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Your gut instinct loves you so much bitch!! Listen to her!
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you are a place on earth for the Divine to reside, a walking, talking, living, breathing temple.
- black girl bliss
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5 RULES TO REMAIN UNBOTHERED
Rule 1 - Expect less from people:
The first rule to staying unbothered is to expect less from people. Not everyone is you, and you can't expect other peole to hold themselves to the high standards that you set for yourself and it isn't your job to force them to see their potential. Everyone else is going out every weekend, vaping and thinks you're uncool? They don't have your drive or your ambition. Focus on yourself.
Rule 2: Stop arguing with people:
It's not your responsibility to make stupid people recognize that they are stupid. Do not waste your time trying to convince people that you are right they have already made up their mind about you. Prove them wrong with your actions; if they aren't paying your bills, they are irrelevant.
Rule 3: If they wanted to, they would:
Self-explanatory, and especially applies to guys. If he wanted to test you, he would. I he wanted to actually plan something instead of sending a last minute "wyd," he would. Invest your time into someone wo actually cares about you
Rule 4: Log off:
Be honest with yourself when you get on social media, do you feel inspired or like you're wasting time? So much of social media is time sink designed to make you less productive. Ignore the bad takes, block out the negativity, all of means nothing I knew I matured when I realized every situation doesn't need at reaction. Sometimes you just gotta leave people to do the lame shit they do.
Rule 5: Ask "okay, and:
Being unbothered is all about knowing your worth your opinion of you is so much more valid than that random person at school or work who's jealous of you, let's be honest. When someone says something negative to you ask yourself "okay, and some random girl says she hates you, will that really affect your life? No Keep your eyes on the price, and keep perspective by focusing on things that really matter skincare and workouts, academies, investing, making money, and becoming the best version of yourself
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Women can be sexy without doing something sexual.
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Anaïs Nin, from The Diary of Anaïs Nin, vol. IV: 1944-1947
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I spent, at a minimum, at least $500-$1,000 a month exclusively on my self improvement. Here is most of what I spend on, in no particular order:
Education (classes, books, courses, certifications, college tuition, seminars, etc.)
Private lessons for languages, musical instruments, sports, etc.
Personal hobbies and passion projects
Crest whitening strips (great when in a pinch), Invisalign, professional whitening, preventative dental care, prescription whitening products from my dentist
Investments such as index funds, REITs, ETFs, CDs, individual stocks, commodities, appreciative luxury items, precious metals & gems, etc.
Organic food, vitamins, supplements, high quality healthcare, therapy, massages, prescriptions (Rx skincare, etc.)
New glasses & contacts (getting some bayonetta glasses from Burberry soon, very excited)
Sports, gym membership + sauna, hot yoga, Pilates, kickboxing, tennis, skiing, dance, etc.
Personal care such as bath/shower products, body care, haircare, skincare, makeup, brightening eye drops, perfume, etc.
Travel, events, concerts, festivals, etc.
Shopping (clothes, accessories, home goods, etc.)
Eating out at restaurants and going to coffee shops
Beauty treatments such as manicures, pedicures, waxes, brow tint & threading, salon blowouts, hair cuts & colors, facials, lash lift & tints, vitamin IVs, etc.
Regular visits to my dermatologist, dentist, psychiatrist, eye doctor, primary care physician, gynecologist, and any other specialists
Semi-regular appointments with a personal trainer, holistic nutritionist, and dietitian
I don't do all of these every single month, but most of these are recurring throughout the year and budgeted accordingly. Eventually I might add in more intense cosmetic work like medspa services, Botox, etc. If you can find a workplace with a great benefits package such as high quality healthcare, an HSA/FSA, health & wellness reimbursements for the gym, disability & life insurance, etc. I would highly recommend it and max out all the benefits you can.
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Being Embarrassed is AN ILLUSION!
(I don’t own these photos!)
“Most importantly, you must always have faith in yourself.” - Elle Woods
What does being embarrassed feel like? Well, our first feelings are always insecurity and to overthink. We worry about what others think of us. We worry about getting judged, to even overthinking what we said. I promise you all that these people are too focused on their own life. They could even be just like you and overthinking what they said or did.
Why do we get embarrassed? A big part of our population are most likely people pleasers. We all care about what someone thinks about us. Whether it’s your parents, relatives, friends, bf/gf, etc. We also get judged a lot, from the day we came into this life. It’s hard to go from a pure and innocent child to a child scared of being judged. In conclusion, being scared of getting judged is why we get so embarrassed.
The mindset! In order to truly realize being embarrassed is an illusion, you have to walk with this thought. It has to become a life motto, not just that but a rule for yourself. You have to become committed and make sure you’re aware of this. If you get embarrassed and forget it’s an illusion, brush it off.
Validating yourself! One of the main reasons why we get embarrassed or afraid of being judged is, because we love praise. Praise from others that is, so start praising yourself. When you see yourself in the mirror, compliment yourself. Tell yourself the things you want to hear so badly from.
Love you dolls! Thank you dolls for reading 😘
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a man comes Into MY life and I have to compromise?
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dreamy quotes to live by ✧˚₊‧
"Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars and see yourself running with them."
"Compliment recklessly! Say the nice things 5that come to your mind! We've got better things to do than resist the urge to be kind."
"Her world was the colour of perles: White, pink, and softly glowing."
"In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different."
"I like nonsense; it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living."
"My goal in life is just to be a very warm person. I want to be as loving and kind as I possibly can be."
"Sometimes you have to create your own sunshine."
"It's part of her beauty, this quality of being not quite there, dreamlike."
"A girl should be two things: who she wants and what she wants.
"They say love is the best investment; the more you give, the more you get in return."
"Elegance is the only beauty that never fades. A woman can be beautiful as well as intellectual."
"Imagination is everything. It's the preview of life's coming attractions."
"Treat yourself like the princess you are and make Aphrodite proud."
"I Love soft-spoken and loving. There is so much power in femininity; don't ever look at it as being weak."
"Luxury must be comfortable; otherwise, it's not luxury."
As always, please feel free to share your own favourite quotes in the comments!! ♡*̩̩͙❆ ͙͛
❆‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧౨ৎ
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