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I’m way behind on Tumblr. Barely keeping up on tiktok with Butch positivity.
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This post is dedicated to all former Gleeks who to this day still can't listen to several specific songs without expecting them to segue into a mashup with another specific and tangentially related hit
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
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favorite characters ♡ elle woods
If I’m gonna be a partner in a law firm by the time I’m 30, I’m going to need a boyfriend who’s not such a complete bonehead.
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Ok so today I was on the bus with another trans guy and we were talking about how hard it is to get testosterone. The waiting lists, the price, all the doctors you have to go to, that kind of stuff. Except, we were calling it ’T’, like you do when you’re both closeted and in public.
Then suddenly the elderly lady sitting behind us was like ‘young men, either I’m going crazy or you both have never heard of supermarkets, they have shelves full of tea there! Do you need directions to one?’
To which my buddy starts to explain, because why not. ‘Well you see, we’re both trans, and… ’
The lady didn’t wait for him to finish his sentence. ‘Oh no, I don’t mind that at all! Now do you want to know how to get to a place that sells tea? I’m actually heading there right now!’
We let her take us to the supermarket. We let her show us, excitedly, where the tea was. We both bought loads.
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Come home with me! It’s you! It’s me. Orpheus! Eurydice. Please, come home. I’m not going back alone. But how’d you get here? On the train? Nah, I walked. I walked and sang. But how’d you get beyond the wall? I sang a song so beautiful the stones wept and they let me in, and I can sing us home again. No, you can’t. Yes I can. Are you always this confident? When I look at you I am. When you look at me, what do you see? I see someone stronger than me, I see somebody who survives… I see my wife.
nytw hadestown appreciation → Come Home With Me II (Non-Album Track)
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finally finished up this piece i've been chipping away at all month... mers in love...
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Two braids so they look the same
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i was playing scrabble and i had a B, U, R, G, E, and R and i thought “aha burger, one who burgs, but my mom will never accept that as a word” but then i remembered burger is actually a word
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new scrungly :] his name is marlow and if you know the oc whose name i recycled no you dont.
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Grant Gustin talking about the time he saw Darren Criss perform in Little Shop of Horrors on his last performance | Source
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Another gift for my best friend ever, Amethystine! <3
Our characters, Ília the mermaid, and Accuvier, the squidman.
HGNN I love them so much!
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Ryan Reynolds milking Hugh Jackman for all he’s worth will never not be funny.
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