Chats Among the Wreckage

As a widower of three years, I have discovered something very important about myself: I am broken and putting together the pieces is messy business. But by some quirk of the universe, I find myself living with a woman 20 years my junior and trying to negotiate each other's brokenness. Not easy or comfortable. After one particularly prickly emotional meltdown and subsequent reconciliation, we decided our relationship best resembled a plane crashing into a train wreck. And so this occasional feature was born. I try to recapture some of the emotional stability I had before my wife'a death three yeats ago while trying to be a good relationship partner for a 46-year-old woman suffering a variety of physical and mental challenges.

We are both members of the local kink community. I identify as a cisgen, heterosexual, monogamous submissive/masochist. She identifies as a primal pansexual switch. And since we can barely navigate a simple relationship, we haven't even considered a dynamic relationship.

So we keep clunking along.

Oh yes. Especially on a bare wet or oiled bottom. With bristles scrubbing the inner cheeks raw. Finished up with a rubbing alcohol spritz or some liberally applied tiger balm and a long sit-down.

Yes, please.

"Two-handed strategy always works best for me..."

Yes, please. A delightful selection of implements at her disposal

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Most humbling position. Face down for punishment, face up in diaper position for worship.

This makes me so hungry...

Delicious

NuWest is always great.

Very nice.

Do they get their chance at his backside as well?

Arctic Eyes // Polluar

Well as a fetlife member. I did like to say it is not a dating site. It is more of a social site. Like facebook for kinksters.

Cluster Fuck

FetLife is nowhere even close. Entirely different. It’s a place for kinksters to hook up. I despise what Tumblr has done to ALL OF US

“Will you sign the contract?”