I had a boss who’s legal name was Marvin. His middle name was Scott. He asked everyone at work to call him Scott. People who knew him as Marvin slipped up and called him that sometimes, but he preferred to be called Scott. His employees and peers respected that request. HR respected that request and changed his name in our systems and in his email. It became his name because he asked it to be.
People make the argument that they “just can’t” call trans people by anything other than their deadname because that’s how they know them. Still others will go a step further and say that your self-expression infringes on their rights somehow.
It doesn’t. It’s common decency. Sure mistakes happen; but when someone asks to be called by a particular name, we respect that. If you can do it for cis people, you can do it for trans people.
I get a lot of questions about how I choose colors, and what it really comes down to is: I just play around with the color scheme until I like what I see.
This is a little preview of my latest video which talks about which tools I use to modify the colors! The full video also includes some paint-overs of other people’s artwork ~ those are always so much fun to do ✨ Find it here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/tutorial-colors-98597276
💚💜 SANGCHENG NATION ARE YOU READY FOR SANGCHENG WEEK 2023??💜💚
From the 5th of November to the 11th! Grab a prompt from the daily menu & add some extra sauce if you feel like it (or take just the sauce and nothing else, you choose!). Then show us the food you made by using the hashtag #sangcheng week 23
Remember, this event is for you to have fun! you can do one prompt each day, one prompt for the whole week, use a wip that fits some of the themes and finish it or even none of them and just cheer others about the things they cooked. All creators will be thankful for the support and the hype!
You can start planing your SangCheng dishes right now or maybe just improvise and cook something quick on the week of the event.
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