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happilysherry · 3 years

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People often question dating apps and website and thereby have an assumption established in their minds that YOU CANNOT FIND ANYTHING SERIOUS HERE!

Well I’m here to tell you, maybe its not true. Maybe, I can change your mind about it.

Let’s take a walk down my memory lane and go back to December 2019.

Corona was still a small talk in the town and everyone was living their usual lives, at least here in India ( I don’t know much about other countries, so please don’t judge/hate me for that)

I started using Tinder and was meeting people, some were good, some were amazingly smart and with some I just could not connect and after one month of swiping left and right I matched with a guy. His profile seemed lively yet mysterious. I was drawn to him, we talked, we chatted, we videocalled each other and this went on for approximately a month and that’s when we decided to meet each other.

Feb 10 2020

It was the day when I first met him. He was probably the most beautiful person I have seen in my entire life, he was funny, smart and poetic and I was so attracted to him that I turned the blind eye to all the toxic shit he was doing to him, I failed to see that my face had lost the smile it used to have, I failed to feel what being playful feels like. He used to just talk to me whenever he wanted to sexted and apart from that he never showed any interest in any of my talks the way he used to do during the initial days, yet I was letting him trap me with him more and more.

And one day, he was gone! Just like that. 21 march 2020 was the day when he decided to call of everything we had, we shared in that past one month. He called me desperate and needy for attention and love. He made me feel guilty to feel the need of getting loved and cared for.

Which now I know is nothing I should be ashamed of. Everyone deserves to be loved and taken care of by the person they come home to everyday.

Fast forwarding to April End

22 April 2020

I was talking to a guy on Instagram (we origninally had matched on tinder and started talking but later on realised that he lives 580 kms away from my hometown) he told me about his choice of songs, his playlists, his weird fetishes, his fav snacks, his fav pieces of poetry and his list of cheesy lines from the most cheesy romantic movies/books.

Talking to him made me feel that as If i was talking to someone who is a south pole to my north pole of magnet. Totally Opposite!

We talked and talked for days about everything you can imagine.

Based on my previous experience, I chose not to trust him because it might end up in a few weeks and I might end up getting hurt again.

But things and conversations went on and on for a few days and again, chats turned into secret calls, midnight video calls, sending each other cheesy quotes and pins about “Best Friends”.

Fast forwarding to today. 18-02-2021

We have met each other for over 100 times. He is serving military so he comes to my house whenever he gets a leave. His and my family have the same hometown, he is just posted in a different city so has to live there.

We have met each other’s family and our families have met too!

We are planning our engagement and marriage next year.

I know it all sounds like a dream.

You might even say that this is happening way too fast.

Maybe it is, but I dont care, we dont care.

We love each other and are independent enough to sustain the responsibilities that come with a maggiage.

I found my soulmate in him. With him I can be my crazy, goofy self without being guilty of being needy of love. In fact with him I don’t even feel desperate or scared. With him I realised that you don’t fall in love. You fly high in love.

Love makes you a better human, happier human and most importantly it makes you strong. It gives you a hope for everything good that you deserve, when two people are in love, they live on, live in the form of the positive energies that they made with their love, with your presence and that those people leave behind after they are gone.

It’s beautiful

Apart from the fact that you can actually find your love on dating sites Tinder, I’m here to tell you that Long distance also work!

You just need to give your love and loyalty to that person. You have to work to gain their trust and they have to do the same.

If you guys remember I told you that he is posted in a city 580 kms away from my hometown, so yeah we are working hard everyday(in our individual lives as well our relationship)to get to the dream we have seen together.

At last I wanna say that

People often say that you cannot love someone until you learn to love yorself first, but his love made me forget what hating myself felt like.

So guys, believe in love. You might find it in the most unexpected manner. Iknow you will. And that is when you will not fall in love, You’ll fly in love. <3 <3

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