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hauntingoldhouses · 3 hours
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day by day nothing changes but once you look back everything's different
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hauntingoldhouses · 10 hours
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i hateee when i have to put on my metal shoes to weigh me down or otherwise i will float up to the skies 😒😒
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hauntingoldhouses · 10 hours
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any fanfic is better than collen hoover
reblog if you’ve read fanfictions that are more professional, better written than some actual novels. I’m trying to see something
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craving men rn
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hauntingoldhouses · 3 days
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when will people start realizing that comparing women to something “high value” and “low value” is simply undercover sexism? everything you cited is something women should be doing for themselves, so they can heal and feel better, not become “high value”. because, when you say high value, you are immediately comparing women to objects. objects that need to be considered valuable, not for themselves, but for other people. do whatever you want, if you want to date men just for fun fucking do it! men do it too, why can't we? men are famously known for not controlling their feelings and we don't call them invaluable for that, do we? jeez
♡ High Value Woman Guide ♡
As I become more mature, I have realized and admired a few attributes the women I look up to carry. The women around me always seems very level headed, confident, and strong; but in a very feminine way (strong does not = masculine). The women in my life consistently receive what they desire & after observing their behaviors, along with mine, I have come up with a few ways to become a better “you”. How can you level up in every way possible to vibrate on the frequency of your desires?
Start prioritizing quality over quantity
This is with any & everything.
Choose your friends wisely, keep it limited to a few. You should only be surrounding yourself with people who have your best interest in mind. Living in a world of overconsumption, it can sometimes be hard to not cave and buy the latest “trends” - you should start developing your signature style. Have a few statement pieces that go with any and everything. Keep you skincare to a minimum, you don’t need 10+ products just for your face.It’s extremely attractive when people have a set curated style and are selective with their consumption. This not only shows discipline but uniqueness & a set individuality. You should be confident within yourself. Always prioritize yourself!!
You should be fine with being alone
This doesn’t mean you should feel lonely but simply - you should be your best friend and lover all in one. If you can’t hang out by yourself and you’re consistently finding a way to be with someone, this should be a red flag in your head. Consistently relying on external energy to entertain you instead of your own will never give you the proper satisfaction you’re seeking. You should be loving yourself properly, taking yourself on dates, relax at home, cook yourself the best meal, learn a new skill, etc;. To keep proper relationships with others, you must first have it with yourself.
Stop dating men just to date men
You should only be dating men who align with your values. Stop wasting your time with men who aren’t going to be relationship material. You should be able to tell if someone is worth your time after the first few interactions. We don’t date men who are emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, manipulative, etc;. - do not tolerate this behavior & do not for a second that you can “fix them”, he can / should only fix himself. You should expect consistent effort, healthy communication, & respect. If the man you are seeing doesn’t give you basic decency and more, drop it - do not mother him & don’t stick around putting up with his inconsistency and hope he will change. Never beg a man to stay or be with you.
Learn to control your emotions
It’s important to keep your emotions together, not only for the sake of others but also for yourself. Don’t act out because you are triggered in the moment - instead, try to understand why you feel that way and bring your emotions back to you, ground yourself & understand that anything that can make you instantly react, has control over you. Always stay in your power. Be responsible and take some accountability for your actions.
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hauntingoldhouses · 3 days
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I think the modern equivalent of imagining Sisyphus happy is not succumbing to societal beauty norms and appreciating your nose the way it is
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old people are now having leftist views and teenagers are having rightist views. what is going on
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hauntingoldhouses · 4 days
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hauntingoldhouses · 4 days
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physics exam today pray for me. whatever your religion is I need all the Gods and Entities with me today
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i'm the baby he's talking about btw
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hauntingoldhouses · 4 days
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humidity curls are the best kind of curls idc
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