Timing is important. There’s many couples right now madly in love and aligned, who wouldn’t be together if one or both people didn’t wait. If they didn’t get out of certain situations. If time was reversed and they were in different mentalities, different bodies and circumstances, their unions wouldn’t exist. It wasn’t the time for it then. But it works for both now. Many folks upgrade later in life. More than we realize. They wouldn’t be into each other as their younger selves. They wouldn’t have been prepared.
In a way it’s kinda sad because it seems like you have to be desirable to be a catch. You must be patient and none of us want that. But it also proves how important potential and growth is. Some ppl are meant to be late bloomers, but they bloom regardless.
We all grow with time. We’re not at our best at young ages. We become more wise. We’ve retained more information. You didn’t know what you know now two years ago. Emotionally you know how to handle things better. You know how to pick your battles and know what isn’t worth the energy. We know what will work for us and what won’t, as time passes. We become more inspirational and have a testimony with age. Don’t rush.