Can I just say, girls, that you don’t owe your partner sex. It does not give your partner the right to cheat on you if you don’t have sex for a very long time.
If your partner needs sex in a relationship and you don’t want it as much, they may not be the right person for you, but it does not give them the right to betray you and be abusive to you. You deserve respect.
You are no less valid for not having sex as much as your partner wants you to. There is nothing wrong with you. There’s nothing wrong with having a lower sex drive. You deserve all the love in the world. You not “giving it up” to your partner is not a justification for them abusing you.
You never deserve to be cheated on, talked down to, made to feel guilty or bad, or otherwise abused for not wanting sex as much as your partner does and for a partner to make you feel that way is wrong. You always deserve respect regardless of your sex drive.
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