its insane to me that people do not eat their food from bite theyre going to enjoy least to the one theyre going to enjoy most. like you bithes just eat at random? what if the last bite sucks? have yall not suffered enough? 🤨
Using this as a chance to wish Liu Chang the best of birthdays!
Liu Chang || Weibo Update 4.13.24
杭州站圆满成功!谢谢大家来听我唱歌!
我们成都见!// Hangzhou Station was a complete success! Thank you everyone for coming to listen to my singing! See you in Chengdu!
The thing about con crit is so few people know how to give real, honest to god, constructive criticism. That doesn't make them horrible people(1), it just means their criticism isn't going to help a writer improve their work(2).
Still best to say something nice or not say something at all unless you, specifically, were asked
(1) Unless, of course, the reason a critic is criticizing because they want to feel superior and special and hold something over the person they've criticized. In which case, like OP says, "you're an asshole and should knock it off."
(2) Given a writer is actually looking to improve their work. Yet another point to keep in mind. Writing has a different meaning to different people. You're not helping anyone if you force your way past their boundaries in the self-righteous urge to Make Someone Be Better. (See previous point about knocking it off, please.)
the question isn't 'is con crit okay?' that's a terrible way to frame the issue.
the question is 'do fan creators want your con crit?' and the answer is clearly overwhelmingly No!
like, are hugs okay? theoretically, sure. but if you're going around hugging strangers who don't want you to, and they have fucking told you so, then you are in fact an asshole and should knock it off.