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Books to Manifest Prosperity, Confidence, and Wealthy Men (Part Two)
Law of Attraction, Manifestation, Wealth, and General Self-Improvement
♥ Anatomy of the Spirit: The Seven Stages of Power and Healing
♥ As a Man Thinketh: 21st Century Edition (audio)
♥ Courage to Change: One Day at a Time
♥ Creative Visualization: Use the Power of Your Imagination to Create What You Want in Your Life
♥ Dave Ramsey’s Complete Guide to Money: The Handbook of Financial Peace University
♥ Dominating Money: Tapping into Gods Supernatural Economy
♥ Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff and It’s All Small Stuff: Simple Ways to Keep the Little Things from Taking Over Your Life (audio)
♥ Driven by Eternity: Make Your Life Count Today and Forever
♥ Ego and Self: The Old Testament Prophets from Isaiah to Malachi
♥ Emotional Intelligence 2.0
♥ Focus: A simplicity Manifesto in the Age of Distraction (pdf)
♥ Fun Is Good: How to Create Joy and Passion in your Workplace and Career
♥ God is My Source
♥ God Never Blinks: 50 Lessons for Life’s Little Detours
♥ Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
♥ How Successful People Think: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life (audio)
♥ Man’s Search for Meaning (audio)
♥ MONEY Master the Game: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom
♥ Positive Thinking Every Day: An Inspiration for Each Day of the Year
♥ Rich Woman: A Book on Investing for Women, Take Charge of Your Money, Take Charge of Your Life
♥ Start With Why (audio)
♥ Successful Women Think Differently: 9 Habits to Make You Happier, Healthier, and More Resilient
♥ Super Rich: A Guide to Having It All
♥ Targets with Absolute Confidence and Certainty
♥ The 4-Hour Workweek (audio)
♥ The 80/20 Principle (Third Edition): The Secret to Achieving More with Less
♥ The Aladdin Factor (audio)
♥ The Alchemist (audio)
♥ The Art Of War (audio)
♥ The Compound Effect: Jumpstart Your Income, Your Life, Your Success (audio)
♥ The Energy Bus: 10 Rules to Fuel Your Life, Work, and Team with Positive Energy
♥ The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)
♥ The Fred Factor: How Passion in Your Work and Life Can Turn the Ordinary into the Extraordinary
♥ The Magic of Thinking Big (audio)
♥ The Millionaire Next Door
♥ The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results
♥ The Path to Success Is Paved with Positive Thinking
♥ The Power of Broke: How Empty Pockets, a Tight Budget, and a Hunger for Success Can Become Your Greatest Competitive Advantage
♥ The Power of Focus (Tenth Anniversary Edition)
♥ The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
♥ The Procrastination Equation: How to Stop Putting Things Off and Start Getting Stuff Done
♥ The Richest Man in Babylon
♥ The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment of Your Dreams (audio)
♥ The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
♥ The Success Principles (10th Anniversary Edition): How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be
♥ The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference
♥ The Ultimate Credit Repair Guide to Having Luxurious Credit
♥ The Wealth Choice: Success Secrets of Black Millionaires
♥ The Wealth of My Mother’s Wisdom: The Lessons That Made My Life Rich
♥ Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts – Becoming the Person You Want to Be
♥ Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma
♥ What Keeps Me Standing: Letters from Black Grandmothers on Peace, Hope and Inspiration
♥ Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength
♥ Write It Down Make It Happen: Knowing What You Want and Getting It
♥ Your Best Life Now: 7 Steps to Living at Your Full Potential
♥ Your Best Year Ever: A 5-Step Plan for Achieving Your Most Important Goals
♥ Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More
Confidence, Seduction, Style, Etiquette, and Psychology of People
♥ 4,000 Questions for Getting to Know Anyone and Everyone
♥ A Guide to Elegance: For Every Woman Who Wants to Be Well and Properly Dressed on All Occasions
♥ Emily Post’s Etiquette (19th Edition): Manners for Today
♥ Finishing Touches: A Guide to Being Poised, Polished, and Beautifully Prepared for Life
♥ Goodbye to Shy: 85 Shybusters That Work!
♥ How the Mighty Fall: And Why Some Companies Never Give In
♥ How To Be Chic And Elegant: Tips From A French Woman
♥ How to Speak Like a Pro
♥ How To Win Friends and Influence People (audio)
♥ Lessons from Madame Chic: 20 Stylish Secrets I Learned While Living in Paris
♥ Mastery
♥ Men Are Like Waffles – Women Are Like Spaghetti Devotional Study Guide
♥ Never Eat Alone: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time
♥ Own the Room: Discover Your Signature Voice to Master Your Leadership Presence
♥ Pitch Perfect: How to Say It Right the First Time, Every Time
♥ The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You (audio)
♥ The 33 Strategies of War (audio)
♥ The Art of War for Women: Sun Tzu’s Ancient Strategies and Wisdom for Winning at Work
♥ The Bombshell Manual of Style
♥ The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism
♥ The Definitive Book of Body Language: The Hidden Meaning Behind People’s Gestures and Expressions
♥ The Gift of Fear
♥ The Greatest Salesman in the World (audio)
♥ The Little Dictionary of Fashion: A Guide to Dress Sense for Every Woman
♥ The Power of Who: You Already Know Everyone You Need to Know
♥ The Sensuous Woman
♥ The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About Success
♥ Three Steps to Yes: The Gentle Art of Getting Your Way
♥ What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People
♥ Worldwide Gestures: A Traveller’s Introduction to Common International Gestures & Symbols
Sugaring, Relationships, Love and Marrying Wealthy
♥ A GOAL Digger’s Guide: How to Get What You Want Without Giving It Up
♥ Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate
♥ Being a Woman: Fulfilling Your Femininity and Finding Love
♥ Getting to ‘I Do’: The Secret to Doing Relationships Right!
♥ Have Him at Hello: Confessions from 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall in Love . . . Or Never Call Back
♥ How To Date Like a Courtesan: Attract, Seduce, and Manipulate Men for Love, Money, and Marriage
♥ How to Marry the Man of Your Choice
♥ How to Meet the Rich: For Business, Friendship, or Romance
♥ Lucrative Love: An Insider’s Secrets to Marrying Millions!
♥ Marry by Choice, Not by Chance: Advice for Finding the Right One at the Right Time
♥ Mars and Venus in Love: Inspiring and Heartfelt Stories of Relationships
♥ Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion
♥ Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship
♥ Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication
♥ Pussy Power: How to Keep Him and YOU Happy
♥ Sex and the Single Girl
♥ Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental
♥ Simply Irresistible: Unleash Your Inner Siren and Mesmerize Any Man, with Help from the Most Famous – and Infamous – Women
♥ The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
♥ The Power of a Praying Wife
♥ The Seduction Mystique
♥ The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce & Keep the Man You Want
♥ Trophy Man: The Surprising Secrets of Black Women Who Marry Well
* Continue to check back for updates with links to audiobooks and PDFs.
* Read PART ONE here.
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Sugar Dating: Tinder & OKCupid
As some of you other sugar cubes have mentioned Tinder and OKCupid have proven to be gold mines for me. I set my search to 35 - 55 and swipe right on those who look like they have potential.
When they ask me what I’m looking for, i tell them that “I don’t have time to date due to having a career and yada yada. And most of the men I have dated have been older gentleman, who assisted me financially. Since they are successful men with busy careers, we saw each other a couple of times a month. So they had the pleasure of a young lady’s companionship without the pressures of a traditional relationship”.
I can’t tell you how many times the men have responded with, “That works for me perfectly!” Remember ladies, yes we are in it for the money but a lot of successful guys work and travel a lot and therefore they don’t have time for a girlfriend. They don’t have time/want to meet your parents, hang out with your friends, they don’t want to feel guilty/annoyed because their girlfriend is nagging him because he doesn’t spend enough time with her and she’s feeling neglected.
You are providing a valuable service. A lot of these men, when they step away from their desks, from the operating table, off the plane, and go home are lonely - even if they have a wife. That’s where you come in, that’s your niche, bring excitement to his life, and fill that lonely space, even if it’s for fleeting moments, and watch the cash roll in.
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She.
Delicacy is one of the most desired traits in a Club Girl. Delicacy, femininity, classiness, healthiness, and elegance are the five most important things that clubs want in their exec level girls. The Eastern European and Russian girls that work on the exec levels at the different clubs I know all have ballet backgrounds, they all wear makeup and look a certain way, they're all very precise and have control over their lives, they all dress properly, they speak with soft and gentle voices, and they end up marrying rich. I've spent my entire club career emulating them. I'll refer to them as She because they're so lovely and refined that they're an entirely different class of girl that I've completely idealized.
Delicacy.
She has a strict gym routine and she takes care of her body. She works out, she constantly takes barre and ballet classes, she listens to classical music, she stands with ballet arms, she has perfect posture, she is thin but healthy and was healthy about the way that she became thin, she is mentally strong and in therapy, and she presents herself as a delicate gift wrapped in chiffon and tied with ribbons but she is strong, she knows how to survive heartbreak and rejection easily and she knows how to keep going.
She is not weak and she is never a damsel in distress. She knows that if the man she's giving her time will not give her the thing that she wants, she can easily find another man who will worship and kiss the very ground she walks upon. She presents herself as someone who can and should be cherished and cared but she's capable of doing that for herself because she knows she deserves love and nothing is more satisfying that loving herself. She probably drinks and does coke occasionally but she considers it self care and, babe, it's organic and girls need fun.
Femininity.
She has long flowing hair, she knows how to do her makeup with a soft but firm hand, she knows how to apply first her lip liner, then her lipstick, and then her lip gloss, she knows how to handle her liquid eyeliner to make a fake birthmark, she knows how to add soft shimmer to her eyelids to show her youth, she knows to always have a soft color on her nails, she knows that long lashes and wide open eyes always do the trick, and she knows how to apply just enough blush to add to her alluring femininity. She is a woman and she knows how to flaunt her beauty to the men who admire her and make them obsessed with a glance.
She speaks with a soft and gentle voice. She shows expression through her eyes at all times and gasps at all of the right moments, she knows how to lean in and pout her lips at the proper time, she knows how to place strands of her hair behind her ear and look up at the man she's with through her eyelashes, she knows how to gently toss her hair behind her shoulders and waft a gentle breeze of her perfume towards the man she's speaking to. She knows that she is the epitome of femininity and she uses all she has to benefit herself and ensure her success. She is charming but calculating, she knows her desires.
Classiness.
She knows how to dress herself and choose jewelry. At the start of her club days, she wore black and fully accepted her role as new and young, now that she's experienced, she prefers soft pinks, pearls, delicate jewelry, and delicate high heels. She is marriage minded and so she dresses in a way that will impress marriage minded men. She sometimes arrives to her club wearing fresh clothes from ballet and sits at the front desk doing her greeting and check ins, standing to kiss every one of her men on his cheek and enquire after how his day at his office was.
She knows how to choose and pour wine expertly, she knows how to dance for him, elongate her neck and glide towards him, how to bring all of her sensuality and sultriness into the smallest of motions and gestures, she knows how to stretch her leg out in front of her and bend forward just enough to show a slip of skin as she serves him a drink, she knows his favorite beverages and meals, and she knows that when he leaves the club, he'll be returning home to his $30 million home and thinking of her all night. She is pure classiness and she knows that he cannot get her out of his head once she's entered it.
Healthiness.
Her skin glows with health and she's hydrated, she stretches and elongates her neck to correct her posture, she stands with her breasts just barely pushed out and her arms at her sides, she walks gently and knows how to show off her body as she walks. She's poised, perfect, beautiful, and self aware, she knows that there's no one like her and so she makes sure that she's at her best everyday before she leaves her house because she would never allow anyone to glimpse her at less than the best. She takes immense pride in her beauty and appearance and strictly maintains them.
She drinks fresh fruit and veggie juices, she sucks on ice cubes, she eats healthily but has a cheat day once in a blue moon, she has a vibrator in her drawer because she's sexually healthy, she does yoga and meditates, listens to subliminals, goes on healthy walks in the fresh air, takes care of her hair, dry brushes and oils her body until it glows, and she keeps herself at peak physical and mental health. She knows that if her health is perfect, she will not fail, only success will hurry towards her.
Elegance.
Diamond earrings, quality makeup, designer purses, whitened teeth, plastic surgery and cosmetic procedures, facials and eyebrow threading, Brazilian waxes, gentle perfume, Brazilian and Dominican blowouts, keratin treatments, acrylic nails with gel nail polish, a fur coat once in a while, fitted and tailored clothes, the ability to glide in heels, and dark hair make up dark she is. She had a blonde phase but realized that the bleach and the box didn't suit her, she prefers to show off the fact that she can easily be a bombshell, she doesn't need to adhere to a standard of beauty that doesn't suit her, she prefers the timeless elegance that she knows does.
She makes animated conversation and lets the men surrounding her know that she knows that she's worth it, she flirts unashamedly and with utter passion, she wears lingerie that she can slip and shimmy out of at the end of the night, she's coy and glamorous, and she's sexual without being overtly sexual, she still holds her dress down as she enters and exits cars. She is the image of what she believes a woman should be and men love and idealize her for that, she knows she's wanted, she knows she's an it girl, and she knows that she will always win because there's no game, she's in it to win it and she has no fucking competition.
XOXO,
Renata.
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Hello, Siren. I’m a bartender in a very small town in Michigan and I’ve really been desiring to sugar for almost a year now. I’ve been working on myself and my habits thus far. I have not met any potential ‘sponsors’ yet, but I am working on it! Do you have any ideas for what I could do next?
Most women simply don’t have the social capital for sponsorship.
They’re not even remotely close to that point.
If you’re at the baseline of struggling to pay your rent, pay your debt, pay for your car, and other day-to-day necessities, you’re not ready. If you don’t have savings and a steady stream of income, you’re not ready.
If this applies ... I would highly advise you not to go leaping forward for a man to fund your lifestyle, in the offhand chance that you do get that opportunity, as you’ll most likely take a number of unsavory risks and place yourself in danger.
Sponsorship is highly calculated, more of assuaging your leverage and trading upon the social “value” you create.
In the meantime, let us also dispel of the useless and embarrassing term of “sugar”, which is a long-gone and dead industry that died over a decade ago. It is the most commercially well-known term ... but also the most repelling one, and no one with genuine status will ever use such a term.
Yes, at one point, it meant something, but now it refers to the selling of sex at rates that no entry-level escort would accept, and the extreme violation of women’s boundaries - no screening, no protection, nothing worthwhile. Hustling backwards, truly. Those who remain in the field are far behind, and then wonder why they cannot get ahead. They don’t know what they’re talking about. It is embarrassing.
Let’s leave it behind, in the past, where it belongs.
*As an affidavit, I separate this term completely with the role of being a kept woman, which I consider legitimate.
Now, when you discuss sponsorship, there are two, exactly two, different means of acquiring it.
The first, and the most common, is by escorting.
Why...? Escorting equates to fast money, not easy money, but fast money, that would otherwise be impossible to acquire.
Most of the women I know who became set for life off of sex work, did so initially by escorting, and through this, they were capable of surviving. Nothing fancy, but working as an entry-level or mid-range escort. Paying off their basic necessities, paying off their rent, and then, excess income - they saved $1,000, $5,000, $10,000.
Then you upgrade your appearance, your branding, your persona, and through that, you see immediate results - a higher income. Your skin becomes clearer, you dress better, perhaps you purchase some luxury brands, perhaps you get Invisalign for straighter teeth. Maybe a breast augmentation, a fat transfer. You save more money, get better credit, advance yourself further.
Escorting, when done right, can be like a modern finishing school, since very few industries are so focused on the illusion of status, class, and wealth. Superficial, yes, but doesn’t this occur everywhere ..?
After you cover the basics, your necessities, what you require to survive, then you may contemplate where you wish to go further.
Many women who escort don’t wish for a sponsor, after seeing the often repulsive underbelly of sex work. Instead, they choose to save as much as possible, exit, and pursue genuine independence after having acquired what they needed. Inevitably, a significant portion of sponsors are manipulators in disguise, so question whether you look at things with rose-colored glasses.
But those that do find themselves orienting towards sex work permanently, most often find a sponsor through an escorting client.
After a certain point - if you pay enough attention to your brand, to what attracts clientele to you, to what your most authentic self is - then you should narrow down the appropriate steps to create a close connection with a client or two or three, and they begin to find your lifestyle. They book multiple hours; they book overnights; they give you gifts; they fly you out. Without a word spoken, they provide for you without you having to see them; there is the implication that something beyond the regular appointment exists. The social capital you created through your escorting persona is now translated into something tangible, and you can see it before your eyes.
It doesn’t have to happen immediately... but at a certain point after inundating yourself in the lifestyle, you should be at a point to choose. And you just need one ... that’s all you need. Your “sponsor.”
The second way ... is by being kept.
Certain industries naturally position women to this: freelancing, modeling, acting, entrepreneurship, socialites ... even climbing the corporate ladder, but ultimately, this requires you to firstly, have some access to resources, whether through your agency, corporation, or business, and secondly, to have some ultimate goal to which the sponsor can contribute.
It can be referred to also as dating, but that is not always the case — but what always applies is that men who have made something of themselves will gladly expand resources for a woman they deem worthwhile, for a cause they also deem worthwhile. You play a role that they may sympathize with, and it often is centered on your attractiveness and availability, but it is not escorting and is not quite as rigid as what was described above.
This is more loose-ended and more organic, but also tends to take more time — a few commonplace examples to provide you with some inspiration ...
A model signed to Ford is brought to an after party at a popular nightclub by a promoter she knows, where foreign real estate investors congregate. One of the investors strikes up a conversation with her, they exchange socials, and eventually, she begins dating him - and he funds her lavish lifestyle.
An nanotechnology startup founder searches for recognition in Silicon Valley; in an offhand invitation to a private members club in San Francisco, she encounters a member of the board of directors of a prominent venture capital firm. They strike up a conversation over her aspiring career, and they begin to date. He pays her rent and gives her gifts, he brings her to increasingly exclusive events, and he introduces her to other well-known venture capitalists. She secures seed financing for her up and coming company.
An aspiring socialite centered in London, by the advice of her much wealthier girlfriends, begins to regularly attend 5 Hertford Street and Annabel’s in search of connections. A friend introduces her to a regular attendee, a wealthy, married banker seeking a mistress. They begin to see each other regularly. Skilled in networking, she begins a career as a social media influencer; she begins a clothing brand by an investment gifted to her by the banker.
And I could go on and on, with a million more examples and greater intricacy. For the sake of brevity and clarity, however, I will not.
Now you see here, the importance is less in the way you look, and more in the demonstration of class-based assimilation, and with it, an overall purpose that is status-appropriate. And as always, of course, an exchange of value.
Many ways to achieve sponsorship, no one formula.
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If you are a sugar baby and you have yet to read either of Chris Hadnagy’s Human Hacking books, I can not recommend them enough. I’m listening to the science of human hacking on the Hoopla app for free right now.
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I know you mentioned FiDi but what are some good specific places to go to? And are there any days that are better than others? Thanks girl!
For freestyling, I usually go to bars during happy hour (4pm-8pm) then head over to lounges or hotel bars around 8pm-11pm. I’m usually outta there by 11:30 unless its the weekend then I’ll stay until possibly 1am. There aren’t many places that stay open late in that area. FiDi is a ghost town after 7pm tbh. I wouldn’t suggest any woman travel alone down there, its not safe. So I usually flock towards Lower Manhattan, The Village, the Garment District, Hell’s Kitchen, Midtown, and maybe UES if you’re feeling adventurous.
As far as places, I’d recommend:
- Living Room Bar & Terrace inside of the W Downtown. The place has like 5 floors I believe, The drinks are great & it’s a good place for happy hour. I really love this place, my friends and I go here even when we’re not freestyling.
- Cedar Local. Another great happy hour spot & they’re open until 2am.
- Someone once suggested the NY Dolls Gentlemen’s Club. I haven’t been there personally but it is in the FiDi vicinity.
- Flatiron Lounge.
- Black Hound Bar & Lounge
- Manhattan Proper is a sports bar near the WTC
Well that’s all I could think of off the top of my head. I’m pretty sure there’s more spots & if I come across them in the future, I’ll be sure to share them. Hope this helps & good luck!
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The 15 Pillars of Spoiled GF life
After reading book after quote after post about being a Spoiled GF I found that these are the keys to be successful.
Have your own life and goals
Have your own purpose outside of him
Stay hot and upgrading (Makeup, body, clothes, aesthetis, vibe)
Never stop learning
Stay interesting by concealing some things about yourself
Always say what you want (Learn how he perfers you ask ie make it his idea, make seem like its for him, play damsel in distress. AND learn what he prefers you ask for. Some men don’t mind paying for college tuition, car notes, housing ect but hate when you ask for clothes, shoes or makeup (so you'll have to frame it as if you need it like you need a bill paid)
Learn to Manipulate
Figure out what your target wants (outside of sex) and deliver
Learn how to flirt/Never stop flirting
Stay consistent with yourself
Make a set of rules/boundaries for the relationship
Make a timeline of what you want and when (matterial and emotional) Like College paid in 1 year, 5,000$ in your hands in 3 months, married in 3 years.
Keep a roster of men
Find the right guys by being in the right places
Protect yourself
Of course when you dive into the spefics of each it becomes more complex and must be personalized for each relationship. Easy to understand and remember. Hopefully this helps those that are drowning in books, posts and advice.
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Checklists.
As a full time sugar, I have a lot of things to keep in order.
So, I thought I would share my checklists with you lovely ladies if you
A) Wanted to know what a full time sugar does
B) Needed a reference
or
C) Wanted direction of some kind
So enjoy.
Daily Checklist:
Shower
Leave-in hair conditioner
Lotion
Eyebrows on point
Check websites (SA, WYP, EM, SD4M)
Respond to POTs privately (private email, phone, skype)
Watch news or read up on current events
Workout (I use the 30 Day Challenge workout app for iPhones)
Update calendars (There’s one on my apple account for devices and I keep a whiteboard calendar)
Yoga
Every Other Day Checklist
Run with Lucky (very fat dog of mine who’s getting in shape with me)
Top coat of nails
Shave/wax
Clear out trash in room and car
Record weight (only to make sure I’m within a healthy 5 lb fluctuation range)
Update POT/SD information (details about them, what they’re offering, how much I’ve gotten from them)
Weekly Checklist
Exfoliate
Tan
Record finances (where my money is going, where it’s coming from, planned expenses)
Check on goal progress
Go out with friends at least once for sanity reasons
Weekly day off for sanity reasons
Actually clean everything that needs to be cleaned
Laundry
Plan for next week
Rock climb
Monthly Checklist
Bills paid
Correct amount of money put into savings, emergency, etc.
Check closet organization
Car check up
Read at least 2 books (1 for pleasure, 1 for knowledge)
Lunch with sisters
All POT/SD details updated
Hopefully this is helpful to other SB’s, feel free to add anything or change it to your personal life if you wanted a template. Most things are general, but some (rock climbing, closet organization, sister lunch, etc) are personal.
Oh, and if I left something out you think is crucial, please let me know or reblog and add it!
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SUGAR BABY, SPOILED GIRLFRIEND, TROPHY WIFE YOUTUBE CHANNELS TO FOLLOW 💰
💖 Cyndi Sofia 💖
:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::
→ What About You Is Intriguing? Describe Your “Brand”
→ How to Become a Rich Man’s Muse Replay
→ Are You a High Value Woman?
💖 Michaela Pink 💖
:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::
→ HOW TO MAKE HIM CROSS THE ROOM FOR YOU | FROM GETTING LOOKS TO BAITING HOOKS
→ IF YOU LIKE HIM, LEAVE HIM ALONE
→ MEN FALL IN LOVE WITH THEIR EYES | WOMEN FALL IN LOVE WITH THEIR EARS
💖Pretty Woman 💖
:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::
→ 10 Sugar Daddy Red Flags!!
→ TOP 5 places to meet a Sugar Daddy
→ Sugar Daddy: Sugarbaby Safety Guide
💖School Of Affluence 💖
:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::
→ 10 Ways To Look Expensive On A Budget - School of Affluence
→ How Law Of Attraction Changed My Life - School Of Affluence
→ What nationalities are the most generous, all my previous jobs & the key to a happy relationship!
💖SheRaSeven1 💖
:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::
→ How to Get Money From a Sugar Daddy
→ Act Like the Prize and Weed Out Dusty Men
→ Things to Never Talk About On Dates
💖ZIVA 💖
:: VIDEOS I RECOMMEND ::
→ HOW TO GET MONEY FROM A SUGAR DADDY 💸 Turn A Guy You Meet into Your SD
→ Do you HAVE to sleep with your sugar daddy?
→ How To Get A Sugar Daddy 💰(part 1)
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2020 reading list
The Power of Body Language, Tonya Reiman
The Barefoot Investor, Scott Cape
The Social Climber’s Bible, Dirk Wittenborn
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life, Emily Nagoski
The Men in Your Life, Genevieve Dariaux
Joy, Guilt, Anger, Love: What Neuroscience Can—and Can't—Tell Us About How We Feel, Giovanni Frazzetto
How to Meet the Rich, Ginie Sayles
Pretty Honest: The Straight-Talking Beauty Companion, Sali Hughes
How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, Leil Lowndes
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love, Amir Levine and Rachel S.F. Heller
The New Rules of Attraction: How to Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg for More, Arden Leigh
Light Magic for Dark Times, Lisa Marie Basile
How to Be an Adult in Love: Letting Love in Safely and Showing it Recklessly, David Richo
How to Be an Adult: A Handbook on Psychological and Spiritual Integration, David Richo
Better than Beauty: A Guide to Charm, Alice Thompson
Eleven Minutes, Paulo Coelho
How to be Irresistible: The Art of Seduction (Agent Provacateur)
Insecure in Love: How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It, Leslie Becker-Phelps
Your Beauty Mark: The Ultimate Guide to Eccentric Glamour, Dita Von Teese
The Conquest of Happiness, Bertrand Russell
Carnal Alchemy: Sado-Magical Techniques for Pleasure, Pain, and Self-Transformation, Stephen Flowers
The Courage to be Disliked, Ichiro Kishimi
How to Be an Adult: A Handbook on Psychological and Spiritual Integration, David Richo
A Modern Girl’s Guide to Networking : How to Win Friends and Influence People - From the Office to the Party, from the Boardroom to the Bedroom, Sarah Ivens
Women Who Love Too Much, Robin Norwood
Mastery, Robert Greene
Erotic Capital: The Power of Attraction in the Boardroom and the Bedroom, Catherine Hakim
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy: Your Route Out of Perfectionism, Self-Sabotage and Other Everyday Habits with CBT, Avy Joseph
The Telomere Effect, Elissa Epel and Elizabeth Blackburn
Healing Love Through the Tao: Cultivating Female Sexual Energy, Mantak Chia
Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill
The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism, Olivia Fox Cabane
The Definitive Book of Body Language, Barbara Pease
Games People Play, Eric Berne
The Psychology of Winning, Dennis Waitley
Talking to Strangers, Malcolm Gladwell
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Tips on manipulating men ?
You might not like my answer; but read. Read MULTIPLE works. The goal of manipulation is to change people’s perception of you.
I feel like everyone recommends Ho Tactics and it seems to have been effective. I couldn’t make it past the first chapter though, so I never read it. The works of Robert Greene have great strategy (The Art of Seduction, 48 Laws of Power, 33 Strategies of War) and are a gateway.
My advice would be to look into Philosophy, Psychology & Sociology which make up Social Engineering (strategy, deception, etc.). To get the ball rolling, here are some works that I recommend in no particular order:
The Prince – Niccolò Machiavelli
The Art of War – Sun Tzu
Hagakure – Yamamoto Tsunetomo
Strategy - B.H. Liddell Hart
On War - Carl von Clauswitz
Influence: Science and Practice (The Psychology of Persuasion) – Robert Cialdini
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Dale Carnegie
Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking – Chris Hadnagy
Covert Persuasion: Psychological Tactics and Tricks to Win the Game – Kevin Hogan & James Speakman
Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again – David J. Lieberman
Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World - Jack Weatherford
The Art of Worldly Wisdom - Baltasar Gracián y Morales
It’s Not All About Me: The Top Ten Techniques for Building Quick Rapport with Anyone – Robin Dreeke
What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People – Joe Navarro
Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage – Paul Ekman
A very important thing before you even get into manipulation is learning how to control yourself and understanding why you think and act the way you do. Here’s some recommendations:
Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind – Al Ries & Jack Trout
Thinking, Fast and Slow – Daniel Kahneman
Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions – Dan Ariely
The Social Animal – David Brooks
The Laws of Human Nature – Robert Greene
Philosophy also plays a major role. I quite enjoy the works, and apply some of the philosophical outlooks of Thucydides, Seneca the Younger, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Zeno of Citium.
I don’t know if you were more referring to physical presentation, or body language, etc. for manipulation, but this is pretty solid. You don’t have to read everything, but be sure to read something.
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“Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers.”
― Charles William Eliot
Makeup, fashion and hair
Jet Set Ready: 7 easy Steps to your Luxe, Affordable and Ready-to-Wear Style
About Face: Celebrity Makeup Techniques
Elegance - Kathleen Tesaro
A Guide to Elegance: For Every Woman Who Wants to Be Well and Properly Dressed on All Occasions
Pretty Honest: The Straight-Talking Beauty Companion
Better Than Beauty: A Guide to Charm
The 21st Century Beauty Bible
Your Beauty Mark: The Ultimate Guide to Eccentric Glamour
Bobbi Brown Makeup Manual: For Everyone from Beginner to Pro
Making Faces
How to be Chic and Elegant: Tips From A French Woman
Dating ( general)
Get the Guy: Use the Secrets of the Male Mind to Find, Attract and Keep Your Ideal Man
The Art of Seduction
The Men in Your Life
How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You: 85 Proven Techniques for Success
New Rules of Attraction: How to Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg for More
Why men loves bitches
Love The Psychology Of Attraction
Mama Gena’s Owner’s and Operator’s Guide to Men
Dating wealthy
HOW TO MARRY THE RICH: The Rich Will Marry Someone, Why Not YOU?
Lucrative Love : An Insider’s Secrets to Marrying Millions!
HOW TO MEET THE RICH for Business, Friendship, or Romance
Ho Tactics: How to MindF**k A Man into Spending, Spoiling, and Sponsoring
How to be Irresistible (Agent Provocateur)
How to get a rich man
How To Date Like a Courtesan: Attract, Seduce, and Manipulate Men for Love, Money, and Marriage
Etiquette/ wealthy lifestyle
Luxury: A Rich History
http://eatlovesavor.com/
UltraLuxe Hotels: The Experience Awaits
https://www.instagram.com/cnbcsuperrich/
The Jetsetter Guide: The glamorous guide to living the life ( I wrote this. It is a on amazon)
http://www.legrandmag.com/
http://www.wealthcollection.com/aboutus.html
http://agenceluxury.com/
http://www.realitysense.com/
http://www.departures.com/
http://robbreport.com/
Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic: Lessons in Everyday Elegance
The Little Book of Etiquette
How to Win Friends and Influence People
Career
The Insiders’ Guide to Becoming a Yacht Stewardess 2nd Edition: Confessions from My Years Afloat with the Rich and Famous
The Yacht Guru’s Bible: The Service Manual for Every Yacht
How To Become A Flight Attendant: The Ultimate Guide
The Jetsetter Guide: The glamorous guide to living the life
Property Investment for Beginners
A Modern Girl’s Guide To Networking: How to win friends and influence people - from the office to the party,from the boardroom to the bedroom
Nice Girls Don’t Get Rich: 75 Avoidable Mistakes Women Make with Money
http://www.cnbc.com/2014/02/04/ith-the-coolest-super-rich-jobs.html
The Small Business Start-up Workbook: A step-by-step guide to starting the business you’ve dreamed of
The Financial Times Guide to Investing:The Definitive Companion to Investment and the Financial Markets: )
Forget a Mentor, Find a Sponsor: The New Way to Fast-Track Your Career
The Millionaire Real Estate Agent
Mrs Moneypenny’s Careers Advice for Ambitious Women
Knowledge
1001 Restaurants: You Must Experience Before You Die
1001: Ideas that Changed the Way We Think
Knowledge Encyclopedia
Art: The Whole Story
How to Sound Cultured: Master The 250 Names That Intellectuals Love To Drop Into Conversation
The Business Book (Big Ideas
50 Paintings You Should Know
500 Words You Should Know
The Philosophy Book
The Economics Book (Big Ideas)
I Used to Know That: General Science
A Classical Education: The Stuff You Wish You’d Been Taught At School
Psychology/Social
Uncensored Sales Strategies: A Radical New Approach to Selling Your Customers What They Really Want - No Matter What Business You’re In: A Radical New … Really Want–no Matter What Business you’re in
No B.S. Marketing to the Affluent: The No Holds Barred, Kick Butt, Take No Prisoners Guide to Getting Really Rich
Talk Like TED: The 9 Public Speaking Secrets of the World’s Top Minds
Honey Money: The Power of Erotic Capital
The Charisma Myth: Master the Art of Personal Magnetism
How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships
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NYC Babes (Freestyling Tip)
If you are looking for “Ballers” (Wealthy men, Professional athletes, Agents, Celebrities, and etc.) this is where mostly all the professional athletes in NYC/New Jersey area hang out. The weekly line up is…
• Sunday - “VIP Room” (409 W 13th St, New York, NY 10014)
• Monday - “The Griffin” (50 Gansevoort St, New York, NY 10014)
• Tuesday - “1 Oak” (453 W 17th St #1, New York, NY 10011)
• Thursday - “Haus NYC” (285 W Broadway, New York, NY 10013)
They don’t come out on Saturdays and Sunday’s because of game schedules.
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Need hoe-friends that actually want to go to events, upscale eateries etc.
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I am a magnet for money. Prosperity of every kind is drawn to me.
I delight in the financial security that is a constant in my life.
I am open and receptive to all the wealth in the Universe.
Money is an integral part of my life and is never away from me.
I delight in the financial security that is a constant in my life.
I am an unlimited being accepting from an unlimited source in an unlimited way.
Unexpected money simply falls into my lap.
I always have more than enough money to meet my needs.
My life is full of abundance.
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How to be a Kept Woman
Any woman who dares to suggest that it’s OK to live off a rich man is likely to be dismissed as a traitor by feminists. Yet this is exactly the lifestyle promoted in a new book by Abigail Bosanko. Though the novel is fictional, the author was ‘kept’ by her husband, an investment fund manager, in an elegant Edinburgh mews house while she wrote it. Here, we present Abigail’s guide to becoming a kept woman…
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
BEFORE you even contemplate being a kept woman, know what kind of man you want.
If you want an art historian or collector who works for Sotheby’s, don’t settle for a picture framer, even if he has a string of shops.
Be confident - an intriguing 21st century woman with her own independent pursuits and talents. You want this man to fall in love with your beautiful mind.
HAVE A SKILL
Choose an unusual skill - this is intriguing and sexy. Play polo, or golf (not football - men see women who like football as spies in the camp); have an intimate knowledge of 18th and 19th century courtesans; play an instrument; learn about wine or speak an unusual language. Knowledge of food is always sensual.
SPEND TIME ON YOURSELF
This is something puritans disapprove of, but spending time on yourself - doing your nails, having a massage or a facial, or even just wearing your favourite perfume - is all good for your self-image and self esteem.
UNDERWEAR
Lingerie is psychologically revealing. If a woman is in a happy relationship she has all sorts of fabulous lingerie, but when she’s unhappy she’s got her 90-denier winter warmers, and fleecy vests, because she’s not particularly interested in sharing that part of herself.
Even if you feel like 90-denier, wear something silky that makes you feel good.
CLOTHES
Nurture your curves like actresses Kate Winslet, Catherine Zeta Jones and Marilyn Monroe. There is nothing wrong with being a size 14 - look at Nigella Lawson.
Think Forties Domestic Goddess. Wear elegant, simple, well-cut clothes, such as shawl-collared suits which hug your curves, in neutral tones. And don’t forget your heels.
WHERE TO MEET
The first-class lounge at the airport is perfect. Save up all your air miles and buy a club class seat to somewhere such as Paris or New York.
Hope for a delay, then you will all get to know each other playing Scrabble, with endless free drinks. Fine art, furniture and jewellery auctions at the top auction houses are also perfect.
WHAT KIND OF MAN?
Obviously he’s got to be wealthy, but he’s also got to be discreet. Showy wealth is a definite no-no.
Lots of gold jewellery shows someone who needs to be in a credit card club to feel financially confident. All a man needs is a beautiful watch, or a signet ring with the family crest.
Find out where he has been on holiday. There are two types: if he has been scuba diving in the Maldives or white-water rafting in the Amazon, this shows he has money and a sense of adventure. Alternatively, cushy stays in sumptuous hotels are perfect. If he hasn’t had time for a holiday, he’s too busy to appreciate you.
HIS PERSONALITY
He should have an active hobby - one that shows stamina, which is vital. He should be generous, of course, and protective of you.
He should be well-read and informed, reading at least one newspaper in addition to the FT. Books could be things such as Martin Amis’s Experience, or J. M. Coetzee’s Waiting For The Barbarians.
DROPPING HINTS
In our modern world where women are career- queens, men find this concept odd.
One male friend of Abigail asked: ‘Why would an intellectual woman want to be bank-rolled?’ But when it was explained that it would allow her to follow her vocation, the concept became quite appealing. Start by saying that you would love to be able to pursue your passion as a rare book restorer/ cartoonist/script writer, but can’t afford to. He’ll be impressed and will offer to pay.
HOW DO YOU KNOW HE WILL KEEP YOU?
The first sign is when he offers to pay off your overdraft, then credit card bills, then suggests you don’t go in to work but spend time with him. While he’s at a business lunch he would love it if you went shopping - he will pick up the tab, of course.
When it comes to this sort of arrangement, you have got to be honest, clever and sophisticated.
TERMS
Be bold, be daring, be honest. You need a joint bank account - you set the limit - plus your own personal savings account.
He can buy you a chic mews house, a penthouse flat - or, of course, you can move into his mansion. Ask for accounts at your favourite shops. You also need treats such as manicures, pedicures, chocolates and flowers. Exotic holidays and weekend breaks are essential.
SEX
This is sensual, loving, tantalising sex, not you fulfilling his fantasy - not unless the fantasy is mutual.
When it comes to sex, remember, curiosity comes first. With all the money you now have access to, you can change the venue as often as you like. Instead of going home, book into a five-star hotel. It will never get boring.
GIFTS
You should ask for gifts that are original: ‘A friend received an embroidered silk cheongsam (Mandarin gown) from her lover who was travelling in China.’
Expect a single, beautiful pearl, elegant jewellery, a race-horse, £1,000 worth of Lottery tickets or rare books such as the original Les Liaisons Dangereuses.
HOLIDAYS
At least four times a year, not counting short breaks. Abigail’s husband often takes her to a romantic hotel near the Sorbonne in Paris.
Think skiing in Aspen, scuba diving on the Barrier Reef, a trip to the Galapagos or Madagascar, sunbathing in St Lucia.
He might have his own private yacht, so cruise the Caribbean or the islands in the Mediterranean.
WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR TIME
Write that novel that’s said to lurk inside us all - Abigail wrote hers; finish your art history degree.
Get to know the best restaurants and cafes so you can lunch at length with your friends. Afternoons-should be reserved for shopping or pampering, and evenings with him.
WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR (HIS) MONEY
It goes without saying that you will revamp your wardrobe. Keep champagne, chablis, caviar, organic bread, bacon and quails’ eggs in your fridge.
A bit of philanthropy is essential, too, so set up covenants to your favourite charities and feel charitable towards bone fide beggars - give more to buskers and pavement artists, because they are at least trying.
Send your family on their dream holiday, and treat your man to a surprise trip on Concorde or the best seats at a major international sporting event.
WHAT TO SAY TO CRITICS
Always keep a bottle of champagne in the fridge for your disapproving female friends. They will be extremely envious, so kill them with kindness.
Never apologise about your chosen lifestyle. Don’t brag about it either - it’s not dignified.
END IT
You can insist on an expiry date - a year and a day maybe - but you decide when. Do not return your gifts.
When it ends, put all your overflow cash into an ISA and go on holiday for a month. Go somewhere romantic and beautiful, and take time to think.
You never know, he might follow you there and beg to keep you in a permanent arrangement.
Lazy Ways To Make A Living by Abigail Bosanko, Time Warner Books, £5.99.
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Reading list
1. Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey
2. The Power of the Pussy: How to Get What You Want From Men Love, Respect, Commitment and More…What Do You Want? by Kara King ((Parts 1 & 2)) YES there is a part 2 :)
3. Sugar Daddy 101: What You Need to Know if You Want to be a Sugar Baby by Leidra Lawson
4. Seeking Arrangement: The Definitive Guide to Sugar Daddy and Mutually Beneficial Relationships by Brandon Wade
5. The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce & Keep the Man You Want by Karrine Steffans
6. How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes
7. How To Develop Self-Confidence and Influence Peoplle by Pulic Speaking by Dale Carnegie
8. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
9. Going Down: The Instinct Guide to Oral Sex by Ben R. Rogers
10. Blow Him Away: How to Give Him Mind-Blowing Oral Sex by Marcy Michaels
11. The Power of Eye Contact by Michael Ellsberg
12. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
13. The Satanic Witch by Anton Szandor LaVey
14. What Every BODY is Saying by Joe Navarro
15. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini
16. Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money—That the Poor and the Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki
17. The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want To Leave by Bob Grant
18. Covert Persuasion - Psychological Tactics and Tricks to Win the Game by Kevin Hogan
19. Kama Sutra: Step by Step Edited by Chuck Wills
20. The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan & Barbara Pease
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