This body
This soft, pale, generous body
That has given so much
That has carried your disdain
That you hate for its stubborn bounty
That you expect me to slice and squeeze
And hate and starve and apologize for
As big as this body is
It should be bigger
It's not big enough to hold the pain
It somehow manages to contain.
I cry oceans trying to let it out
But there aren't enough tears
There is always another ocean waiting
At the center of this galaxy I have become
A seed almost too small to see
A kernel of a wound
The wrongest of wrongs
That should have been ripped from my heart and
crumbled to dust before it could grow
But alas, it was watered with
silence and darkness and shame and fear
And fed with blood and fury and packed
Tighter and tighter into my being
Until it could no longer hold itself so small
And burst into my skin
My hated skin
Soft and pale and generous
This body.
Day 21: Solstice Sunset. The sun going down for the longest night of the year seems like a fitting moment to formally declare myself part of the Resistance. #DecemberReflections #resist #nerdtattoo
Malcolm Reynolds, Collan Rosvenir (from Melanie Rawn's unfinished Exiles trilogy), Will Hunting. Sidenote: why are there no broody lady scoundrels? #threefictionalcharacters
once i called a cab in February and had to wait two hours in the cold on a bench outside a building surrounded by bags of groceries i remember struggling with the cold feeling panicked and shivering until i took a deep breath and just was cold this is life: deep breaths and just being exactly what you already are
sometimes i feel like i swallowed a hot coal and that ember burns steadily where my voice comes out of my heart i struggle to say enough words to move enough air to cool enough fire to breathe i can talk for hours dig deeper cry harder but that hot stone does not budge always i am searching for the words to set that pain free
Does the sun ask itself, “Am I good? Am I worthwhile? Is there enough of me?” No, it burns and it shines. Does the sun ask itself, “What does the moon think of me? How does Mars feel about me today?” No it burns, it shines. Does the sun ask itself, “Am I as big as other suns in other galaxies?” No, it burns, it shines.
Andrea Dworkin, Our blood: prophecies and discourses on sexual politics (1976)
our sufferings do not magically end; instead we are able to wisely alchemically recycle them. they become the abundant waste that we use to make new growth possible.
…We are complete with or without a mate, with or without a child. We get to decide for ourselves what is beautiful when it comes to our bodies. That decision is ours and ours alone. Let’s make that decision for ourselves and for the young women in this world who look to us as examples. Let’s make that decision consciously, outside of the tabloid noise. We don’t need to be married or mothers to be complete. We get to determine our own “happily ever after”
The only thing she can do straight is look you in the eye.
Everything else is magpie-shiny bits-of-this-and-that
and cobbled together from whatever is lying around.
Her mind, fed on all-day-dusk and crunchy leaves
and cornstalks tied into great dessicated towers,
twists and turns more than the wiry copper coils
that snake their way out of her unbound braids and
ring the pale moon of her face in a titian halo.
She is all layers - clothes and coif and the
spiraling darkness leading from pupil to amygdala -
lace and calico and a heavy cable knit, for warmth -
thin lips over clenched teeth over a tongue held too long.
Her world fades sepia, with whirling black spots of
ravens and crows and murmurations of starlings,
flocking from one edge of her burnt sienna skies to a distant other.
Her expression is grim. Her outlook is gray. Her present is grievous.
She used to sew in neat stitches, end-to-end dashes, borders of
orderly seams that would easily hold right through to spring.
She hasn’t the patience for such fine work, such delicate
concentration with needle and thread and fingers gone numb.
Her hems are ragged and starting to fray.
But there are moments, sometimes, when she almost seems all right,
when her cheeks flare rose and gold, a sunset threatening to rise again.
She can still plant her feet on solid earth, and look you straight in the eye.