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LGBTQ Communities desperately need to FORSAKE people like CancerChaser

I am telling it right now. The LGBTQ movement needs to keep its house in order and cast out their worst people and their best possible choice to ex-communicate is people who are in the same level as CancerChaser.

CancerChaser is a manipulative philandering creep who sexually harasses people he likes. Taken or not. He just is that creepy. But that is just scratching the surface. He goes into serious depths. How about trying prevent others from attending their workplace through guilt tripping? He has done to that one of my best friends and I am beyond sickened by this scummy behavior. How about all the invasive and evasive actions he has done to my friend. We are talking abusing emails, using alternative numbers, and even alternative Facebook accounts. This disgusting creeper even lives a few blocks away from his target as well. He is also a disloyal cheater as well. When he was stalking and harassing his prey, he had another boyfriend all along. This subhuman bully had manipulated my friend so well that CancerChaser was able to convince him to unblock his number. All because my friend had very little amount of friends near him. And the police was useless in this situation as well.

This man has been giving homosexuals and the LGBTQ movement a bad name with his scummy unrestrained actions. Why should CancerChaser be allowed to harass people to his liking? Imagine if instead CancerChaser being gay he was a homophobic bigot, and instead of conducting sexual harassment he was conducting homophobic harassment. This deranged deviant is a 40 year old unhinged man who should know better and yet he acts like a petulant child at people younger than him. And he has been a dirty liar who asks for tons of help but never delivers all the way. Plus taking advantage of kind and generous people all the way to preventing his target from going to an important job is very clearly in the wrong!

His creepiness has nothing to do with his sexual orientation. It is not that he loves the same gender romantically. It is the means he goes about his love being the problem. Keep this in mind.

There is even more to this. CancerChaser simply declared his target to be his boyfriend without any knowledge or consent of the other party. I am pretty sure love does not work that way. I am pretty sure that needs to be mutual for an actual relationship to form. You cannot simply declare someone to be your boy/girlfriend. And when his target mentioned that he was taken, he did not back off and started hitting on him about his butt. This CancerChaser monster cannot even restrain himself. And he is 40! Given what I know about his posts on social media regarding his sexual experiences and how he conducts himself, I believe he actually knows better and chooses be this intrusive and gross at people he wants in bed. And after it all fell apart for the last time, he started harassing his victim and stated that he was never a good friend to him.

CancerChaser is very wrong. All he cares about is his own sexual pleasure and would do anything, including destroying other people’s lives, for own desires and only his desires matter to him. And he is obviously projecting. The favors he asked for are very easy to do and yet he never thanked his victim for the help he received that he begged for. He has no right to say he was any good to my friend. Clearly CancerChaser is the bad friend and there is evidence supporting that. The large amount of emails laced with attachments is proof enough that he is so full of lies. And also, for leaving halfway through a short video game segment and doing nothing with the controller, CancerChaser lied about wanting to play, which makes him an even filthier liar. Anyone who agrees with this CancerChaser is either a liar, a troll, a lover of his, or just as sociopathic as he is.

The LGBTQ community needs to cut this man and anyone else loose. Having people like him around is a massive liability. He is only going to make the entire movement look bad and become ammunition for homophobic bigots to use a destructive example for LGBTQ movement and homosexuals to look as derranged as possible. CancerChaser’s horrible actions hurt the LGBTQ community. And it is important to keep the house in order. Having consistent decency is very important your cause. If CancerChaser is not forsaken, then it makes to community looks very bad. He is as helpful to the LGBTQ movement as Logan Paul is to YouTubers. Cast him out like how the Splatoon community casted out Heavy the Squid.

With the rise of Cancel Culture, CancerChaser deserves a cancellation. If anyone deserves to be canceled, it is creepy harassing monsters like this. People who are so selfish it costs their victims money and opportunities. Until this depraved man changes, he deserves to be alone and single for the rest of his life. This goes to literally anybody out there like him who are disgusting creepers just like that horrible sexual harassing monster known as CancerChaser.

And if he treats adults this way, could you imagine what kind of sick twisted unspeakable actions he would do to children? He has shown that he lacks restraint so I believe that is entirely possible that he might try to sexually harass underage boys as well. If he cannot act with dignity with adult men and cannot restrain himself, he should never be around children.

The full context of the CancerChaser siatuation can be found here: https://walhartonsclub.tumblr.com/post/180955479605/cancerchaser-masterpost

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CancerChaser Chapter 9

Chapter 9 ~ My Final Thoughts

Trigger Warnings: Harassment, Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Emotional Manipulation, Narcissism, Suicide Mention, Suicidal Ideation

First of all I would like to thank everyone who has liked, reblogged, and supported all the previous chapters throughout the entire story so far. You were amazing and I loved how you decided to read all of those long posts I put out there. I have no idea how much was read, but I am grateful I have some audience. I need to be grateful to have some people willing hear me out. And to see that many people have responded so passionately in regards to my question of CancerChaser claiming to be good in the context of everything he did or did not do, made me feel very good inside. All of you who responded made are the highlight of the year for me. From the bottom of my heart:

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!

All of the responses have no real preference to me because I don’t wish to cause infighting or jealousy. I think everyone’s responses equally important. I will pick the most memorable point of the responses to the CancerChaser question. From lettucegarlicbacontomato:

“This CancerChaser guy is doing something called projection. He is taking his own faults and placing them on you. It is clear, with evidence on your side, that CC is the one who never did any good for you and hindered you while you did so much for him that could do himself;”

It is obvious that CC was projecting. He was projecting in his email where he tried to make an empty or poorly aimed threat at me just like he was projecting when he tried to say that he would do the same in regards to me getting the authorities involved. This man clearly cannot handle anything critical coming his way. He takes what negative things he says and throws it back thinking it would hurt them. But it does not apply to me because I certainly do not try to talk to people who cause me trouble especially getting in the way of my job. And if he had anything on me, he would just go to the cops. I warned him simply because I was tired of having to hear from forced interactions by him to me. I thought if I told him that I am going to start getting law enforcement involved, he would back off. He did not; so I tried getting them only to be convinced to drop it.

I looked up the second number CC used to harass me. It led to a shop I am going to have to keep confidential because I do not wish to try to get them in trouble for whatever CC did with one of their phones. I told the person who seems to run the place about CC’s use of their phone. What I got in response was the man suggesting that I should take CC to court over this if he broke the law. Again, I do not have a war chest to do take legal action like this. Hopefully one day I can get enough money for a war chest to respond to CC if he tries anything after the fact or anyone else who is this intrusive like him.

As I stated before, I have never given CancerChaser any interaction whatsoever after responding to his harassing phone call he got through the phone transfer. And months after his projecting email, he went again on Facebook using a different account to send me a message, as I have blocked both of his accounts that bear his real name. I know it is him because the person’s account he used on me has the same surname and through searching CC’s real name would also give you info of relatives and that relative name also appears. I will not disclose details for privacy reasons. Have no idea why the relative would send me any messages to me as I never met the person either, which means it was CC using that person’s account.

After CancerChaser sent me that very atrocious projection email, I started to consider making this tumblr blog to write this story. But I waited until I got 100 followers so people would know what was going on. I got much more. A few paragraphs in the introduction was my progress when CC messaged me. And from there I knew I HAD to write and post this. There was A LOT of interruptions that happened behind the scenes that were unrelated to CC or the writing of the story that got this delayed constantly. I initially had a goal of finishing this by end of June or July but when I covered Chapters, it took a huge amount of time for me to finish each Chapter and I learned the real nature of the process the more and more I started working on them. I had to format, check spelling, think, double check details, cross reference, review drafts, look at files in relation, search my emails, and tons of other things. All of this on computers I used on a library and computer labs. I also had many interruptions take place, family related, as well as staying on top of Pokemon Go. Each month Niantic had a Community Day where certain Pokemon to catch showed up in mass with a shiny version possibility. As well many other Pokemon Go events such as Raid Days for Legendary Birds. I also had busy things to do, such as working volunteering in conventions and scheduled meetups. And finally when I went to the library in October, there was a hiring event for me to get a job and I applied. I did not expect to get hired because I applied to many jobs and got no followups and to my surprise I got hired. So the job I received had taken a ton of my time so that caused Chapters to pushed even further and I was working on the 7th one when it happened. I even lost my flash drive containing my files, but luckily I had posted many Chapters and still had access to the emails and other similar evidence.

All of this is why it took the entire year for me to post all of the story by now. I wish I could have finished it earlier, but again, I used borrowed computers to type this up. It seems to be old news by now, but given the limited time to use computers to write this in a competent manner combined with interruptions there was no way I could have posted everything before without doing costly measures.

I know this may be an old issue by now and it may true that CC has not interacted with me since the Facebook message, but that does not exonerate him. What he did was wrong and immoral. No amount of time can change the fact that his harassment was very uncomfortable and it was very vile of him to get in the way of my job and then start harassing me with hateful messages and willingly sending me very derogatory and hurtful emails. All of what he did is very reprehensible and he needs to be held accountable for it. And also consider 2 facts: First that he lives near where I live and knows my location, which makes his harassment much scary in context; Second, he waited months between the email and Facebook message. Do I need to mention how he called with another number? The man has proven that he lacks restraint. For all I know he has a plan to hurt me even more. I think he is playing into the waiting game very well and is trying to wait longer times so he can use the time as an excuse to keep harassing me and I truly believe that. Just because it happened a long time ago does not make it correct and justified. Especially when I could not be able to post this entire story in its full context in a week.

Would racial slurs and death threats be completely invalidated if they were reported later with actual evidence? Where was Hulk Hogan’s “it happened a long time ago” card? It did not work for him when the WWE scrubbed him off their records for a while over his racist candid comments. Also some of the incidents that occurred that were reported later in the NotSoAwesome document of #ChangeTheChannel are in fact up to 8 years old when the document was compiled. Not to mention none of this kind of waiting a long period of time rhetoric has been properly defined despite its strong enforcement. When is the grace period I can properly report incidents? I would love to know so I properly dedicate all of my life to post the exposure and set ALL OTHER IMPORTANT MATTERS aside so I can make sure this issue is resolved, just like how I made sure to redact CC’s identifying details, and telling the truth as I remember it. I even had the “happened a long time ago” excuse used on me when an incident was 2 weeks old. Not to mention I still have nothing but resentment towards CancerChaser because of all the harassment, exploitation, bullying, and everything else has said and done or did not do to me and I still feel none of what he did is justifiable. He literally asked me for endless favors and then told me all of that meant nothing to him because it was never good enough and I proved that with evidence last Chapter.

I have seen CC several other times after he told me how much a worthless scum I always was to him. But I made sure to never even interact with him. Anytime I see him in person, I either run away and take refuge hidden somewhere, or stay inside until he is far away from me. I have seen 5 times this way and the latest is November 7th. I even avoid even approaching the surrounding area where he lives and get off the bus many blocks away to minimize encounters of him. I consider his area of where he lives to be a danger zone.

I will continue to refrain from ever contacting CC ever again. I seriously do not care for him trying to get the cops on me because I have nothing to fear. If they did not care too much about my evidence filled case then CC would have a lesser time. I am posting about him because I need to bring public attention to this horrendous situation as a precaution of disturbing and suspicious creepers such as CC and what to do with disturbing situations like this. These henious actions need exposure as a precaution for people to consider if they get targeted by these kind of creepers. Chasers that are intrusive are very potentially harmful and CC definately proved that. And if that is not enough. I recent found this story of youtube channel illymation who described her story about her creepy abusive boyfriend who lived in California. Watching her story was touching because her recounting her bully gave me flashbacks of CancerChaser. I feel very sympathetic of Ilyssa and her coming with what she went through. I will leave links to the 2 current parts of her story.

“How I Met My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend” by illymation

“How I Left My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend” by illymation

Like Harris, CancerChaser has caused some serious problems for me and certainly is a menace around my local area to me. Here is a list of problems caused by him and his other potential problems:

This man’s location as stated many times is very close to mine, making him less avoidable. This makes seeing him much more likely. We kept seeing each other frequently when we were on better terms and after his most horrendous actions meant I needed to make sure to avoid him. Even though I do avoid his street, I have seen him close my home this year; but also seen passing past the library, seen him passing past the pizza place I was in, saw him coming out a gym, and finally I managed to find him when I was buying envelopes. And all of those times I tried actively to avoid him. Him being located this close is hazardous for me. I already know how he abused my phone number and email. God knows what else he can do to me beyond that.

I also have mistaken several people who have a similar body or look for him, which caused me to be scared until I noticed that it was not him by looking at the person long enough or hearing them speak. This complicates the problem. A problem that would not exist if CC did not abuse me as he did.

I also need to take people like him into account when I meet new friends. Before CC, I would have love people reaching out to me and be my friend, but after that, I now have to suspect such people.

His manipulation tactics are another hazard. I have later seen these gambits used again on me from beggar con artists in NYC. I literally had to deal with someone asking for a handout from me and tried using word for word that CC used where he ironically got me to stop liking him forever. Which ties into the previous point. What if I make a new friend and he/she acts manipulative to me in a shady leechy way? I already have a good idea of what to expect from them. He used me and I feel very exploited by what he did. How many other people will never appreciate what I ever do for them? I try to give credit when its due when I am able to. Not only did CC never gave me any credit; he also outright told me I was a worthless. Want to read that last line of the email again?

This last one actually does not apply to me, but would apply to anybody who are unfamiliar with gay people. CancerChaser’s actions as whole are a monumental disgrace to all homosexuals everywhere and can potentially set the LGBT movement far back. I am fortunate can identify CC as an outlier and can separate him from homosexuality, because I have met some wonderful gay people who are leagues superior to even CC at his best. One of them treated me with generosity and I told him how very grateful I was to him and I will never forget what he did. Another was nice to me, hosted a wonderful event I participated in, and gave me a drawstring bag. So I know not to judge LGBT community just by CancerChaser’s terrible actions. I can separate him from his sexuality and not judge any gay person from this just because they have the same sexual preference. But imagine if CC was the very first gay person someone has ever met and he gave them the same abuse and forcing that I received from him. Now add in all the negative stereotypes, prejudice, stigma, and all the homophobia in regards to being gay: CC’s abusive and manipulative behavior can make people homophobic and this is just very wrong. CC is the worst kind of person to meet if you are neutral or biased against homosexuals. The LGBT community has enough problems as it is, they need to never be characterized as harassing bullies, selfish leeches, or unrestrained creepers, that is the last thing they need. All of the struggles to come out of the closet are hard enough. CC brings nothing but dishonor to men who love other men. In my subjective opinion, he is by far the worst homosexual man I have ever met in my entire life.

I need to now answer another question he asked. Specifically his response to when I was nervous around him in the beginning of 2017:

“Who I am? Count Dracula.”

No. CancerChaser is not Count Dracula. Count Dracula is a fictional character created by Bram Stoker. He may be a predator who drinks blood of his victims, but he is not a real human being and he incapable of hurting real people. CancerChaser is a real person who I consider a real terror. From his persistence of harassment, to his overgrown petulant behavoir, his blatant disregard for responsibility, his parasidic behavior, and lack of self awareness; I feel he is a dangerous person who hurts people in real life. Unlike Count Dracula, CancerChaser is not a character in popular media, he is a real legitimate person I have actually had experienced. And I find him to be miles scarier than the Dracula character can possibly be.

CancerChaser does a massive disservice to homosexuals everywhere. He is to gay people as Osama Bin Laden is to Muslims. As far as I’m concerned, he is the Momokun of the LGBT community. CC is pretty much the Bear equivalent to the likes of video games such as: Action 52, ET, Sonic the Hedgehog 2006, Sonic Boom Rise of Lyric, Superman N64, Zelda the Wand of Gamelon, and Big Rigs.

He managed to outdo every person who had wronged me throughout the time we knew each other and every person who hurt me in the past since 2008. J. The junkie beggar. The abusive paramedic. That one psycho I had to deal a year before I met CC. Hell, I was treated better by people on the streets who wanted to beat me up than how CC treated me. I got better courtesy from people yelling profanities at me in person and pressuring me out of my money. And at least J, the abusive paramedic, or everyone else I listed in this paragraph never abused my phone number or email, something CC definitely did on both fronts.

He was hardly any good to me. Friends I already have and have met later already outrank him. The reason I wanted him to play games with me is because everyone was and still is very busy in their respective lives and now I am, too. Complete strangers have done much better than what CC has done at his best. When one of the most positive things about him is that he is not a theif, that is just sad. But even if he was better to me, his attempts to get me to leave my job is still very immoral. I have people in my local area who play Pokemon Go and we help each other all the time. The people in the local raid group give me rides to the raid areas when they can and I find them to be valuable. If I treated them like how CC treated me, with such reckless selfishness; I would be excommunicated. I would recieve much less help from them and my experience would suffer.

I need to reiterate that one girl who I claimed was my girlfriend to CC in vain attempt to get him out of my life. She was a girl I wanted to love and I met her in college. She rejected me and unfirended me on Facebook. After that I left her alone. I never spoke to her again. If I treated her the same way CC treated me, with that kind of selfish lust and controlling demand, I would get restraining orders and might get in serious trouble with the college.

I would rather live out in the cold in negative farenheit degree weather than to ever even approach his home. He is just that toxic. I have never had to deal with someone this horrendous in my adult life ever.

That is pretty much the end. I have nothing else to say about CancerChaser. So I will end this Chapter and story with this paraphrased and modified quote from UrinatingTree, Because the tone template fits my feelings of CC and all what he did to me these past 2 years.

“Congratulations to CancerChaser. He has acted so horrendous that every other offender that I had to deal with this decade can walk with their heads held high as they didn’t conduct themselves in such putrid selfishness. His terrible behavior convinces people to hate everything pertaining to homosexuality to the point of 1860’s era bigotry. This man is better off shunned from any LGBT community. People may think he represents the worst of chubby chasers, but I call him a travesty upon the human race who just happens to fetishize overweight men, He has hurt too many people and should be ashamed for it.“

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CancerChaser Masterpost

I’ve been dealing with an abusive local creeper and I need to come out with this story now. Rather than identifying his real name, I gave him the name CancerChaser for legal reasons.

This Masterpost is an abridged recollection that gets to the point. Each of the 9 Chapters and the intro have links that go into depth of what happened in their respective posts. All of this story is real and non fiction.

Intro Introduction to me and CancerChaser, my perpetrator.

Chapter 1 CancerChaser reached out to me be for us to become friends, or at least that is what I thought at the time. We bond for a few months.

Chapter 2 CancerChaser reveals that we are in a relationship after months of never telling me outright about it. Then he became abusive to me when I politely suggest him a smartphone.

Chapter 3 After we reconciled, he would later lash out at me in public and claim that I was laughing at his feelings. He also asked for money from me after I asked if there was anything I could do for him.

Chapter 4 I made the mistake of giving him another chance, only for him to get jealous of treating a closer friend with less anxiety. I still make the mistake of accepting him anyway. I would eventually learn how costly that mistake was.

Chapter 5 I started doing many favors for him. He often asked if he could send me pictures from his phone to his email. When I ask him for favors, he never is in the mood and when he does do one favor, he left halfway through it. He then harasses me through email.

Chapter 6 After the last falling out, he calls me with another number and uses manipulation to coax me to unblocking his number. Another mistake I regret doing

Chapter 7 CANCERCHASER GETS IN THE WAY OF MY JOB! He demands that I take time that was already booked in advance for my job to come see him and puts the pressure on me by asking if I don’t like him anymore. This was the final straw, I had enough of his heinous attitude and cut him off for good.

Chapter 8 CANCERCHASER SENDS ME HARASSMENT I NEVER WANTED! After a phone repair and transfer, he calls me right after to give me hateful abusive harassment. Some time later he sent me an email telling me how much he never appreciated anything I ever did for him while claiming to be a good friend. I end the chapter with a question to ask if he was truly a good friend or not.

Chapter 9 My final thoughts on this situation.

Initially drafted June 21st 2018

Here a mirror a friend of mine posted. It even has the color coded incidents on the chapters like I originally wanted.

His thought on the matter.

3/5/2019: CancerChaser’s newest harassing email - He thinks I am subscribed to his YouTube Channel and makes the same threats as before.

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It is 2019 and I am still getting harassment from CancerChaser

On February 11th of this year, I was walking home from a job interview. I saw CancerChaser pass by a block, so I turned away and backtracked to walk away to make sure to let him pass first so I can get home safely. I turned around and I saw that he was gone. I took a look at a corner to see if he nearby and I saw him talking to someone. As soon as I saw him I started running home. I never followed him.

3 days later (February 14th), I was at a local park. There was a Palkia raid in Pokemon Go that took place at the park. The park in question is a few blocks away from both my location and CC’s, it is also on the opposite direction of CC. The raid in question started around 6:26 PM and I went in with my local raid group around that time. I have logs of the group chat to corroborate this, in fact. After we have finished the raid, I noticed CC on the street side of the park while I was sitting on the bench around 20 feet away from him. Right after that I put my head down and focused on catching Palkia. After catching Palkia, I noticed CC was gone and I left further in the park away from the street.

February 19th CC sent me this harassing email. Only noticed it now (March 5th) because I periodically check if CC sends me emails in case he happens to do so. I never respond only keep the emails to document.

CancerChaser’s latest email

“Stop subscribing to me on Youtube you nasty, FAT ASS WHALE “

I am not subscribed to him on YouTube. If I am, which account is it? Why would I subscribe to someone who exploits me, harasses me, and sends me bullying messages like this unprovoked? I have him blocked everywhere. Why would I subscribe to a local stalker like him? Especially if he tells me I was never good to him.

Calling me a nasty fat whale in Caps. What a strong moral character. No way toxic at all. Gotta love the fat ass shaming, despite 2 years ago wanting said butt.

“You are a deranged stalker, “

You cannot have a CancerChaser moment without projection. That is like a modern Nintendo platform without a Mario game. I never sent any messages to him since 2017. Yet calls me a stalker. Again, I have not sent messages to him calling him a “nasty, FAT ASS WHALE” or “ I was a good friend to you, but you were NOT to me!” or calling his phone to tell him “ Go F*** Yourself.” . The only solid lead he has is that he has seen me on the streets, but that is highly probable because we live several blocks from each other. I make sure to avoid his street at all costs. If the bus I board passes by his home, I make sure I am 4-5 blocks away when I stop and go further away from his street on my way home. I know where he lives, so if I was really stalking him, he would likely catch me there. Never closer to where I live or anywhere else.

“I saved all of the threats that your “friends” sent me on Facebook and I will be contacting the police if it persists.”

Very interested in those “threats” received on Facebook. Interesting choice of words. Also gotta love the quotes around friends implying I have none despite meeting one of mine IRL.

“I know people in the [redacted] Police Department, so you had better watch yourself you pathetic ass wannabe b****!”

As you can probably tell, this is a poorly done intimidation tactic. Seriously, the email he sent me was pointless. If he was actually serious, he would send me nothing. He would go straight to the police. He knows my info so he can get the cops if he has strong proof to warrant my arrest. If he really knows people in the local police department and he brings up his side of the story of me “harassing” him, they would tell him that to not engage with me and to not divulge information about this, like what he is doing on the email. The insults at the end also do not help his cause, either. Making threats like that is shooting himself in the foot.

This creep will never stop. I doubt he knows about this blog yet. Nothing that points to it is referenced at all. Again, I never have interacted with him after the last email in 2017. Very odd that he said absolutely nothing after April 2018 but suddenly get an email in February 2019. I suspect that he was waiting long periods of time to get at me over and over and here it is. As stated in Chapter 9. I totally called it.

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CancerChaser - Chapter 8

Chapter 8 ~ Harassment and the Reveal of True Colors

Trigger Warnings: Harassment, Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Emotional Manipulation, Narcissism, Suicide Mention, Suicidal Ideation

Before I get into the harassment that CancerChaser committed after I cut him off for good, I need to mention the conclusions of the Super NES launch party and New York Comic-Con 2017, the events surrounding the incident where CC was trying to get me to leave my job for the purposes of getting me into his home without trying to compromise or ask for proof. Proof which I provided at the end of the Chapter.

The Super NES launch turned out good for me. I left the night before the wristband distribution to secure my place in line. I was around ~50-60 place in line. I actually tried to sleep in the line but failed. Had a bunch of naps but I actually got insomnia. 2:00 EST the store put out a tweet that the wristbands were going to distributed early, 2:15 EST to be exact. When I saw this tweet, someone in front of me got went away and I had to message him to come back ASAP. He did return fortunately. Both us did get wristbands, but around 5 people behind us, they were people cutting the line there.Wristbands were abruptly ended there. The store put out a tweet that they “ran out”. The commotion over the wristbands was very huge to the point that police was called. I was told by the people from the store to leave the area for safety concerns. I went to the nearby Starbucks.

The situation did resolve itself. Everything about the situation with the wristbands is covered here.

The rest of the night went well. I had fun at the party and I was able to purchase my Super NES Classic at midnight. Played for 30 minutes and home and fell asleep after 30 minutes.

As for the connections. It did not amount to very much initially, I did get some help with some more volunteer employment and a short paid gig. I did get invited to some Facebook groups. The meetups were ok. A few seminars, one of which was in regards to selling on Amazon. I worked at a TVFestival that I received a Job Opportunity at one of those connection meetups. Even though I did came up empty handed, I did get a few more jobs in my resume. And given that I got hired very recently, I think those meetups were very handy. So in the long run, it was worth it.

I attended the Crew orientation of NYCC 2017 and received shirts and my badge. There was traffic and I checked my phone and found that CancerChaser called me earlier but I did not received the call because I blocked him shortly after I cut ties with him. Here a screencap of it. Notice that there is a Blue “No symbol” next to it, compared to the others that have none. This is one instance of the harassment after our most recent falling out. It will get worse later.

New York Comic-Con 2017 was amazing for me. Met some new friends and many cosplayers that were amazing. I only had some hours to enjoy the convention but they were good. Most of my time was spent working. I was able to meet a celebrity who played a character I loved as child. His photo was expensive and it took days for me to think it over but I went with it because I felt he was worth. I think it took so long because I did not know his price. Once did, it took the next day for me get the selfie.

First day of working was great, but I was immensely nervous. I managed a room filled with parents with their kids. The next day I looked over another room with fellow co-workers. The next 2 days I did Photo-Ops. I scanned photo-ops of attendees so they can get their digital versions of the photos they took with their respective celebrities. I found this con to be very enjoyable overall. But my anxiety stayed consistently high.

However, hours after the convention was over, my phone kept shutting down randomly. The battery was inconsistent. A few days later, it would jump from charging at 50% to sudden 100%. Then drop to 67% a minute later. Another instance is when I had a portable charger charging and I actually saw the battery decrease in real time by the second. Eventually, my phone stopped working effectively. It would turn off right after a full charge and display 0 or 50%. It was that inconsistent, unstable, and unusable.

So my phone broke again. This time it was different. When I broke my phone last time, it was due to impact damage. After that, I took better care of my phone, learning from last time. The way it was broken this time was completely different. Next day after my phone kept going on and off, I took it for repairs. They could not do anything about it because it the battery has “expanded”. Th heat from the phone being used/charged cause the battery to expand. And apparently the battery liquids have spread over the phone. So it was time to get a new one.

Around the next week, I got a new phone to replace my now broken one. Going forward, I would turn the phone off more often and not leave it charged overnight anymore. So I made the phone account transfer process after I got my new phone.

Shortly after the phone transfer was completed, I got a phone call from a number I did not recognize completely immediately. I picked up the phone and it was CancerChaser. Apparently, CC’s number got unblocked when my new phone details got transferred. There is no way, I would even think about unblocking him at all. Especially after CC got in the way of my livelihood for his selfish pleasure. He called in through sheer luck and timing.

{9} CancerChaser in a aggressive, hostile tone said “Yeah” and asked if I really thought that he only thinks for himself. I was caught on the spot and not being prepared to deal with stupid nonsense from invasive harassers like CC; I was trying to move on with my life and focus on important matters. CC is the one who called my number to harass me after I told him that I wish to never speak to him again. This is an invasion of my life from CC. In my unguarded state of mind, I replied “Yes”. He told me the following quote and hung up.

“Go F*** Yourself.”

This is clear cut harassment. CC called my number for the sake of giving verbal abuse. Is there is any indication that I did not truly mean what I said when he was selfish? This was weeks later. I did not call him at all afterwards, nor did I sent him any texts to that number. I wanted nothing to do with him. I filter what I say very often and never called him selfish until he finally made me chose between him or my job. His self awareness is almost non existant. There is no way in any time period after the texts I sent him that I would change my mind about him only caring for himself.

Even though, I was unprepared, I did mean what I said through text and what I reiterated over the phone; and it has never changed nor will it ever. What kind of person starts asking emotional manipulating questions when they are told that the other person has a job and cannot help at that time? How many forwarding emails have I ever done for him? How many times has he returned the favor for me, when i asked for gaming companionship? I should have shouted at him over the phone, hung up, then blocked the number.

Now going back to the time he tried to call me on October 4th and his call got blocked. Notice the 7th symbol on the top left corner of the screenshot. It is a “No SIM card” sign. It came from the source phone of the transfer. So not only is this evidence that CC tried calling me for harassment, but also proof that a phone transfer did indeed happen. Not to mention, the calls on the log, which shows usage, proving the transfer further. So it is not a convenient excuse to why I “suddenly unblocked him”, that has to be done manually on the same phone and highly unlikely accident.

Here is a clearer example of the “No SIM card” sign.

Rather than trying to call him back for his leisure of talking over me and hanging up, I sent him an email to give him one last warning to try to get him out of my life.

This is the email and his reply to it.

“Contact me again in any way again and I will alert the authorities. Leave me alone. I don’t ever want to see or talk to you again. Stop calling my number or the police will respond.”

I need emphasize that this email was the last time I have ever tried to contact him. I have never sent him any messages to him after this. No email, phone calls, text messages, or anything like that. Nothing. I never ever said a word to him in real life after I cut him off, either. To this date I made sure to never talk to him ever again on my end.

“And I will do the same!”

Very interesting reply. Stating that he would alert the authorities, if I spoke to him in any way. As if I was harassing him. Except I am not the one who has done some invasive atrocities such as:

Evading the block using another number and asking to unblock original number.

Calling me randomly and being able to reach me because of technical repair situations.

Sending me hateful emails or phone calls following the times I wanted nothing to do with him.

That is all his doing. I have no reason to ever speak to him at all. He was manipulating me and abusing me for almost 2 years of our friendship which only ended because he got in the way of a job. Any notion of me harassing him is laughable. Does he have any good proof that I harass him? I stated many times I wanted him gone. Why would I tell him anything? The email was because he called me, hence a response.

I warned him about the police because clearly he is the one trying to override boundaries. I do not work for or with him. He is not family. He is not my landlord. He is not part of any city/state/federal government or law enforcement. Most important of all, he is not my boyfriend. And I never gave any consent to be his boyfriend or was even aware at all of any relationship with me and him. Even if I was his boyfriend and he tried to get in the way of my job, I would have cut the relationship off and be clear about it to him. I also have no legally bindind contracts with him either. He called my number to insult me weeks after I told him and I quote “Please never talk to ne (me) again.“ Very first line of the texts. Also, Keep in mind, he lives a few blocks away from me. It is CancerChaser who has problems ignoring me, thus justifying the need for law enforcement.

Something tells that he at the very least he knows he is doing wrong himself and using that in an interesting way. That will also play out again.

Afterwards, I was feeling scared for my life. CC injected himself into my life and now that he knows he cannot have me, he might go and possibly kill me. What else was the purpose of his verbal abuse? I had nightmares, night terrors, sleepless nights, panic and anxiety attacks; all kinds of symptoms of fear from this man. After all, he called me during an unguarded moment when I was busy carrying on with my life moving on; I had no knowledge that his number got unblocked and only answering a number I did not recognize. His location of where he lived alongside the fact that he used a different number to call me before to evade my blocking does not help either.

Eventually, I told some of my closest friends about CC’s actions. One person who I will dub AA, decided to speak out about this. Seeing the context of what happened and how I was feeling, he tried to spread info about this situation on several groups as far as I know. I only know about the posts that was posted on groups. Going to be honest, I did not like how he handled to situation. He was very hasty when posted about it. But, AA had good intentions, just needed a bit of guidance on how to handle these situations. I was able to get the post he put about this situation

Here is the post with the redaction of [CC] replacing his real name:

"I honestly did not want to post this but this is a serious problem.

[CC] needs to stop stalking a specific person that I need to keep private. He was told never to talk him again September 27th and yet he kept calling back at at least twice. He has 2 numbers and he used them to stalk his prey. If he keeps trying to stalk this person again, police will be called. I need to bring this up because [CC] is persistent stalker and his actions caused panic attacks and loss of sleep for his target,”

The quoted post was in the opinion of the individual I dubbed as AA.

CC found this message. But did he contact AA? No. He blocked AA with no word to him. Instead he sent me an email about it. He harassed me again. Keep in mind, I did not post that message. I also did not send him anything. No contact from me. CC sent me an email over a message about his harassment of me and how he needs to stop that.

This email is one of the most vile, yet revealing emails I have ever received. Here is a link to it, but I will save covering it until the ending part of this Chapter. Let’s just say there is a reason most of the previous Chapters and this one have instances curly brackets ({}) appearing during specific crucial moments of CC’s actions. It is leading to this email.

Moving on, I took the emails and the texts and brought them to the police. I told of the context and they told me to go to a different office. I went to that office the next day because it was closed by the time I went to the police. The next day I was simply given papers and told to fill them out and come back the next day to present them. I talked to my family about this situation and they told to not pursue him over this because it was too expensive and time consuming to handle a potential court case regarding CC’s harassment. I had to let the reporting go.

One of the things CC likes to brag about is how he was there for me when I was possibly going to be kicked out of my home and how I threw myself on the floor. I did the same thing when I went to see another friend in her home. Only this time CC was the problem. He truly sees himself as invaluable, even though other friends did the same as what he did only without the abuse, manipulation, harassment, trying to get in the way of a job, and the claims he made in the latest email he sent. My friend simply told me to ignore CC and try to forget about it.

Now it is time expose CancerChaser for everything he did to me and to prove what kind of a person CC truly is.

The Email Link (again)

“Tell your friends or whoever to stop posting s*** about me on FB.”

Coming from someone who called my number after I cut contact with him, told him I want nothing to do with him, and then blocked him. He reaps what he sows. If he did not want this, then he should have not tried to call my number to abuse me. Have pent up aggression? Take it somewhere else. Vent. I NEVER wanted to hear from him about ANYTHING he had to say, he forced himself on me with the phone call I never wanted. A call that was blocked until a transfer did not transfer over the blocked number list. What gives him any rights for him to do this?

“I do NOT try to contact you, nor do I have two numbers.”

Wrong and Wrong. Here is the most relevant definition of Contact in regards to this context.

communication with someone, or with a group or organization:

And here is Communication

the process by which messages or information is sent from one place or person to another, or the message itself:

Calling my number is contacting me. And he knows it is my number. That is definitively a “try”. And the October 4th attempt was also that, too.

And it does not help that he sent me an email, which also is contacting as well. In regards to a post about something he did, by someone else. As stated before he did not speak to AA. He went directly to me.

So yes, he did contact me and did it again. Since this is after I told him never to talk to me again, that is harassment. And he did it twice over.

And about the 2 numbers. According to this, which was found by searching for CC’s real name; CC apparently does have 2 numbers.

Even if he did not have 2 numbers, it does not change the fact that he used a second number to evade my block and stalk me. Using a second number to evade a block would logically conjure the assumption that CC would have 2 numbers. He indeed used them to speak to me, especially in an invasive context, asking to unblock his first number.

“I’m going to call the authorities if this garbage continues.”

If that is directed at me, then it is an empty threat. What does he have to press charges at me? I did not post that message. Does he have the means to pay his lawyer to sue me and go to court?

If it’s for AA, then CC should be sending him the messages, not conducting harassment at me. I sent CC nothing after the email where I told him to leave me alone.

If he went through this toothless endeavor I don’t think it would go far.

Now for the final line that truly exposes CC for what he truly is.

“I was a good friend to you, but you were NOT to me!”

This is what he has to say to me after nearly 2 years of knowing each other. That he was at his “good” level of conduct and I never even came close to making him feel good at all. Either that or he effectively erased all positive things I ever did for him and rendered them as null and void while pretending he did exceptional things.

Now to recap the actual context and the reality of our relationship.

What he did for me:

He initially reached out to me, not the other way around.

{1} After 4 months of what I understood was a friendship, suddenly insinuating that we were in a relationship without my knowledge of this status. Being unclear about it until right at that moment.

{2} Started lashing out at me harshly through text just because I suggested a phone if he could afford it. Thinking I am insulting his wealth, when actually speaking from a poor perspective and not knowing anything about his financial situation.

{3} Threw a fit at me in public just because I did not have disposable time for him. Then made me nervous enough to have nervous laughter and he took it as me laughing at him for his feelings. He also asked me for $30 as a response to me asking if I can make him feel better.

{4} When asked about his teeth, he responded angrily about it.

Did not back off after I told him that I was taken. Kept the interest going knowing this.

{5} Became jealous when I treated a friend who I knew much longer than him with less anxiety and thought the way I treated him was exclusive to him.

{6} Initially reluctant, I talked him into playing a 10 minute game with me just to leave halfway through.

Tried asking him again but with no avail.

{7} Called me with another phone fully knowing that I blocked him and asking me to unblock him. This comes after a fallout between us involving messages and emails. Used emotional manipulation of my loneliness to coax me into unblocking him.

{8} Got in the way of my job by trying to take scheduled time away from it just for his own pleasure and with no regard of the importance of my employment. Trying to use emotional manipulation with implying that I don’t like him anymore. {2.1} And he has told me that he works.

{9} Called my number at precise time for the sole purpose of throwing profane insults at me. Many days after I told him to never speak to me again.

To be generous here are the good things he did:

-He gave emotional support sometimes throughout our friendship. -He never stole from me.

What I did for him:

Came to see him at his home when he wanted prior to {8}.

{ɑ}Gave him a birthday present complete with a card. {$}Did it again next year.

{β}Relayed TONS of emails of pictures that he asked for. That he went out of his way to call me for that, too.

{%} Gave him a lanyard that he simply abandoned in my home.

Now I turn to my followers and everyone reading this post. Considering the context above, I will leave you with one open ended question:

WAS CANCERCHASER TRULY A GOOD FRIEND TO ME AS HE INSISTED?

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So I have a sprained ankle. And for anyone who doesn’t know what that’s like, after the first sprain, you’re almost 100% likely to sprain it again. Because your ligaments and tendons are getting stretched in ways that the should not. And so I have complied a list of my ankle sprains (minor twists and strains have been left off the list because I don’t even remember all of those) and as you can see, by the end of the list, my ankle is just completely giving out for no reason other than it just wants to stop holding me up

‪2001: Sprained ankle for the first time. fell during “ships across the ocean” and my classmates decided to run over my ankle

‪2007: rolled ankle getting off bus‬. my reaction was to burst into laughter while crying because holy fuck that hurt but bruh I still wish someone had recorded that. shoutout to the good samaritan who drove me down the road from the bus stop to my house. Unfortunately still had to crawl up the big ass hill to get inside

‪2009: rolled ankle again wearing wedges. ‬decided wedges were too dangerous for the klutz in me

‪2012: rolled ankle leaving the house of kids I was babysitting‬. but I threw the laptop so I wouldn’t fall on that. Had to wake up my dad who lived across the street so I could get home

‪2013: rolled ankle babysitting same kids. holding one of the children while walking down the stairs. Completely missed the last two steps. Should note that these were different stairs.‬ never babysat for them again. Once is coincidence. Twice is an omen.

‪2016: rolled ankle walking backwards while playing Pokémon Go. ‬note: do not recommend

‪2017: rolled ankle while slipping on beef at work‬. Karl laughed at me before he realized I was hurt.

‪2018: rolled ankle after stepping wrong at work. still unsure of what happened exactly aside from my ankle just… giving up??

‪2018: rolled ankle while side-stepping wrong at work. Again, ankle just quit working??

‪2018: rolled ankle because floor was a little uneven at Chipotle. Burrito broke my fall. laundry room at my apartment is on the second floor, so I still have hot sauce on the sleeve of my work jacket. Best friend won’t ask me to pick her up food anymore

‪Grand total: 10 sprained ankles‬

Half are from the last two years.

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Save The Blogs!

Okay, folks. So. Tumblr’s jumped the shark in a big way, and I’m not even just talking about indiscriminately blocking all “adult” content on a platform that IS, in fact, primarily 18+.

Many blogs, like the wonderful @blackkatmagic , that are not especially NSFW have vanished.

(And I for one LIKE being able to go to curated porn blogs run by actual people and have a chance of finding stuff to my taste, it was one of the things that kept me on this hellsite, but that’s another issue entirely.)

I know lots of people are talking about migrating, but none of us are sure to where yet. Pillowfort seems to be an option, some people are talking about Twitter. But for now, it’s a mess, and even if we knew where we were going, it’s often a huge process, and a lot of us have stuff on tumblr that ONLY exists there. One possible quick solution to save your blogs, both NSFW and personal, is to import it to WordPress. I found this solution through from frantic googling on how to save an entire blog, text posts an all. There are several apps for downloading all the pictures from a tumblr, (Plently for Windows, but only a few paid ones for mac, of which Tumbelog Picture Downloader is working for me so far) but this is the only solution I’ve seen so far that allows you to save EVERYTHING. I downloaded my NSFW blog in like 10 min. My regular blog, which is significantly larger, is in the process of importing, but I don’t anticipate any problems. I will, of course, update you if I have any.

This tutorial I found worked really easily. http://quickguide (.) tumblr (.) com/post/39780378703/backing-up-your-tumblr-blog-to-wordpress

I put parenthesis around the .’s like we’re back in FF-Hell, just in case tumblr’s new thing about outgoing links kicks in. You know what to do. To break it down, just in case:

Sign up for a WordPress.com account at wordpress (.) com/start You’ll have to create an account, with your email, a username, and a password. They should send you a confirmation email immediately, check it, activate it, and you’re good to go. On the site, it will ask you for a site name. That page asks you a bunch of other information too, but you only have to fill out the site name.

Then you have to give your site a URL. If you’re lucky, your tumblr URL is still available, if not you’ll have to come up with another one, sorry.

It will tell you if that option is still available for free.

Then it will ask you to pick a plan. Free is really good enough, I swear.

Now you’re set up! You can import your tumblr! The only differences from the linked tutorial are that the Import button is now on the first level menu, not in tools.

Hit Import, then you have to follow the link for “other importers” at the bottom, to find the option for Tumblr.

Then you’ll have to sign in with tumblr, using your normal tumblr credentials. You’ll be redirected there automatically. You’ll have to allow Wordpress permissions on your blog.

Then your blogs, including all your sideblogs, will show up in wordpress.

Hit import, wait a WHILE depending on the size of your blog, and you’re done!

ALSO!!

I made my NSFW blog private for now, since I don’t know WP’s policy on NSFW.

This means that to access it, someone has to have an account and request access. But hey, part of our problem on this hellsite has been people going places they aren’t wanted, so I don’t personally see this as a bad thing. They can send a request from the landing site on your blog, you get an email, click a link in the email, and PRESTO, they have access. To make it private, go to Settings > Reading > Site Visibility. Go back and check, it took me changing the setting twice for it to actually stick. tl;dr, you can import your entire blog to wordpress in just a few steps.

Edited almost immediately to add that Wordpress allows posting reblogging, commenting, AND following, and so it seems like honestly the most logical next place for fandom in my opinion. It also allows a high degree of customization. I’m going to tag the hell out of this, in no particular order. PLEASE reblog this and spread the word so people know it’s an option. If you’re having trouble, PM me, and I’m happy to help.

@gallusrostromegalus @kaciart @lena221bee @deadcatwithaflamethrower

@norcumi @deandraws @morn-art, @thebisexualmandalorian @kristsune @marloviandevil @punsbulletsandpointythings @protagonistically @cris-art @elfda @fish-ghost @godtierwonder @heartslogos @haekass @iesika @incogneat-oh @itispossibleihaveissues @jaegervega @jhaernyl @the-last-hair-bender @kleine-aster @latenightcornerstore @lectorel @medievalpoc @mgnemesi @me-ya-ri @myurbandream @peskylilcritter @cywscross , @cheshiresense @varevare @victoriousscarf @whatsmeantobe @swpromptsandasks @gabriel4sam @stonefreeak @brighteyedbadwolf @pumpkin-lith @puzzleshipper @suzukiblu @myurbandream @lacefedora @jademerien

There are a whole bunch more, but that’s a start. Please reblog the hell out of this, so people are aware of this one simple option.

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