“I will not have you without the darkness that hides within you. I will not let you have me without the madness that makes me. If our demons cannot dance, neither can we.”

— Nikita Gill

Alice Miller, The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

Message from Spirit 💜

The Star

Be hopeful

Spirit wants you to remember this. When we struggle in life, when we doubt ourselves, when we overthink things, when we feel that our vision is clouded, when we can't cope with uncertainity we tend to lose our hope eaisily which is understandable. But even those times we need to remember that whatever happening right now will not stay like this forever. It will gone, we will be better. Even the times we feel stuck, we are constantly moving. We are constantly learning and growing and moving forward. Just because the situation looks like there is no way around, it is not the truth! Just a perception. Actually there is always at least one way around. Spirit wants to say that to you. Because I guess you needed to hear it.

Don't give up on hope! She is your best friend. Don't leave her like that! Hold her hands. You guys walk together, so keep going!

Message from Spirit 💞

Three of Pentacles

Sometimes we may thought that we don't need any help because it is our own thing or have a hard time to accept help from others, even when it is necessary. There is no such thing as "I don't need any help."

Actually, if you are independent or consider yourself as a lone wolf, still as human beings we need interactions, we need connections and especially help from others. Just because you can do things on your own doesn't mean that you need to do everything on your own.

Let others help you, let others listen to you. Tell them. Share them. I have a feeling that you are isolating yourself from the outer world recently. Sometimes we need to do this and it can very well be helpful but not this time. You were there long enough.

So come out! See people, collaborate with them. Little bit socialize. If it makes it easy, then get help. You don't need to do everything alone. There are people may you are not aware of but ready to work with you.

Nine of Wands

What are you afraid of? What are the things that are holding you back?

A little more courage and confidence is needed, and then you will be there. You may want to stay in the background today. It is not the right time to decide yet. But the questions you should ask yourself are: What are you afraid of? What are your real concerns? What is keeping you from moving forward?

There is no rush, it just takes some patience and understanding. It's a good time to reflect on your fears/doubts/concerns to be able to move forward better.

So... Also the act of service needs to come from a place of heart not from the old belief which is "I need to put a lot of effort into this in order to be loved, validated, appreciated"

Lindsay C. Gibson, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents