okay so i’m hanging out w my bsf and her boyfriend (i think) this weekend and she told me not to wear/bring any shirts that show my stomach or my chest. (i bought a crap ton of shirts/tanktops kinda like that since it’s almost summer) like obviously i wouldn’t wear anything like that around her bf to try n get his attention or anything even along the lines of that cause gross, i am NOT like that. but it’s gonna be 80-85 degrees this weekend and to my knowledge, that’s pretty damn hot so like am i in the wrong for like being kind of upset she told me not to wear stuff like that..like idk. im not even ‘upset’ like idk how i feel abt it, but i respect her n her thoughts
not an excuse. when i was 12, i knew what things were okay to joke about, and things that weren’t okay to. she was old enough to know what she was doing