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iceandtheworld · 2 years

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I have a new(?) drinking game idea:

A group of people say a true, excruciatingly personal TMI about themselves, the more uncomfortable it makes others, the better.

The one that gives the TMI that is the least uncomfortable, drinks. The loser also has to say something uncomfortable directed to one member in the game.

The one that gives the best TMI can choose to double the loser's drink or choose another to drink as well.

Now watch as friendships die and never be the same again. Drunk chaos all around and nobody can look anyone in the eye anymore !!!

#drinking #drinking games #Tmi #Games #Chaos #Death of friendships #alcohol

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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I dyed my hair recently, and i may have unintentionally dyed it in the colors of the bi flag. Its also pride month....

It was super unintentional, but it is also true, so yay happy accident! ♥️

(not ready to come out yet tho, so im semi hoping my parents do not get it)

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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If i were in a book that involved fake/pretend relationships:

Male lead: I have one rule. Dont fall in love with me.

Me, an aromantic: lmao k

#aromantic

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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Not an Art Hoe but an Artist Hoe

Ngl, I'm not that much interested in art. For me, I'm interested in the artist. Seeing art in museums bore me after a while, but seeing the artist at work - thats what gets me. Seeing them turn a blank canvas into something they're proud of. Seeing them give their middle-of-the-night inspirations, their sleepless, shaking, coffee-induced motivation, their anxiety, their pain, their happiness, and everything else, a voice, a life, a chance to be seen is what is most beautiful. The art is subjective, but for me, the artist is always beautiful.

#art #artist #art hoe #arthoe #artisthoe #i still appreciate art tho #i just get bored after a while #but i always appreciate the dedication of artists

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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Reminders for aros who don’t want a romantic relationship!

- Your relationship status does not determine your maturity, worthiness, or happiness.

- Just because your peers are dating, getting married, or having children, and you’re not, doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong.

- You know your life, your desires, and your personality better than anyone else. Nobody has the right to tell you what you should or shouldn’t be doing when it comes to your life path.

- If you’re struggling right now, you won’t always be. Someday, you’ll be happier. Someday, things will be easier. Even if you have no idea what that would look like.

- A lack of a committed relationship ≠ an inability to commit ≠ a lack of worthiness.

- You can be a parent even if you don’t want any kind of romantic relationship. Not being married doesn’t stop you from raising children on your own or with an alterous partner. Also, pet parents and plant parents are cool.

- Your life is yours. The only person who needs to be happy with your choices is you.

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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The Blue Spirit putting out firebending with a bucket of water is the absolute funniest thing ever done in avatar combat. It just is.

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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A Hopeless Aromantic

All throughout life we are told that we’re gonna fall in love with someone, get married, raise a family together, and grow old together. I’ve always rejected this. Why? Because I am an aromantic demisexual. “But how can you be both aromantic and demisexual when you need an emotional connection before feeling sexual attraction to someone?” Sit down, reader, and let me explain everything to you.

Firstly, the definition of aromanticism is “an orientation in which someone does not experience romantic attraction.” This is different from asexuality because this has to do with romantic attraction and not sexual attraction, or the lack thereof. Romantic attraction is when you want to be romantically involved with a certain person or want to date a certain person. I am aromantic in that I have never wanted to date anyone and never felt any inclination to date someone no matter the gender.

Secondly, the definition of demisexuality is “an orientation in which someone feels sexual attraction when an emotional bond is formed.” This bond can be either romantic or platonic and is different from preferring to know someone well before having sex with them. Because I need to be at least friends with someone before I feel sexual attraction to them, I am a demisexual.

Another thing I should add is that while I am demisexual, I am also bisexual in that I feel sexual attraction to guys, girls, and nonbinary people, but prefer girls. But that only happens once I have a bond formed with them.

Now on to the main event. I have always related to the phrase “I want to marry my best friend” because I take it literally. The person who I want to marry would be my best friend at that time. Since I am aromantic, only platonic relationships work for me. This can be either something like friends with benefits (I still have a sex drive, unfortunately) or a queerplatonic relationship. All I want is a friend to spend the rest of my life with.

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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Allo people laugh at me when I mention that time I didn’t realize I was dating someone for a month and that’s fair because it is pretty funny but what they don’t realize is how completely absurd and illogical it is to be interested in dating someone else after meeting them only a few times.

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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Pixar’s SOUL (2020)

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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You know what’s some crazy $hit?

This fabulous bitch

She makes a shit ton of poses (like 16,000 or some crazy nonsense). I used this lovely lady to draw so much as a teen. Whether it was some nerdy pose for my Mary Sue as fuck OCs

or for full on fight sequences

or for tragic deaths of my OCs in the arms of a totally OOC main protagonist.

this bitch hooked me up.

And with the wildest, craziest stuff that you could see in your head but had no way or resources to reasonably draw like

or this

DUDE! INASNE SHIT!! So I was using her for a pose reference and decided, you know what, I owe this bitch some cash. Lemme dole it out for her. BUT then, I looked and saw she only has 286 fucking patrons!! This chick gives out free shit and spends countless hours arranging these shoots and setting this stuff up.

I’ll fork up the cash, SenshiStock. You’re worth it.

Check out this amazing woman’s stuff, and get knowledged: https://www.deviantart.com/senshistock

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iceandtheworld · 3 years

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I just realized that I'm demiromantic. That fucking explains why I literally yeet my phone away from me (it usually hits the wall :((( ) when someone i met a few days or so ago flirts with me. I thought I was just bad at flirting and romance, but i really cant understand why people fall in love/like so fast.

I also dont really know where I stand with my orientation, because while i think i usually imagine my future relationships as straight, but I also think that if one of my close girl friends will like me and make an effort that way, then Im also okay with that???

Like idk man, im confused. All I know is that i usually dont have crushes easily, and when I do, its usually with someone I already am close with, and its only when they indicate/hint that they like me. (kind of like im just reflecting or reciprocating their emotions first;) (like, ok we're friends and thats cool, and imma hold you to that standard....then bam, wait, you like me?? Okay give me a sec, let me see if i can picture us together? Hmmm, yeah that checks out. Ok, sure, i kinda like you too) (but the thing is, the other party thinks that i wont ever see them as anything but friends [IM BAD WITH EMOTIONS AND FLIRTING AND ROMANCE OKAY???], so they never formally confess or ask me out, and im just?? Well damn, k, ig we'll just be friends then.

In short, i am still a single pringle at 23 and have never even been on a first date. So if any demis see this, pls advise?? Idk, i'll take what i can get, but i guess i dont super care rn, because i dont currently have a crush anyways lmao. I dont think i had a crush in 2-3 years? Welp. But if any demis do have advise, a big thank you anyways! <3

#demiromantic #confused #questioning #What umbrella do i ask this from #acespec #ace spectrum #??? i think #Im so sorry im new here #I only realized im demi last month #I mean ive thought about it #I thought i was aro but then i kinda wanted romance #But like i thought i was just being picky cause i didnt wanna date just anyone #sorry about the tags #im confused

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iceandtheworld · 4 years

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