Do not punish the behaviour you want to see
I mean, it seems pretty obvious when you put it like that, right?
But how many families, when an introvert sibling or child makes an effort to socialize, snarkily say, “So, you’ve decided to join us”?
Or when someone does something they’ve had trouble doing, say, “Why can’t you do that all the time?” (Happened to me, too often.)
Or any sentence containing the word “finally”.
If someone makes a step, a small step, in a direction you want to encourage, encourage it. Don’t complain about how it’s not enough. Don’t bring up previous stuff. Encourage it.
Because I swear to fucking god there is nothing more soul-killing, more motivation-crushing, than struggling to succeed and finding out that success and failure are both punished.
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SURPRISE this blog isn't dead
durge be upon ye
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do you ever look at your url and think “i am so glad that i have this url. i deserve this url”
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what if we held hands and we were both members of the society of brilliance 😳😳😳
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reddit is still free. also tbh good riddance for the op
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are you guys ok
reddit is still free. also tbh good riddance for the op
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reddit is still free. also tbh good riddance for the op
edit for everyone who is confused: shart is shadowheart, people shorten her name that way as a joke on reddit
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no, bc we aren't dickheads to him lmao
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oh my god there are so many ai voice mods now where the fuck did they all come from
what, and i cannot stress this enough, the fuck
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not putting this on main or in the tag but why are ast*rion simps the most annoying people on earth. they're making me sick of the character even though he's completely fine i even like him when i'm not interacting with the fandom
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Games with customization need to make it easier to sexualize male characters its not enough to have a shirtless option he needs a fat rack and body hair and more body fat and the shorts options need to define the ass cheeks and lets not forget the b[armored guards grab me and forcibly remove me from the stage]
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Confession: i wanna hold hands with the emperor <3
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