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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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The peopling the Valentines Day the general impatience oh my fucking god OH MY GOD
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Found my tourmaline and not a s/o 😜
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Bruh I cant find my tourmaline wtf...my book says its either served it's purpose and will return when needed or it hated me and ran away.most logical possibility....my kitten stole it
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Man my aunt over acting like an old hoe and I am not impressed Happy New Year Ya'll
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Accesories of a newly found asexual
you might be ace if you... 🌈 keep trying to justify your discomfort of penetration 🌈 cant see yourself with a relationship and kids 🌈cant stomach the full act but you know if you beg them to stop it will get real ugly real fast 🌈cant understand the drama in relationships and the attachments people get addicted to
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Accesories of an asexual : from a newly found ace
🌈"QueerasCat" is your spirit animal
🌈Sex ed was of no interest in your youth
🌈The boy crazy era was a troubleshoot for you
🌈Parental homophobia seemed a little over the top and melodramatic
🌈Checking out people just doesn't click
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Accessories of an Asexual: From a newly found Ace
💎you can't get turnt or hype contemporary hip hop 💎you can't give your full attention to raunchy sex scenes 💎dates are not a thing for you 💎bootycalls forget about it 💎significant others...i don't know what that is 💎getting dickmatized just lets me know you're an IDIOT 💎romance novels...😷 💎romance movies with little to no physical romance are alright...I see you Homosapien Agenda Hey Miley and Liam I will tolerate the Notebook because the dedication was real 💎sex=self coercion 💎you sift through porn catergories at an ATTEMPT to be "normal" hentai it is 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😐 💎hand holding lets do it 💕 💎sleeping in your bed...😐👌 💎stealing your food 😊 💎stag at the dance 👏👏👏 💎boyfriend+ making out =coercion 💎dont touch me below the belt😭 in fact keep your hands on the boobs but yeah your lucky 💎IS HE HITTING ON ME? 💎IS SHE HITTING ON ME ? 💎"he can get it😜" "Guuurrrllll yeah😐(internally😰)
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Bro coming out as ace made me realize I'm not weird nor should I have any shame for never having a desire or experiencing a date YEAAAHHH SELF DISCOVERY
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Ace of Diamonds
My favorite parts about ace culture are black rings so we can find each other anywhere and cards (I call myself a spade all the time)
Yes yes yes! I love the idea of black rings, it just furthers that feeling of community. They’re so subtle and wouldn’t be of any interest to anyone else, but to us they’re so important!
The ace cards are lovely to have too! It’s so clever how the different types of cards relate to the different types of aces~
For those who aren’t aware: Ace of Hearts = Alloromantic Aces, Ace of Spades = Aromantic Aces, Ace of Diamonds = Grey Aces, Ace of Clubs = Questioning Aces. (The last two are not official, they’re just what I’ve seen most people use. Some aces associate the last two to different things)
Thank you for your ask, anon!💜💜
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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I officially have a warm spot in my heart for the Aspec. I feel right at home knowing you don't have to thrive off being sex crazed or obssessed with looking at naked people all the time...so glad I'm not a weirdo like my family makes me out to be
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Ace Audiobooks
Sometimes ebooks and paperbacks just don’t cut it, during those times you might want an audiobook and I got you covered! 
Not Your Villain
Heart of Iron
Sandry’s Book
First Test
Before the Devil Breaks You
Dreamland Burning
Let’s Talk About Love
Every Heart Is a Doorway
Radio Silence
Carrie Pilby
Afterworlds
Days of Blood and Starlight
Guardian of the Dead
Perfect Rhythm
The Best of All Possible Worlds
A Date with an Angel
Dreams of Shreds and Tatters 
The Lightning-Struck Heart
Santa Olivia
Dust
How to Be a Normal Person
Poison Kiss
Part & Parcel
the witch doesn’t burn in this one
the princess saves herself in this one
To see which character is which & find more stories, check our master list!
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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I cant wait #vengeance#on#these#heauxes
Who else is PUMPED to dive into CoVaV!?
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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What do you think when ace exclusionists say "why are gay aces considered to be gay, but cishet aces aren't considered to be straight"?
They’re exclusionists because they don’t believe asexuality is a queer identity. That’s why they’re making this argument. It also just proves they don’t care about any asexuals at all, including gay aces, which should have been obvious from the start, but let me elaborate.
You know how bisexuals aren’t “half gay, half straight”? It’s the same with the split attraction model. As this post correctly explains, it’s not “romantic orientation + sexual orientation = full orientation”. Both are just labels to describe a human. Humans are not math problems.
The reason they say stuff like that is because they don’t care about asexuals at all, they want to break us down into bits that they can pretend make us more compatible with their queer assimilation ideals.
By saying heteromantic aces are straight you are inherently saying you don’t believe asexuality is its own orientation. You are acting like it’s either a personal choice or it’s a neutral void to be filled by a romantic orientation. And it’s not. Gay aces and hetro aces and bi aces and pan aces and literally all other aces all belong in the queer community because they are asexual, full stop. Asexuality is a queer identity, and that is what exclusionists don’t believe. That is literally their whole point.
None of this is new. This BS has been going on for years. It never changes. And neither does the fact that they’re wrong.
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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I never read more truer words in my life. I found this on A.V.E.N grey-ace ace it is #greyace #grace #asexual
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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Santa please
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Asexual Awareness Week continues!
As you may know, we asexuals often wear black rings on our right middle fingers to identify ourselves. Many people prefer a plain band, but some opt for gemstones set in black metal or something similarly fancy. Until very recently, I engraved the ace spectrum rings I sell with a simple spade or heart and previously only offered the ace and demi flags.
I finally got around to adding the other card suits to my shop. I never really see anything other than the spade, but all of the card suits do have different meanings for asexuals!
♤: asexual & aromantic
◇: demisexual and/or asexual & demiromantic
♧: grey asexual and/or asexual & grey romantic
♡: asexual and alloromantic
My information comes from AVEN's website as well as various online sources (most if not all cite AVEN, though). To my knowledge, these symbols are not coopting the aromantic spectrum and only serve to show an asexual person's level of romantic orientation. Aromantic rings are actually typically white.
So, *Seinfeld voice* what's the deal with the card suits? It's actually quite simple! "Asexual" is often shortened to "ace," like a playing card. We adopted the spade as our symbol because of this nickname (as in "ace of spades"), and the other card suits were adopted by other orientations falling under the ace umbrella.
The asexual flag is available as a spade or heart. The demisexual flag is available as a diamond or heart. The heart was my old option, so I have kept that. The grey ace flag is available as a club. These are only my default options. Any other combination is possible, though, since all of my rings are made to order.
To commission a ring like one of these, please visit my Etsy shop (https://www.etsy.com/listing/293643945/stainless-steel-engraved-lgbt-symbol). My rings are hand engraved stainless steel and are available in whole sizes 3-16. Inked rings are coated with resin, so I do not recommend them for rough wear.
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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#lifefacts
Here’s an unpopular opinion that shouldn’t be unpopular: Not wanting sex is a reasonable boundary to set for literally any reason. Be it your trauma, your mental health, your sexuality, or any other factor. Your partners should respect that and they should respect you. This shouldn’t be a debate.
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greyaceismycase · 4 years
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#I found my tribe
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Galaxy based Ace moodboard! ^^ For @to-dance-among-stars-in-dreams c: Hope you like this!!!
Want one? Send an ask whenever~
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