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I found out about box theory recently and I found it really neat.
But I don't find it useful personally. The imagery of the box and the idea that the box is individualized don't work for me at all.
So, I thought I would share my personal way of conceptualizing labels.
Essentially, you view all the LGBTQ+ labels as tools in a gigantic toolbox.
You can go through it and grab the tool you want to complete the project you are doing.
Two people may grab the exact same tool for projects that could not be more different.
Two people may grab completely different tools for exactly the same project.
And, of course, two people could grab exactly the same tools for exactly the same project.
And any variation/combination of any of those.
The important thing to remember is that there is no universally correct tool to use. Grab a hammer to unscrew a screw. Grab a screwdriver to remove a nail. Use a tape measure to etch a piece of art. Use 20 different tools for one task. Go wild. If it works best for you, it is the best tool for the job, even if other people would never use it that way. You're the one doing the job, so use the tool(s) that help you.
If someone criticizes the way that you are completing your own personal project, then they are just being annoying and pretentious.
Labels are just tools of self-description. Mix and match them. Use them in unconventional ways. If anyone cares, it doesn't matter, because the labels you use are for you, not them.
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Time for a new long post. A group of some of my favorites I’ve done in 2024 already.
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who needs google when you have a former isb agent in the family
more rebels nine nine!
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I was typing an entire post about food issues and why I don't like wet food, until I remembered that unlike in Dutch, 'wet food' has a specific meaning in English. Just straight up deleted everything bc all I could see myself as was
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You've heard of OTPs and NoTPs, now get ready for...
WOAH-TPs, pairings you never considered but now ship.
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Stop putting DNI on your tags and stop bringing shipping discourse into AO3
AO3 hid the story and asked OP to remove the tag (the fanfic is not even removed) due to the inflammatory tag. That's deserved. AO3 is not a social media for people to fight over ship and chronically online discourse. It's a library. If people keep bringing DNI and discourse into AO3 it'll make the place toxic for writers and reader.
What are you trying to accomplish with putting DNI? Do you think people actually care about DNI? No, it's just making you looking like an asshole doing this
Also AO3 was founded by a Wincest and Thorki shipper. Astolat made AO3 because FF net and other sites keep purging nsfw fanfic. AO3 is literally made for problematique shipper that op don't like.
Then OP doing this? For what? People want to enjoy reading their fanfic not seeing DNI and online discourse on AO3. I hate using the word virtue signaling as it's often used to demean progress but this is what a real virtue signaling looks like 🤦🤦♀️
(I bet op wrote more inflammatory tags on their fic other than 'proshitter DNI get a life' because it take a lot to get your story hidden or removed)
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when you become half-illithid on purpose but the party only wants to talk about Shadowheart’s new hair
#ok so I had shadowheart equipped with a sick ass helm that covered her hair#I had legitimately no idea what my party was talking about with shadowheart’s new look#like for far too long#when did it even happen????#and before you assume I just never have her in my party#I ALWAYS have her in my party#I’m not giving up that sweet guidance ability for anything#also she’s my girl#actually Gale is my girl#but shadowheart is my bff
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