“No pussy for broke men” should be no pussy for men you dont wanna sleep with actually tbh. But maybe we’re not ready as a society for women to act like people with proactive sex drives that desire sex and intimacy, instead we should keep rewarding men for their behavior with our vaginas and prostituting ourselves to men we don’t want to have sex with to survive. Obviously this has worked out for all of human history and that’s why we live in a feminist utopia right now.

oh wait.

the patriarchy has been promoting the gold digger hypergamy sprinkle sprinkle shit for centuries. Thats like. What they want you to do. Lol.

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nonconforming women are hated for rising above their station. for having too much self-respect.

nonconforming women are stereotyped as aggressive feminists, spinsters, lesbians, mentally ill, or wanting to be men... just because they want to be treated equally.

when a woman refuses to wear makeup, shave her body, or wear high heels, and instead dresses in a typical 'male' way, she's not any less clean, but is treated as a dirty even though she's meeting the standard men are held to. she's refusing to do all the little extras because they serve only to demean her for men's enjoyment.

ask yourself this: what would happen if men were asked to do all these things (makeup, shaving his body, wearing heels, not to mention all the social things like raising kids etc)? they would laugh! so why do women do them?

there was a tiktok I made a while ago basically saying "your abusive ex boyfriend is more likely a misogynist than a narcissist" and while most people agreed some said I was victim blaming(?) and that I couldn't know what their ex is like, and while obviously I don't, every fucking person describing their narcissistic ex is describing a typical misogynist. ask yourself, is this behavior you associate with narcissism directed at women or does he treat his male friends the same way? is his general functioning in life impaired?

many people don't seem to know this, but a mental disorder is NOT based on symptoms alone, it's based on how much the symptoms actually impair you in daily life. most people could look at a list of mental disorder symptoms and identify either themselves or someone else with them. as far as a narcissistic personality, we all know people who appear more self absorbed than others, but this is typically subclinical narcissism (presence of narcissistic traits without significant impairment of functioning) which is not a disorder. there is also a misunderstanding of what npd is. a narcissist is not a supervillain invincible to emotion. npd is a defensive reaction to trauma that lead to deep insecurity and fear of being seen as weak or vulnerable. so narcissists aren't actually "in love with themselves" at all and often are diagnosed when seeking help for other issues such as substance abuse resulting from their struggles.

this focus a lot of abused women in online pop psychology have on narcissism is particularly concerning because it completely glosses over misogyny which is literally a huge factor in violence against women. people really only know misogyny as a surface level thing. they don't know it can lead to family annihilation, for example, and is one reason most family annihilations are committed by the husband. it's always "this man is a sociopath" "this man is a narcissist" when the man's behavior is driven by ideology. I am so fucking tired of everything being tied to mental illness and left at that. you know what this leads to? courts "fixing" abusive men by...giving them anger management therapy. guess what? it doesn't fucking do anything because the problem isn't mental instability leading to anger, it's targeted, purposeful abuse. we are getting nowhere

How Can Star Wars Be So Good Even Though It’s So Deeply Flawed And Narratively Inconsistent And Was Created By A Dumbass

an adult man who sexually assaulted two+ teenage girls, one he met when she was 11 at his job as a school resource officer, finally shot himself right outside where i live after he killed his ex wife who was attempting to protect and help the 17 year old girl he sexually assaulted and impregnated who was living with him.

rest in peace amber rodriguez and angelica santos, and i hope all men rot in eternity for allowing this to happen

Sugarcoating oppression is easier to do. Revolutionary feminist politics is not possible without, as Andrea Dworkin would say, "an agony to be fully conscious of the brutal misogyny."

it’s because they don’t care about you. they care more about protecting their male friends and themselves than you and if they have to sacrifice you for the sake of their self perception and social standing they will

talking about misogyny with guys is always such a trip. like why are you pretending to be so surprised by all this. who do you think you're fooling. nobody's falling for this shit. you're telling me you've never been around the men i'm describing? lol ok

talking about misogyny with guys is always such a trip. like why are you pretending to be so surprised by all this. who do you think you're fooling. nobody's falling for this shit. you're telling me you've never been around the men i'm describing? lol ok

Of course I do not feel comfortable sharing a bathroom space with a male of any sort, but, it truly disgusts how so many people (conservative specifically) just write off trans people as nasty and evil right off the bat. Like, I disagree ideologically with so many people and first of all you don't see me immediately trying to convince people of my opinions and secondly I'm not going to blindly hate anyone unless there is a valid reason and being trans isn't a good enough reason to hate somebody. It just bothers me how so few people choose to look at strangers with compassion over contempt. I have trans people in my family and in some of my social circles and while I think a lot of things they say is silly or just flat out untrue it's never made me wish to treat them with any less dignity, same as extremely religious people. Just another reason why the "evil terf" label is annoying...like, I'm nothing like the far rights spitting insults and slurs. I am a very critical and I hope scientifically analytical person when it comes to just about everything in life and I hate being lumped in with people so cruel and unfeeling towards others.

how it feels to spend fifteen seconds in a male dominated space for people interested in history

EVERLYN

A female family member of mine got married to a man in the middle of the COVID pandemic. So I watched the heterosexual coupling via Zoom. She wore a white dress with a long flowing train and a veil that hid her face; a spectacle of patriarchal heteronormativity. After the vows were said, and just before kissing the bride, her husband turned to the camera and announced with glee, “This is the first time we will be kissing!” They had been dating for three years.

In that moment, I saw the future and person my family had envisioned and engineered for me. One that I had escaped by coming out. The box and script that I was supposed to fit into and follow was made visible in the person of my relative and I mourned for her – wishing that this was what she genuinely wanted and had chosen and not the script that she was unconsciously following in order to win the approval of her parents and her community. But I’ve also known her since birth and I mourned because I knew different.

I’d escaped the same fate by coming out at 19. My rebellion had begun long before that in small ways, easily dismissed by family and community as eccentricisms that would be corrected once I followed the “plan.” But coming out as a lesbian sealed the deal for my family – as it was THE scarlet letter that could never be erased from my forehead. For me, however, it was a joyfully revelatory catalyst that embedded in me the surety that I could eschew scripts, jump from boxes, carve a life without templates of heterosexism, gender conformity, and sexual confinement – a knowledge that I had the freedom to choose something other than the life that had been set out by society and family.

My brother reacted by saying, “I feel as if you’re getting away with something. I just don’t know what.” I didn’t either – not then. But now I do. Somewhere deep inside, without having the words for it, I knew that what I wanted as a child–to be a Renaissance Woman who felt free to pursue a life of intellectual, physical, and creative freedom–was impossible under the regime of heteronormativity and female sexual subjugation that I saw all around me. And so many years later, having come out publicly at age 19, I look back and can honestly say that I am that Renaissance Woman I envisioned myself to be when I was seven.

*Everlyn Hunter immigrated to the US from Jamaica at the age of 14. Her educational accomplishments include Masters and Doctoral degrees in Psychology, as well as a diploma from Vancouver Film School in Writing for Television and Film. Concurrent with her professional work, Everlyn has held numerous leadership roles as a board member of non-profit human rights, Jewish, and LGBT organizations. Dr. Hunter currently lives in Los Angeles where she works as a Psychologist. In her spare time, she is a student pilot who loves flying, and an aspiring jazz vocalist. She is currently working on her first full length novel.

i hate the fucking tim at my job so much. there's a tif that goes by he/him pronouns that works at my job and she called out. the tim went, "where's tiffany, did she call out?" and i just stared at him bc forreal? you are so misogynistic you refuse to even gender a member of your religion correctly? i went, "yeah, he called out," and the tim was like, "oh...yeah. he."

Whenever a male says that "females have no sense of humour" " it's safe to assume that he harassed a woman and she didn't find the situation to be humorous or funny.

those "gender euphoria" "stories" that are written like fanfictions are always like

"Today i was at walmart and there was a mean crotchety old BITCH of a lady who called me "sir" and then this really beefy, hunky, sexy guy who i hope is into dicks, please let him be gay, came to my RESCUE and said

"excuse me maam but this clearly female creature is the most beautiful specimen i have ever seen and SHE looks exactly like whatever specific anime character SHE kins maybe you should learn to not be a bigot"

and omg i just- 😭😭 faith in humanity restored

women arent our allies, men are! thank you men!!!! ❤️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️"

and the replies will be full of shit like

"omg this is so empowering and this really happened im so happy for you"

"tbh i HAVE noticed men having better allyship than women 😅😅 cant stand those fucking bitches"

"Wow i need this to happen to me"