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I love giggling in private messages during zoom Torah study with another queer woman because we’re 12 years old and studying the Song of Songs.
I love sitting in someone’s living room watching the Prince of Egypt and we keep pausing it because someone in the room has a Point and we need to discuss it. And it takes us four hours to watch a two hour film.
I love Hillel sandwiches. I really do.
I love these silly arguments over frog vs frogs and even more so because I know that our rabbis and sages have been arguing about this for literally centuries.
I love that I cry during l’cha dodi every fucking time. Doesn’t matter the tune. Every. Time.
I love that I can say the words “erotic love is holy and sacred too” in a zoom room full of old people and none of them shut down the conversation.
I love that we have a holiday that traditionally means you study Torah all night long.
I love that we have another one that celebrates we got to the end of Torah. Let’s have a dance party and start over!
I love swaying while I pray.
I love that I can disagree with my good friend on fundamentals of our religion and that’s a good thing.
I love that I’m starting to be able to make connections with strangers and say “oh! I know xyz! Do you know abc?”
So many more things but overall. I love us. I love being a part of Judaism. I love being allowed to be here and invited in.
my mom hung up some clothes of mine on the doorframe and it seriously could not convey more "this guy dresses like a cartoon bully" if it got up and stole a kids lunch money
sorry but i simply cannot take anyone seriously with this argument. being horny is not a crime. acting inappropriately toward another person is a different thing from simply perceiving them in a way that scratches your brain. but you cannot make sexual thought crimes (thot crimes) a thing without it leading down an EXTREMELY homophobic, transphobic path of "the WRONG type of person PERCEIVED ME and I DID NOT CONSENT TO IT." sometimes you will be perceived by people you personally are not attracted to, and i'm sorry, but that alone is not a problem. you do not need consent to find another person attractive. being horny is fine, actually. get over it.
it's ok to be horny! it's good to be perverted! your sexuality isn't shameful and the things that turn you on are good and should be celebrated!!! even if its weird!!!! especially if it's weird and fucked up!!!!!!!!!!!!! FUCK!