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melanc-oholicc · 8 months
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melanc-oholicc · 1 year
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my "do nothing" method
this isn't a method in itself but this is litteraly the funniest thing on earth for me and the best method i've ever tried. litteraly whenever i want something, i just instantly switch into a state of mind where i have that thing.
this is litteraly the concept of manifesting.
and what's funny is that everyone (and me as well) has or had this way of thinking that makes us overcomplicate anything. so now here we are looking for self concept affirmations and extra powerful "dangerous" subliminal and writing down 100x affs that sounds extremely wrong and unatural to us. what's funny is that, most of us will do all of those things without really understanding the purpose of it and even if it's not necessary at all to understand everything, i truly believe that it could be one of the main problems of manifestors.
how we manifest.
obviously we don't rlly know how it appears in our 3D as much as we don't rlly know why or how we live on a floating ball in litteraly nothing... my point is, you are in a state of mind. In the Neville Goddard reddit, i've learned a loooot of things and i understood this before really manifesting instantly. you are constantly in a state of mind; for exemple:
right now i am in a state of mind where i am writing my post about manifestation
5 hours ago i was in a state of mind where i was eating a kebab
and 1 year ago i was in a state of mind where i was struggling to get my desires
when you are manifesting, the state of mind that you are trying to reach is: i am in a state of mind where i have my desires
this is pure logic.
If you don't have your desires, you're thinking: "oh... i don't have my desires i should work on getting my desires."
and if you have them you're thinking "cool ! i have my desires, i don't need to do anything now."
and as you know (or don't), you must convince yourself that you have your desires in order to get them right? so (back to the method thing lol) why would you need to do anything if you have your desires ?
why would you need to take a bath if you are clean ? cuz you like that ? then sure ! take a bath to have fun, not to get clean since you already are.
why would you need to go buy bread if you already have some ? you don't need 2 baguettes, you have enough home and you are not even hungry since you already ate one (unless you're french and if you are then it's impossible that you don't have enough bread !)
see ? this is stupid, but this how we should think in order to get our desires. just replace bread or bath with your manifestation and see:
why would you need to write affirmations if you already are dating them ? cuz you like that ? then sure ! write affs for fun, not to manifest them since you already are dating them.
why would you need to listen to subs if you already have your desired body ? you don't need to manifest your desired body again, you already have it and you are satisfied with it !
and yes methods still works, ofc, but i truly believe that it can make you take way more time than it should espacially when your beginning and getting to understand manifestation.
anyways it's getting late and i'm tired and stuff so in the end
JUST GET IN THE RIGHT MINDSET AND YOU WILL GET YOU'RE STUFF THAT'S IT YOU DONT NEED TO WRITE 555 AFS PER HOUR
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melanc-oholicc · 1 year
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melanc-oholicc · 2 years
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melanc-oholicc · 2 years
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normalize talking highly about yourself.
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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SZA (via instagram)
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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Black Lace Bows Mini Slip Dress fw 1998 / Christian Dior by John Galliano
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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Normalize disliking people and avoiding them without starting a conflict and insisting that they're bad people. You don't actually need to be able to call someone toxic and abusive in order to justify that you're not vibing with them.
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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if you want to be treated as a priority then do the same for them
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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pure of heart... dumb of ass.... bi of sexual....
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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FELIX ϟ “NOEASY” thunderous trailer
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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sorry for being so sexy and funny i don't know what's wrong with me
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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Socialite In Training 🦋
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Go out to dinner at least once a week. Try places you’ve never been before. Make an effort to hit up as many places in your city as you can so that you will always have good recommendations for people, reviews on what’s good and what’s bad, and get to know different areas better. Obviously don’t go broke doing this. Just try to dine out as often as financially feasible for you. Be friendly with the staff and make an impression on them and trust me, the special treatment will quickly come once you become a regular.
Always dress tf up. No matter if you’re walking your dog, grocery shopping, getting your nails done, depositing a check at the bank, or making a dentist appointment. Always look cute. This doesn’t mean you need to bust out a ball gown, but make sure your clothes look good, hair is done, accessories are on, and your personal style shines bright. Don’t just put on items. Give the girls a Look.
Take multiple vacations a year. At least one should be by plane to your location of choice but if you don’t have the budget to do several far away trips per year, fill up your calendar with staycations at hotels that offer activities, resorts, spend a few days staying with some friends who are out of state, and any other getaway that appeals to you. A 2 day trip to a city that’s just a few hours drive from your house can absolutely be an amazing vacation. I do it all the time!
Expand your social circle and actually make plans with them. A trip to the nail salon with one, a joint grocery shopping trip with another, lunch at that cool place you’ve been frequenting with the third. Be a social butterfly. Make memories with people, even if they are just casual outings. If you meet someone and hit it off, text them! Make a plan to hang out and do something.
Be the flashiest and most authentic version of you. Buy the things you like and wear them with showstopping confidence. Use the phrases and slang words you like. Don’t be shy to listen to the music that is your guilty pleasure or watch your favorite shows that no one else seems to care about. Embrace every part of you and wear it proudly.
Go to all of the cool events in your area. Restaurant openings, new store openings, promotional events, community gatherings etc etc. Try to always keep fun events on your horizon. Plus it’ll give you more chances to wear those cute outfits you feel too shy to wear on a normal day just bopping around target. Those leather pants and strappy heels aren’t gonna wear themself!
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melanc-oholicc · 3 years
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Why do you even care about trans women? You're not even one of them.
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