feliscloudnine
Feli's Cloud Nine
| MPDNI 🔞 - Late Twenties || Fem a.f.a.b - She/They || 🌈 LBGTQIA* - BLM - Queerfeminism 🌌 || Pan/Sapphic-leaning || Body and Plastic Positivity - Into parts of the b°mbo aesthetic and lifestyle (see pinned post for a few specifications and reservations).
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I am literally begging you to have limits. You can be depraved and kinky and all that, but please let yourself have limits, for your own wellbeing and health. There is not a single person alive that is okay with everything that could possibly be thrown at them. I say this especially for younger people, like freshly 18 year olds. Yes, you're an adult, you are allowed to engage in kink, but that doesn't mean that you won't be taken advantage of because of your inexperience. There are predatory people out here who jump on young people who don't know any better and don't know how to stand up for their boundaries. Please take care of yourself
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Kink tumblr etiquette:
Because there's a lot of fresh faces on this blog and some people aren't getting this.
Consent is mandatory. If you interact with someone's post and they tell you you've made them uncomfortable, oblige them and remove yourself from the situation, take down your post, unfollow them, etc. Your kink is not above someone else's comfort. Follow up: if you see "men DNI" or "women DNI", etc. clearly listed and you belong to said group, do not fucking interact
Put your age in your bio. I don't know how many times you people have to see that before you do it. If you are not forthcoming with your age, you do not get to interact with adult content. People can't consent to you if you don't say how old you are. If you're actually a minor, leave. You're endangering people by being here.
Do not impose your kinks on someone else's post. Especially on non-sexualized posts and ESPECIALLY if you do not know them.
Do not send unsolicited sexual messages. Especially with people who you have never interacted with before. It's creepy. And with people you do know? It still needs to be solicited, bucko. Ask them first.
Treat online kink like you would treat kink in person. If you ignore consent, boundaries, and comfort in a real kink community, you are no longer welcome in that community.
If it says don't reblog, don't reblog. Respect people's privacy.
Am I missing anything major? I might keep this updated.
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just had one question. the stuff or kinks you post about, you like them or want them as reality or just fantasy?
They’re kink. Kink is its own space between fantasy and reality.
Imagine this.
Some dumb slut reads this blog and meets up with me for a weekend of pet games. We decide on this by RACK informed consent.
When we do her training, she’s leashed and collared. Clothes aren’t allowed, except by my choosing. She sleeps in her cage and wakes up with mindmelting sounds and mantras in her headphones. We train her with my voice and a clicker and a haze of edging. She’s Pavlov’s dumb cumdump now! She automatically gets wet and whimpers when I say the right words. That’s how she’s trained and she loves every second.
Is it real? Not exactly. She’s not a pet. She can go do smart girl things after the weekend’s over. Done correctly, with aftercare and communication, the whole experience should be fun and liberating. Aftercare is important - in part - to clearly draw a boundary between kink and day to day reality.
Is it fantasy, like a second rate ship or a cartoon? Not exactly. We did do those things. They probably had a more profound impact a standard TV episode.
I’m a kinkster and I like to do kinky things in the flesh. A lot of what you see here comes from real play.
Do I actually like women dumb? Ugh no. Kinda the opposite. All the kinky changes are hot BECAUSE they’re changes. I like to see smart women get dumb, and classy women act trashy, and independent women act better trained than pets.
Making their puppetspace truly permanent isn’t just an ethical problem. It’s less hot.
We play with the idea of permanence. The vertigo. Could we slip into making her a permanent fleshlight? It’s a thought. I’ll always have that thought, and I’ll always choose to let her have her mind back. I want to wash it all over again.
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hellooo neighbour 👋🏼
thought it was probs time to update my pinned post bc this account no longer feels so new and i think i’ve probably managed to reconnect w most people from before by now anyway.
if not, just quickly: i used to be @your-average-girlnextdoor before my account got terminated. still low key sad about it but WE’RE HERE NOW and nipples are allowed (apparently) so hopefully we’re safe, but just in case i do also have a backup (@still-ur-average-girlnextdoor) so 🤷🏻♀️
anyways, not really sure how to introduce myself or my blog but basically i’m in my late twenties & i post not-as-arty-as-id-like-but-still-trying-to-be-cute semi-nudey pics of myself and occasionally have a little ramble here & there. also chronically terrible w technology & socially awkward af so never sure if i’m doing things right but we try 🥲
i feel like i don’t really even talk about my sexual interests on here as much as i thought i would (and honestly i miiiiiiiight start a new account soon to focus on that aspect a bit more and keep this one a lil more pure but idk), but *basically* there are very few kinks that i’m not into at least in some capacity, and i looooove having the freedom to explore the whole range & spectrum of sexual ideas and also non sexual body positivity etc!
everyone (over 18!) is welcome here exceptttttt the usual suspects aka anyone entertaining any kind of racism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, etc etc etc. luckily (to my knowledge & memory, at least) i’ve not had any interactions with people like this so idk if it’s even necessary for me to highlight it, but at the same time i don’t think it hurts to just say as a heads up that i simply don’t want your presence on my blog if u can’t support people’s basic respect & rights ✌🏼
ALSO my asks and dms are open and i really do love connecting w new people but i often get super overwhelmed with messages etc and i struggle keeping on top of it all so i’m really sorry in advance about poor replying!!
this has obviously turned into a classic ramble and i’m sorrrrrry but you know i can’t help it 🤷🏻♀️
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Hi,
I looked through your post history after reading through a few about how to protect yourself with hypnokink. I've only just dipped my toes into it with a "beginner trance" last night over discord text. It was surprisingly effective considering I thought myself hard to hypnotize.
I could really use your help letting me know if these commands are lines are part of the kink and hypnosis, or if they're red flags. If they're red flags I don't know that I have enough interests in doing deeper research. Ultimately I'm looking to know if this is a safe person I can explore this potential kink with, or if they will only be harmful for me.
[my responses and some small blocks in between have been omitted]
Here are the phrases:
Every time I tell you the words SLEEP NOW in all caps, you can easily and effortlessly fall back down into this deep state of relaxation Is that understood?And every time I give you a command within [these brackets] you will feel compelled to obey it
Knowing that obeying me gives you the deepest feeling of pleasure in the entire world
Obeying me gives you a sense of belonging
Obeying me makes you happy
Obeying me makes you horny
And M ~ I want you to remember this.
Your new mantra
Pleasure is obedience, and obedience is pleasure
[Say those exact words, now]
Wonderful, M
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I’ll tell you exactly what that means
Every time you obey me, you feel pleasur
And every time you feel pleasure, you become more and more obedient
It’s an endless cycle
And now I have you caught in it.
Thank you if not for an answer than at least for the countless posts of education you've already given me.
Thank you! I appreciate receiving this as an ask, and I appreciate the obvious care that went into crafting the question.
I’ll answer at length.
Hot take party
There’s a specific Neural Nets and Pretty Patterns take on hypnosis.
Hypnosis is art. It’s poetry. Sometimes it’s recited, but good recitation changes with each iteration. We make it our own.
That’s how oral poetry worked. That’s also how inductions work. People told stories and those stories had effects on the audience. It’s a slutty Iliad.
For the most part, I write, produce, and voice special poetry about how much I enjoy railing sluts. I’m passionate about it because I really enjoy sluts.
What hypno ain’t, though, is science.
It’s not a technology. Erotic brainwashing and sexual trance doesn’t have a predictable formula. It’s not a pill.
This answer disappoints grifters. The market for love potions is a lot bigger than the market for love poems.
How’s this rant relate to the question?
In a few ways. I’ll reword your ask as questions I can answer better.
Someone sent you a script, essentially.
“Is this a good script?”
I don’t think it’s great.
No specific connection to you, no connection to kink, just a recitation. It doesn’t do it for me. Once we accept that this is art not science though, it’s fine that we might have different tastes!
I also think it’s scientistic. Those brackets read like a programming fantasy. I have those, but best to admit it. Good kink runs on honesty.
I do some special notation on this blog. You can see it. In large part, I do that to evoke an emotion and because it looks fucking cool. I’m not command line hacking your brain. If I could do that, I’d be running governments, not a blog and a modest Patreon.
“Is this a dangerous hypnotic script?”
Not really.
I think it’s a bit dull. It’s unrealistic. I don’t think you’re going to suddenly [obey text in brackets] and OBEY ALL CAPS.
That might be an interpersonal red flag. Someone who sends a canned script isn’t a psychic supervillain. They might be insensitive and uncaring, though.
Most “hypno dangers” are really interpersonal dangers. You aren’t looking for evil wizards. The dude who sends 15 spirals and yells something about Bambi Sleep isn’t some sly mastermind with a knowing smile. He’s just an annoying looser. Is he going to yell DROP 4 COCK and make you suck a dick in the Kroger’s? No, that’s not real. Might he waste a lot of your time and lie a lot? Yeah.
So the red flag, really, is that people who lie about hypnosis to sound cool and impressive probably lie in relationships and that’s a bad sign. Does your person there fit the bill? Idk, hard to say without more context. You have the answer but I at least have a better question.
Is this person full of shit?
If so, run! If not, negotiate limits and boundaries with good and honest communication.
I’m here for any follow up questions!
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God, my life is craY.
Anyway, happy Trans appreciation day!
I might be a bit late, like I said, my life is crazy.
But seriously, the trans community is responsible for whatever humble success I’ve achieved as a writer of bimbo fiction. I would not have made it as far as I have without the support.
You are always safe here, in my space, I will protect you, and fight for you, and use your pronouns, never deadname you, and always stand between you and harm when I can.
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You’re not a bad sub if:
Edging isn’t for you.
Denial isn’t for you.
Pain isn’t for you.
Anal isn’t for you.
Oral isn’t for you.
You’re also not a bad sub if you need to safeword, if your limits are different today, if you have chronic conditions or mental health struggles that limit you more than you’d like.
There’s so many posts that talk about the “ways to be a good sub” and honestly there is no one way and it’s okay to do what’s right for you. You’re not a bad sub at all.
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if you need to take a break from kink, if you need less of a dynamic, you're not a bad person. a sub who needs time off from the rules and punishments is not a bad sub. a dom who needs a break from being in control or giving punishments is not a bad dom. you're a whole, complex person, and there's no shame in not being able to be one thing one hundred percent of the time. it's okay to take a break. anyone who shames you or makes you feel like you're letting them down because you aren't up to playing the way you usually are is not a good partner. don't let anyone shame you for attending to your needs, even if those needs include "less kink."
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Please Reblog is Your Blog is Safe for Non-Binary People.
If my mutuals can’t rb this then we can’t be mutuals
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Different kind of bimbo
I see so many posts about being a bimbo for Him, for men, for the patriarchy, and that's cool if that's your thing.
But if I may offer an alternative... Be the kind of Bimbo that makes straight girls into lesbians who want to be just as free and happy. Be the kind of bimbo that brings joy to everyone. Be the kind of bimbo that offers kindness and soothing presence even when there's no sex involved. Be the kind of bimbo that stands up, puts on her big pink heels, and struts all over the haters and the hateful.
Be the kind of bimbo that dances when it rains.
Be the kind of bimbo that will break a nail knocking down a fascist.
Be the kind of bimbo that men fear, women envy, and the world isn't ready for. ❤
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Humiliation and Degradation
Here is another pernicious piece of internet theorizing that recently floated across my dash. The author suggests that having a "humiliation kink" is not the same thing as having a "degradation kink". They write:
This does not track the ordinary English usage of these words. To “humiliate” someone is to cause them a painful loss of dignity. To "degrade" someone is to lower them in dignity or to debase them. Webster explicitly indicates that they are synonyms.
If we have to name all the kinks, then, we will want to group humiliation and degradation together as kinks that have to do with the loss of dignity.
For all of those who value our dignity (i.e., almost all of us now) its loss is always painful. Therefore there is another way of defining the word “humiliation” which does refer to a feeling: it is the pain that goes with a loss of dignity. There is no real difference here between humiliation and degradation. We might as well define another meaning of “degradation” similarly, as in "I feel so degraded."
Part of the problem is that the author is confusing "humiliation" in the feeling sense with some nearby painful feelings, shyness and embarrassment. “Shyness” is a painful feeling that goes with a lack of confidence in one’s ability, worth, or fitness. “Embarrassment” is a painful feeling of confusion or shame. Someone might feel shy without feeling that she’s suffered a loss of dignity (or that she is at risk of doing so). She might feel shy about singing in front of a partner, for example. Similarly, someone might feel embarrassed because she can't remember how to say "apple" in Spanish without feeling that her dignity is at risk.
Most people, however, when made to wear a giant pig-tail buttplug and oink while you rub your balls on their face, feel humiliated or degraded. This is because wearing a giant pig-tail buttplug and oinking while someone rubs their balls on your face is not the kind of thing that a dignified person would do.
Maybe then we want to say that there is a kink about feeling shy or one about feeling embarrassed and then another one about humiliation and degradation. But then again, maybe all of this categorizing isn't really that helpful in the first place. If a girl tells you she finds it sexually arousing to piss herself, and if you ask her why, and she tells you that it makes her feel hot in the face and flustered and stupid, you’re not going to add anything to her self-understanding by telling her: “oh, you have an embarrassment kink.” Maybe what we should be doing instead is just trying to patiently understand ourselves and our partners without trying to find tidy little boxes to put everyone in. This mania for categorization leads to badly designed boxes, for one thing.
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