Queen🥵🥵🥵🥵🥰 Ali’s worked so hard for all the opportunities she’s getting!! Ali’s killing it😏

Queen🥵🥵🥵🥵🥰 Ali’s worked so hard for all the opportunities she’s getting!! Ali’s killing it😏

This is a very long one:

I was going down a tumblr rabbit hole and came across and old Binoe page that had A LOT of Krashlyn content from 2019-late 2022. And I came away with a few observations:

1) Ali and Ash were deeply in love. The pics, videos, events, comments to each other, just their sheer history together is overwhelming, and they looked happy, affectionate and just in sync thruout. This idea that Ash was in an unhappy marriage is ridiculous. Bc nothing she ever posted indicated anything close to that.

2) The early Sloane months were adorable, and their captured family moments were so cute and loving. They absolutely doted on that child. She was the center of their world, and they documented so much of her cuteness, and it reminded me of how fun Ash was during this time, and I *briefly* remembered why I liked her back then.

3) I hadn’t realized that makeup artist Alex had been with them for so long- I thought she was new once they got to NY. But no- she was there on their wedding day and before. Also, forgot how close both A’s were to all the Gotham girls when they first got to the team, and how tight Midge was with the whole family.

4) I was reminded of how much soccer connected them, and how it dominated their lives.

I eventually had to stop scrolling bc I got sad seeing how they used to be.

So what in the heck happened?

1) I think Ash was not at all prepared for retirement. She didn’t really line anything up that would be sustainable employment, and not having that identity as an athlete was overwhelming. I’m guessing she had some mild/severe bouts of depression, and despite having an adorable family, she realized it wasn’t fulfilling her. That probably led her to be mean and resentful of Ali, which progressed into outright anger, and bc she’s at her core a narcissist, she blamed Ali for her own sorry situation.

2) there’s been so much talk of, how did Ali not know things were so bad? Well, after all those YEARS together, Ali probably assumed they would work it out. Even after ash moved out, she might have still had visions of repairing her family. Trust me, no mom willing concedes 50% of their time with their kids without a hard core fight. I think Ali was willing to do the work- she just couldn’t give it everything bc she was trying to f’ing retire.

3) those women had a TIGHT group of friends. For years, very formative years. Megan loved Ash. They were effusive abt their friendship. Reliving all their posts back and forth again signified how telling it is that almost NONE of their friend group publicly supported ash. National teammates, club teammates, outside soccer friends (makeup Alex), preschool families- they all gave her the heisman. They didn’t engage in SM, didn’t post pics, really just dumped her like a bad habit. Divorces happen in friend groups- it can be kinda awkward, but they’re grown adults who can make their own choices. And they all very clearly chose a side. And you wouldn’t do that as a friend unless what you saw was behavior so egregious and abhorrent that you couldn’t in good faith support it. And that’s exactly what happened. Ash recently posted something abt friends who chose her over optics, clearly indicating anger at those old friends. Her and Pinoe were at the same event this week, yet no public pics or any indication they interacted. I’m assuming they did, but in the past we’d see evidence of it. She goes on and on abt her new friend group, but it has to hurt a lot that she lost her old tribe. And people that know both her and Sophia- like a Glennon or Foudy, have given the couple no play at all.

4) While I have absolutely ZERO empathy for Ash, I do think she’s gotten herself into a situation that has lots of complications and might not end the way she expects. How do two self involved love bombers stay together once the newness wears off and they are in the mundane realities of everyday life? Ash has 17+ years left of raising kids. And once the kids are doing events and activities, she won’t be able to bail for a week at a time. And eventually she’s going to need to find work. Courts don’t like parents who don’t pull their weight. I think they got caught up in their infatuation, are bonded over their us vs them mentality right now, and once their feelings come back down to earth, it will be a different reality for them. I don’t really care- I don’t wish them any luck. I just think they have an uphill battle.

And my last musing after all this was about how much deep respect and awe I have for Ali. She was served a complete shit burger in the middle of her retirement season. When she should have been riding high, enjoying her last professional soccer games as a player, she was thrown into the worst chaos a person can be in. I will detest Ashlyn forever for putting her in this situation, and not having the maturity to wait it out with Sophia, and let her former wife have her moment. I think back to that Pinoe game where she and Sophia paraded around and my blood completely boils for Ali. I don’t know what happened between them, but the intentional cruelty and vindictiveness Ash showed is so disgusting, it defies logic. I am so thrilled that Ali has moved on, is thriving and has shed this dead weight from her being. I can’t imagine what she’s gone thru, but to see her unbothered and smiling now is just wonderful. I wish nothing but happy things for her!

Okay, I think that’s it! Thanks for reading my dissertation 🤣

Thank you for this anon!!! I appreciate the time you took to write this cause damn this is long😂🔥 I agree though with your thoughts on the situation and honestly the more we find out the more obvious it becomes that Ashlyn is nothing but a narcissistic cheater and Ali’s a warrior and queen who deserves happiness!

Please don’t post picture of the hoes anyone. I’m really trying avoid ever seeing them together.

Sorry💀💀💀💀 i gotta throw shade though

Cheater and the homewrecker

Ashlyn Harris and Sophia Bush attend the 2024 White House Correspondents' Dinner

Tiger king spotted! Or maybe it’s jojo siwa, can’t really tell tbh

All about flaunting the fact that she’s a mom on social media every time she has those kids using them as props but the minute she hard launches her relationship with a homewrecker at some useless event she drops them like yesterdays news. Not shocked in the least.

Yup very on brand for the pathetic self absorbed narcissist- disappointed but not surprised

https://x.com/23metgala/status/1784354584372081083?s=46&t=3EjkIBsTlpBAjW3GOduPUw

Everyone should go leave some nice comments🥰

”How are you still hating on her? They were clearly pals until September.” Sophia literally wrote that Ashlyn was confiding in her about her “broken marriage” in JUNE. There wasn’t a formal filing and Ali didn’t find out (from someone else) until SEPTEMBER. Ashlyn was playing a role of a separated and scorned wife around Sophia FOR MONTHS before she ended their marriage. Even if there was no physical cheating, this is the dictionary definition of ‘emotional cheating.’

THIS. THIS. T H I S.

Ash is trash for a lot of reasons, but one of the biggest? Being a self involved narcissist while Ali was trying to finish out her f’ing career, and having a hissy fit that Ali couldn’t give her proper time and attention during a time period that is already fraught with emotion and sadness. Ash doubled down and LEFT her. All those distractions while she should have been able to be present and really finish out her playing career enjoying the accolades. Instead, she was having to cancel press conferences and explain to her daughter why her other mom moved out. It’s just such callous and cruel behavior- almost hard to imagine anyone behaving that abhorrently. Ash thought of no one besides herself. Any mature, rational, sane adult would have tabled the entire thing until the season was over and everyone had space to breathe and they could have sorted it out calmly. But she didn’t, so she deserves every single bit of this backlash- you reap what you sow!!

⬆️ Absolutely 100% all of this! ⬆️

“Ashlyn was definitely single/separated from her wife at the time … it’s just her wife didn’t know they broke up or whatever”

People come into my asks questioning why I even have this page. Well for starters as we have seen with Sophia’s recent magazine post her team is trying to erase Ali’s side of the story and pretend that the cheating and homewrecking didn’t happen. All of the negative comments on her posts are being deleted and they are actively trying to silence anyone who brings up facts that actually happened (I.e. posts that Ashlyn provided and so graciously shared with the internet).

We can’t let Ali’s story be forgotten. Ashlyn and Sophia don’t deserve the platform they have nor do they deserve to be seen as role models or ‘gay icons’ they are nothing more than narcissists with a victim complex

The article still has me so angry with the whole situation and honestly idk how Sophia can be happy with her self when she knowingly destroyed a family. Ocean and Sloane also deserved better than to have their mom go party all summer and fuck around.

It’s so funny how people were freaking out about Ali “abandoning the LGBTQ community” after her 100% of the population comment.

Yet, here she is proudly wearing a “ur gay” pride friendship bracelet. She hasn’t taken it off in weeks. 🌈

People are so annoying for accusing Ali of abandoning the community - Ali’s said so many times she’s queer and she shouldn’t have to prove anything!

Gonna puke 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

I hope woso remembers what really went down. I want Sophia and Ashlyn to never be able to show their faces in woso spaces without getting bood!!! I hope they get the karma they deserve.

Ashlyn’s proud of her homewrecking whore🥰

No wonder ashlyns been posting the kids non stop….. gotta keep pushing that amazing perfect ‘full time mom’ imagine that SB was praising💀💀💀💀

Ugh- the video interview is even worse. She actually states, I have nothing to apologize for. How is someone so arrogant, oblivious and tone deaf all at the same time? Even if she truly believes that, a gracious, thoughtful person would answer that so differently. She clearly has ZERO concern or regard for Ali, or the kids. The doubling down on the ‘no cheating’ narrative is a horrible misstep. If either woman had, at any point, owned up to what actually happened- emotional cheating at the very least, the fallout would have been so much less severe. Abby and Glennon did it. Pinoe did it- you own it. You say I was someone else and got feelings for another. I couldn’t help it. People can understand that. This drivel she’s trying to push is just outrageous. Sophia is a despicable human.

I can’t even bring myself to listen to that. Sophia and Ashlyn both lack self awareness and are truly disgusting narcissistic humans

You all need to read this interview: she pretty much confirmed that it all started in Cannes.

That she and Ashlyn were talking secretly, behind Ali's back.

Ali has been telling the truth all this time: Ashlyn is a cheater and Sophia an homewracker.

Ali was fuckin right! And she finally got her revenge!

Now everyone knows.

And the funny thing is that it was Sophia who confirmed it by throwing Ashlyn under the bus just for her image! 🤣

That is real love!