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« She’s a woman you don’t come at her without real money or else just forget to shoot your shot!» he said to his brother about me LOL

Mylene Demongeot, 1960s

I would honestly rather have Salem as a sugar daddy than any of the old fucks on SA

Strategic Sugar Shopping

Whenever I’m shopping with a wealthy man, my primary objective is to use the least amount of time to find something I like, especially if I don’t really know the person I’m with yet and I have no idea how much patience he has for shopping. With most guys there’s a limit to how much fun they’re going to have in any store. There’s always a chance the guy is going to change his mind about the arrangement or get uncomfortable, so I want to make sure I’m walking out with something before that can even happen. Also, if the guy knows that shopping with me is never a hassle, he’ll likely buy me shit more often, provided we continue seeing each other. For this reason, I NEVER buy clothes, shoes, or foundation/powder/concealer when I’m with a man. Basically, anything I would have to waste time trying on, I don’t even bother looking at.

I love luxury as much as any sugar baby on here, but I also know that it’s fucking stupid to carry around a $10,000 purse when I still have $5,000 in debt. When I’m with a sugar daddy, I rarely look at designer purses or anything that is going to depreciate in value with use and time. I know that if I slow down, look for sales, and plan my purchases when I’m alone, I can find luxury brands at a fraction of the price available in any store. And nobody—especially not an older man—is going to know the difference if I make all my major fashion purchases at a discount! I’ve met enough men to know that as long as I look nice, it doesn’t matter what labels I have on. 

Spending someone else’s money on anything marked full-retail price is a waste of a precious resource, especially if you’re still scraping by to make ends meet. The fuck is a YSL clutch going to do for you if you still have to work to make rent each month? Prioritize buying things your really need and can feel good about long-term. Think of shopping with a sugar daddy as an opportunity to make an investment. Get expensive products you could use every day, or a fancy hair straightener if yours is breaking down, or school supplies, or running shoes, whatever. Just make sure whatever you’re getting is a good balance of practicality, utility, quality, and class. 

If you already have all your necessities taken care of, great. Don’t run straight for the red bottoms. Instead, get that guy to buy you jewelry.

Think about it: one of the smartest, safest things you can dump money into is gold and silver. I actually have a small hoard of silver coins that I’ve been sitting on for three years now. Of course, asking a guy to buy you silver coins isn’t exactly glamorous or romantic. So, I always insist on jewelry. Earrings, bracelets, necklaces, whatever; all I care is that I’m getting something made of real gold, silver, or diamonds. Then I go home and I fucking hoard it. I rarely use the fine jewelry I’m gifted because, again, it’s an investment. And let me tell you, it feels damn good to know I have thousands of dollars worth of precious metals that I could instantly liquidate if I ever need emergency capital. When the market for gold and silver picks up, I can sell some and put that money toward whatever I want. Good luck doing that with a pair of scraped up Chanel sunglasses or with that expensive lingerie set when the stitching starts to fray. 

I’m really pushy about shopping. If I’m meeting a guy during normal business hours when I know stores are open, I always suggest shopping to anyone I’m spending more than a few hours with, and I keep asking (sometimes even three or four times) until the guy gives in. (It helps if he’s had a bit to drink.)

As soon as he agrees, I make moves as quickly as possible, settling for the closest jewelry store, and making purchasing decisions within 5 - 10 minutes of looking. I’m not picky about how it looks, or what store it’s coming from. All I’m looking at is quality: karats, carats, and what kind of guarantee the store offers. This is how I recently ended up walking away from a first date with $3,800 diamond earrings. The entire purchase happened so fast, he barely had time to think about it. And really, that’s the ultimate goal: making sure an impulse buy for him is the best long-term decision for you.