thinking about how when you experience a lot of shame in your formative years (indirectly, directly, as abuse or just as an extant part of your environment) it becomes really difficult to be perceived by other people in general. the mere concept of someone watching me do anything, whether it's a totally normal activity or something unfamiliar of embarrassing, whether I'm working in an excel spreadsheet or being horny on main, it just makes my skin crawl and my brain turn to static because I cannot convince myself that it's okay to be seen and experienced. because to exist is to be ashamed and embarrassed of myself, whether I'm failing at something or not, because my instinctive reaction to anyone commenting on ANYTHING I'm doing is to crawl into a hole and die. it's such a bizarre and dehumanizing feeling to just not be able to exist without constantly thinking about how you are being Perceived. ceaseless watcher give me a god damn break.

Binder company untag.com posts shit like this to deliberately trigger young girls body dysmorphia just so they can sell some more fucking binders

If men hadn't oppressed, restricted, raped and enslaved women for the last 5000 years all the ugly, short, balding in their 20s men would have died out by now and I'll never forgive them for that

now that summer is upon us the absolute garbage hair removal ads I'm getting on insta are insane.

all these podcasts and think pieces about the epidemic of lonely men… baby that’s called natural selection

can’t exactly pinpoint where this train of thought is going but there is something deeply insidious about how for years and years, women have been victim-blamed for having their intimate photos leaked because they “accepted the risk when they took the photos” and now we live in a world where we dont even have to fucking take nudes to have our nudes leaked

I swear to god Clorinde better have an exquisite story quest that gives her an amazing personality and backstory because if it's just another Navia story quest I'm gonna lose it

I wish I was in a toxic yuri rn

Everyone is wrong except me. And also my small council of beautiful and moderately-adjusted women. If we disagree on something then it's only because the topic is nuanced beyond your simplistic, profane understanding.

I made a post about male suicide a while back and got a lot of shit.

I just wanted to tell you that a friend of mine works for Samaritan health service for their suicide hotline. She told me a 'funny' story.

The majority of her time is spent screening and blocking phone numbers so that the lines are free for people who need help. Why does she have to do this ? Hundreds of times a day men would call up while masturbating, of course they would only stay on the line if the operator was female, which the majority are.

Men have always taken advantage of women's kindness and they always will. It is not our job.

going over to my minimalist girlfriend’s house and she apologizes profusely for the mess and there’s just a single perfect, fresh pea on the floor of her living room