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i see so often people talk about how labels like lesbian or gay are limiting and are boxes into which they do not fit and I wonder if this is because people turned sexualities into personalities and they no longer see lesbian as a woman who is attracted to woman but as a set of characteristics in which they do not fit. no one ever says that calling themselves blue-eyed is limiting even though being blue-eyed and a lesbian are both innate things which are just. there. I hate sexualities being called labels or identities for that reason, like it does a good job in separating our sexuality from us
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man: lesbians need to suck my dick
y'all: that’s horrible
man: i wasn’t done. lesbians need to suck my dick bc i identify as a woman
y'all demons: you are so right
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I saw a post saying "If porn and prostitution were empowering men would be doing it" and while I absolutely agree I would add:
"If porn and prostitution were empowering men would be fighting to prevent women from doing it at all"
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i can't fucking stand usamericans and their obsession with individual choice. oh my god the neoliberal brainrot is real.
i can't physically stand any type of analysis or critique about social issues coming from usamericans because they'll legit be like "the sexualization of women is a big problem and we shouldn't pressure young women into presenting themselves sexually for the benefit of men. HOWEVER if a woman CHOOSES out of her FREE WILL to use her sex appeal and be sexy BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO, it is completely fine!! slay 💅" there is no way you are this dumb. you have never thought about anything ever. you don't understand how society and human behavior work.
actually, basically nothing that you choose is completely out of free will. free will doesn't really exist in the sense that we are a social species and we are constantly influenced by our environment and our past experiences. your choices are inherently tied to your environment. there is no such thing as a completely individual choice.
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I will never get over how offensive “sex isn’t real” rhetoric is. It denies the present and past realities of billions and billions of women. It obscures how sexism is systemic. 50 years ago, banks could deny women opening their own accounts (in the US!!!). Was it random? How did they decide who was allowed to and who wasn’t if sex is so obscure and not real and nobody can really tell? Yes, people with DSDs and gender non conforming people have always existed but that doesn’t mean society has/had no concept of men and women. It’s so absurd. I don’t understand how people can say sex isn’t real. I have like award winning professors who say that.
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I think we've all seen news of former porn stars who tried to pursue another career, but were fired from their jobs because men recognized them. Now, imagine this in the era of OnlyFans. Thousands of young women are faced with the harsh reality that they cannot make enough money to survive by selling nudes/pornographic videos online. What are the chances of them being able to hold down a regular job before one of their "clients" recognizes them? That is going to be a gigantic social crisis. And we will need to demand government measures to protect these women or they will kill themselves in droves.
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Why Are Libfems… like she almost got the point, but because of sex posi bullshit she spun it the wrong way. It’s SAD that so many women in kink/BDSM are trying to use it as a bandaid coping mechanism for trauma. It’s sad that the men involved in that scene prey upon women they know are vulnerable. It’s not badass by any means. Hypersexuality as a response to trauma shouldn’t be romanticized.
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I found the single based redditor! After all this time! I can finally, finally stop searching
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“Passing” as a concept is bs but this is especially true for non-binary. You’re asking everyone else to pretend that we can’t tell what sex you are and to be up to date on gender trends so we can accurately guess how you want us to perceive you. Like is [some hypothetical male] wearing an ugly dress and lipstick in a trying to be a woman way or a trying to be non-binary way. We know we’re supposed to pretend he’s not a man but we also have to guess if we’re supposed to tell if he’s just badly dressing up as a woman or is deliberately being some other third thing.
Many trans identifying females only perform androgyny in ways that cater to the male gaze. Sure they’ll have a stylish short haircut and wear flannels but they almost always remove their body hair and continue to wear makeup in a “lighter” style. Unlike mean hairy butch dykes, who they would never look like (gross) they “reject gender” without meaningfully challenging gendered roles. They seek to position themselves as “not women” while safely obeying the most sacred rules of presenting as a woman. By adopting new pronouns or a new label they can justify fulfilling the tomboy, girl next door, effortless beauty male fantasy. A woman who rejects the patriarchal beauty standards without rejecting her identity as a woman is infinitely more transgressive than a woman who takes no meaningful actions and invents a new label to reframe her conformity as deviance. It’s just lazy.
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RIPPING THREAD 🤺
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Speechless so I’m just going to show this response
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Radical Feminism is a political movement in pursuit of global liberation of women from sex-based oppression. I implore you all to do your research before sending rape threats and suicide-baiting Radical Feminists on the Internet for being labeled, ‘Terfs.’ Turn on the news once in awhile and you’ll understand why women around the world still need Radical Feminism. Women can’t identify their way out of oppression on the basis of Gender-Identity. Women aren’t asked their pronouns before being abducted, sold, mutilated, probed, thrown out of villages for menstruating, etc.
Women are oppressed because of their biological sex:
Female Genital Mutilation
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The Dowry System
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dowry-related-violence
The Slapping Law
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decriminalisation-of-domestic-violence
Virginity Testing
In Indonesia 🇮🇩
amp.abc.net.au
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In Afghanistan 🇦🇫
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world-asia
In Egypt 🇪🇬
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https://www.amnestyusa.org/virginity-tests-for-egyptian-women-protesters/
In South Africa 🇿🇦
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The stigma around menstruation that banishes women and little girls from their villages and sends them into huts
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world-asia
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Forcing women to wear Hijabs to protect their modesty by law instead of by choice
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Women are prohibited from doing these basic things in Saudi Arabia because of being born women!
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Acid Attacks
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The only case in which the victims of acid attacks have been overwhelmingly male is in the United Kingdom, and the perpetrators of those attacks were predominantly committed by men. Globally, 80% of acid attack victims are women.
https://www.bbc.co.uk
Spy Cam Porn Epidemic
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Worldwide Sex Trafficking Pandemic
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ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
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Even here in the United States, women still need Radical Feminism because:
Trap Laws dramatically restrict abortion
reproductive-rights
Child marriage is still legal in all 50 States
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Revenge Porn is still legal in 12 States
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Here’s what you can do to help:
educate-lawmakers
Rapists can still seek parental rights
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Police officers can evade sexual assault and rape charges by claiming that an encounter with a detainee was consensual in 35 States
rape
rape-allegation
consent-loophole
🗣 Et cetera, Et cetera…
How you can help: Vote, Sign Petitions, Educate lawmakers, Donate, Protest, Bring awareness to these issues both online and in person.
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Hello, I'm a trans person(I consider myself a trans woman but I assume you'd make some sort of objection to that term) and I think that defining woman without the female body is quite easy and does not depend on stereotypes. The two similarly worded ways I think are good is "a woman is an adult with a gender identity typically associated with those born female" and "a woman is an adult with a female gender identity." Now I think the term gender identity isn't the best term, but I use it in these definitions because people probably haven't heard of an older synonym like "psychological sex" that Harry Benjamin used or using phrases like "people with estrogen signaling pathways of the brain typical of females" based on the article I link to.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/02/200205084203.htm
You know the next step here is for me to ask what exactly a female gender identity is. So we are still left with the underlying question: what are you actually identifying with? In my experience, gender ideologues usually define a female gender identity in one of the following ways:
1. “A female gender identity is a deep, internal sense or feeling of being female.” And to this I ask what feeling like a female means. Can you define this female feeling we all allegedly have without alluding to bio-essentialism or feminine stereotypes? And if such a feeling exists, how could a male ever know what that feeling is? What reference point does a male have to determine that his feelings are those of a female? None of these questions have ever been answered, because there is no deep, internal feeling to being female any more than there is to having red hair or freckles or brown eyes.
2. “A female gender identity is an identity which cannot be defined, because it is different for everyone.” Useless, but to this I ask by what metric are these identities all categorized as “female,” if they cannot be defined and have no common denominator among each other? Have you considered that what you’re referring to is not a gender identity, but simply a personality?
3. “A female gender identity is the identity of someone who conforms to the norms, behaviors, and roles associated with females.” And to this, I thank the responder for finally admitting that gender and gender identities hinge on nothing but sexist stereotypes and sex-based roles.
It’s that simple. Any definition of woman that isn’t “an adult female human” is either meaningless, or relies on sexist stereotypes, or relies on neurosexist myths. What’s most mind blowing to me, is how so many gender ideologues will openly admit that gender is a harmful, made up, and regressive social construct which ascribes certain roles and expectations to females, and others to males—but they still insist on defining women and men by this outdated, misogynistic construct rather than defining them by their sex. Insead of removing the stereotypes from the sex, they have removed the sex from the stereotypes—and somehow this is considered progressive. Revolutionary, even.
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"sex work is work" ok then go give a blow job to your uncle to earn some extra cash, jonathan
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