when is comes to asexuality and aromanticism you have to be okay with contradiction. one ace person will say asexuality is about not experiencing attraction, another will say it’s about not caring to act on attraction, another will say it’s not experiencing arousal. one aromantic will consider themself queer, one won’t. two people with seemingly identical experiences will use two different labels. aro people will be in romantic relationships, ace people will have sex. you get it.
It's called tortured poets whatever because T swift wrote it by cruelly jabbing a poet with a cattle prod and writing down whatever rando inane utterances they yammered out in their panicked, pained state