not only is it not feasible, it is also unsafe. You/anyone should not be putting their names next to their triggers for strangers to see. At that point, people could easily use those triggers against you/the person with that trigger. There are malicious people out there and it isn’t safe to have anything that will trigger you directly attached to you.

I have this as well; I have a trigger of specific characters due to things I will not speak about publicly. Why? Safety. I reach out to my friends and I may put out a thing asking for people just to tag that character with that character name or ‘TW: [character name]’ or even just the name of the ship so I can avoid it, but I will never actually attach why it is a trigger to me unless we are relatively friends/acquaintances, because it is on me to keep me safe.

‘x don’t look’ has always made people in this community uncomfortable for numerous reasons. It makes OPs uncomfortable because it puts them on the spot, it attaches triggers to people’s names, it directly calls out the person with the trigger, etc. Please stop using it.

We have TW: [trigger]; we can move to others ship: [character name (+ media name if needed)]

This is not just a comfort thing; this is a safety thing; this is also how boundaries are properly placed.

does no one in the self ship community get embarrassed saying "no doubles" like we're back on fucking kin tumblr

i still want val to have somehow been besties with dahlia hawthorne at one point. they have a book club and they read sharp objects and dahlia wants to remove every copy from the face of the earth

working on an updated design for m val, and i think updating his hair is the most important thing to me. i want it to look a bit more glamorous as opposed to preppy. lip piercing im iffy on, and it'll only stay if i decide to give him a new gimmick of like, "he looks unprofessional, but he's actually a really good counselor" as opposed to just playing him straight as wide-eyed and cutesy. cuz i think it would be a bit more entertaining and less egotistical than his previous setup. which has always bugged me. it used to be that his services had pin-uppy advertisements, and people mainly came in cuz they found him attractive. to be frank, though, it was just a desperate attempt to remain with the valentine's day theme of his character, and i don't find it to be interesting or reflective of me. i may retain his cutesiness, but it leaves me without a gimmick. wip ass

sitting her ass down to listen to the ninth wave.

so far my playslist for edgeworth (not romantic but just his character) is comprised solely of kate bush songs and i kinda wanna see how long i can keep that going for

so far my playslist for edgeworth (not romantic but just his character) is comprised solely of kate bush songs and i kinda wanna see how long i can keep that going for

capcom has confirmed that in the next ace atotrney game miles edgeworth will have a coke addiction

we are so back

i love pullip dolls their big ass foreheads make me feel seen

okiedokie lets try this again

i can love you like a color tv............. 🎶🎶🎶