Rebranded. Re-Dedicated my life. Wanting more out of life 🍓🍨🍷🍒
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The people who have accomplished the things you want are not better than you. They are not more skilled than you are. Their mindset is simply different. Their mindset inspires new habits and attributes that contribute to a strong sense of self-belief and enables them to overcome obstacles, achieve their goals, and lead fulfilling lives.
Fortunately, this is something you can work on and have complete control over.
If you want to change your life, these are some of the things you should be working on within yourself.
Self-awareness: Successful people have a clear understanding of their strengths, weaknesses, values, and goals. They are aware of who they are and what they want to achieve.
Positive mindset: They maintain a positive outlook on life and view challenges as opportunities for growth. They focus on solutions rather than dwelling on problems.
Resilience: Bouncing back from failures and setbacks quickly. They see failures as temporary and use them as learning experiences to improve and grow.
Self-motivation: You need to be internally driven and have a strong sense of purpose. Successful people set goals for themselves and work persistently towards achieving them.
Confidence: They have confidence in their abilities and believe in their potential for success. They trust their judgment and are not easily swayed by others' opinions.
Adaptability: They are open to change and embrace new experiences. They are willing to step out of their comfort zone and take risks to pursue their goals.
Discipline and consistency: They practice self-discipline and maintain consistency in their actions. They set routines, establish habits, and follow through on their commitments.
Emotional intelligence: They possess a high degree of emotional intelligence, understanding their own emotions and the emotions of others. They can manage their emotions effectively and maintain positive relationships.
Growth mindset: They believe in their ability to learn and develop new skills. They see setbacks as opportunities for improvement and are open to acquiring new knowledge and experiences.
Self-care: They prioritize self-care and well-being. They recognize the importance of taking care of their physical, mental, and emotional health, which helps them maintain a positive mindset and stay motivated.
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the next six months 🥂
Half the year has gone by, and it seems I don't have much to show for it.
I've lost what I thought was a lifelong friend, finally had and quit my highest paying job, to date, for my mental health, and soon I will be moving out of the state for the first time to stay with my little brother. I feel like I've hit rock bottom. No friends, no car, no income, no home of my own, no direction, no plan, no safety net, no plan b-z. Just no, lol.
I feel out of sorts. I feel lost. I feel free. I feel unburdened. The past six months haven't been all bad. Now, I can finally focus on myself. No excuses. And I'm finally in the head space to do just that without feeling guilty about it (oldest daughter/people pleaser problems).
So, here's to finishing the year stronger than we started. As I lay in bed, thinking, dreaming, planning, envisioning what my life will eventually be, I can't help but obsessively imagine what I want for myself by the end of 2023. 🍾
The next six months will look a lot like:
🌱 Prioritizing my well-being. I'll do this by taking care of myself:
Physically
Working out consistently
Eating healthier
Visiting the doctor regularly
Investing in my appearance
Mentally
Learning Spanish and ASL
Going back to school for Finance
Reading more of what I used to enjoy reading
Pursuing my passion for writing
Not judging myself too harshly
Giving myself permission to make mistakes
Removing unrealistic expectations
Bettering my social skills and improving my confidence
Emotionally
Showing up for myself
Putting myself first
Setting boundaries
Respecting myself, “People only do to you what you allow”
Speaking kindly to myself
Giving myself grace
Forgiving myself
Loving myself
Getting therapy
Financially
Securing steady employment (getting my CNA license)
Making a plan to become debt free
Securing personal transportation
Saving enough for the first 3 months of my next lease
Keeping a savings (no more transfers to checkings)
Budgeting monthly, no more late or missed payments
Spiritually
Journaling my gratitude daily
Being out in nature more
Monitoring social media/technology usage
Meditating
Finding my community
🧘🏽♀️ Being more intentional/mindful. I'll do this by:
Practicing Gratitude
Choosing carefully who and what I give energy to
Acknowledging my shortcomings
Being more open minded
🫶🏽 Getting to know myself. I'll do this by:
Healing my inner child, e.g., going to an amusement park and getting my roller skates
Allowing myself more creative outlets/hobbies and being consistent with them
Doing things just for the fun of it
Travelling (getting my passport) and getting out of my element
Doing more of the things I like e.g., going to the beach, seeing another opera or theatre show
Doing things I want to do e.g., going on a cruise, going camping in the mountains, going on a road trip
🙏🏽 Trusting the process. I'll do this by:
Setting SMART goals
Focusing on the things I can control
Changing the way I think about failures and obstacles
Being patient
Not worrying about the future
Staying committed
Documenting my journey
Living and enjoying the moment
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right before God elevates you. he’s going to show you everybody's heart around you. this is so you'll know who to take with you & who to love from a distance once you've entered your next chapter. elevation has always required separation and it always will. everyone can't go.
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Whelp, I may be in the ol pickle again 😬😬 Christianity and sex
Had me a bit of me time and without a doubt, his name tumbled out. Like naturally, I didn’t have to think about him and then get going, it was just natural roll off the tongue, make me feel good August (obviously I moaned his real name).
And every time this happens, I usually get my way and what I want. BUT NOT THIS TIME!!
After I read my 1st Corinthians, imma pray over no sex during my dating or relationship phases. I want to get to know them and focus on each other without sex finding us together. The act of sex before I was suppose to was and will be my downfall if I don’t change.
Cuz honey I know what I bring to the table and this pussy is it’s own mf table. I know my pussy is amazing, I know my sucking skills is A1 and I’m tired of just giving it away for “fun” or “hook up culture”. I want my man to know that being with me, this pussy is only for him. This what he gets every day. Exclusive to him.
And it WILL be reciprocated. I’m talking spontaneous sex, him eating me like his last meal, intimacy, nipple sucking, hickey leaving…marriage is where we can explore ALL THAT
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