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grustnaya-pchelka · 3 days

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It is deeply, deeply beneficial to TERFs if the only characteristic of TERF ideology you will recognize as wrong, harmful, or problematic is "they hate trans women".

TERF ideology is an expansive network of extremely toxic ideas, and the more of them we accept and normalize, the easier it becomes for them to fly under the radar and recruit new TERFs. The closer they get to turning the tide against all trans people, trans women included.

Case in point: In 2014-2015, I fell headlong into radical feminism. I did not know it was called radical feminism at the time, but I also didn't know what was wrong with radical feminism in the first place. I didn't see a problem with it.

I was a year deep into this shit when people I had been following, listening to, and looking up to finally said they didn't think trans women were women. It was only then that I unfollowed those people, specifically; but I continued to follow other TERFs-who-didn't-say-they-were-TERFs. I continued ingesting and spreading their ideas- for years after.

If TERFs "only target trans women" and "only want trans women gone", if that's the one and only problem with their ideology and if that's the only way we'll define them, we will inevitably miss a vast majority of the quiet beliefs that support their much louder hatred of trans women.

As another example: the trans community stood relatively united when TERFs and conservatives targeted our right to use the correct restroom, citing the "dangers" of trans women sharing space with cis women. But when they began targeting Lost Little Girls and Confused Lesbians and trotting detransitioners out to raise a panic about trans men, virtually the only people speaking up about it were other transmascs. Now we see a rash of anti-trans healthcare bills being passed in the US, and they're hurting every single one of us.

When you refuse to call a TERF a TERF just because they didn't specifically say they hate trans women, when you refuse to think critically about a TERF belief just because it's not directly related to trans women, you are actively helping TERFs spread their influence and build credibility.

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grustnaya-pchelka · 10 days

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Lacey of the Mirror

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grustnaya-pchelka · 29 days

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There's no such thing as overpreparing for love.

Happy (late) Rarijack Valentine's.

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grustnaya-pchelka · 1 month

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Desserts for the Star Twinkle Cures. Star - Milky - Selene - Soleil - Cosmos

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grustnaya-pchelka · 1 month

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branch of hearts ✨💖🌷 ✷ happy valentine’s day! this small idea came to me a few days ago, though i had doubts about posting it at all — eventually i decided that whether or not this gets love, i’ll just put it out there anyway 👉👉 enjoy and have a great time with yourself/your loved ones today and as much as possible 💖

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grustnaya-pchelka · 1 month

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grustnaya-pchelka · 1 month

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Even if DaftPina (Dovendraw) made harmful/dubious choices in the past; even if he maybe considered mediocre compared to other creators who work in a similar sphere as him and even if other people don't believe that he can change for better...

I don't hate him, I don't find him that boring/unlikeble (it took me three videos, and another four, to appreciate him and get into his content even more than before) as others see him, and I don't find him that irredeemable as others can describe him

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grustnaya-pchelka · 2 months

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