Get yourself a "how can I help" partner and not "you will be fine" partner

౨ৎ self-concept killers ౨ৎ

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ᯓ★ how the law changed my life˚ ༘ ೀ⋆｡˚

𐙚₊˚ personally i love being alive so much, i love allowing myself to be happy in this life. i love the opportunities i get daily just by being alive. i love being myself and knowing the people i know

i spent the first 20 years of my life suffering and expecting the worst, of myself, of others and the world that surrounded me and one day (two years after finding out about the law) i realized just how useless it was. if i created my own reality why the hell would i keep living in one where i was being constantly tormented? i did it all and i mean ALL every method, every affirmation, ive written letters and burnt them. ive spoken to the universe crying at night and in the morning, ive drank moon water, ive lit candles, ive affirmed, ive shadow worked for months over traumas i didnt even know i carried

ive built my perspective from zero. and now im on the other side of that tunnel, so excited to be alive, excited to create and learn i want to read it all, learn it all and i know ive got the time, and i am so thankful because i can truly do it all and have it all.

and i wish this reaches everybody who needs to read it because you are as worthy of having it all as anybody else would be. because the sooner you decide your life is magical the sooner you realize it truly actually is worth living

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Do not wait until you have shifted to decide you are capable of shifting. Wake up please you're stronger than you think

The best advice I can give you about shifting that I can give you is just vibe twin. Nigga take a chill pill and do you boo.

If you get overly excited then be overly excited. It ain't bad to be overly excited.

If you fall asleep then twin you gonna wake up in your dr.

If you don't wanna think about your dr while shifting but still wanna shift then twin do it.

If you're ass crack itch then itch it nigga. You're still gonna shift.

If you're dog barking and shit either ignore it, make it so it's apart of your dr, or throw a shoe at the mf.

If you forget to script something then why tf are you panicking instead of just scripting it real quick then get back to what you was doing.

If you in pain...... I don't have the answer to that one twin. Push through I guess.

All this complicated shit is for pussies. Don't. Be. A. Pussy.

Ps this really just for me for real. A girl just needs herself sometimes.

child-like imagination ♡

remember when we were young children, with no limiting beliefs?

remember when we would be playing a game with friends and someone would say "ok let's pretend we're dragons now!"? there was no "but i'm not REALLY a dragon, so why would i act like a dragon? i'm not seeing scales on my arms, am i? i'm not flying, am i? this is so dumb, why am i even imagining i'm a dragon!?".

as we grew older, we stopped playing those games and we started to think "pff, those little kids playing house aren't ACTUALLY mothers, fathers, etc."

and now as we use imagination to manifest, there are similar thoughts, like: "how can i imagine that i'm gorgeous when everyday i look in the mirror and feel disgusted?" "how can i imagine i live alone when i'm living with my parents?" "how can i imagine that i'm a straight a student when i'm failing all my classes?"

you know the inner world is the true reality, stop caring about what you see in the outer world. release the need for logic. release the but, how, when, etc, like when you were younger.

love, aaliyah.

how to make shifting process more entertaining & not loose motivation

make dr playlists: this is genuinely so much fun. it helps a lot with setting the mood & you could listen to it when unmotivated.

spice up your affirmations: for example, instead of saying basic affs ("i am in my dr") you could be more deilusional & rant like if you were actually there, or highlight things about your dr to motivate you. e.g: "i am in my harry potter dr and omg why did i thought this was a good idea my butt is BURNING from all the walking... hogwarts is TOO fkn big, yesterday fred almost casually blew up a hallway n i had to run for my life. this is a call 4 help..." (directly copied and pasted from my friend's notion ☝️☝️). you can even create stories and use them as affirmations

create a shifting journal: TOP TIER TIPS. there you can write entries as if you were in your dr - not only it helps with visualizing and manifesting but also you can write down everytime you try, things you liked and disliked & symptoms you had to help you understand what works for you

pinterest wardrobe boards: self explanatory. this can also be made with your dr aesthetic in general

change methods weekly/monthly & try fun methods: in my opinion, the most fun methods are the lucid dream method, adhd method, and void state method, but that's up to you

bonus: try to shift during full moon. not because it increases your posibilities to shift (it does NOT, the moon phase has nothing to do with shifting unless you assume it does ofc) but because it's super cool as a concept, like "today's full moon so i can go to a paralel reality"?? IDK it just gives main character energy. i love shifting when it's full moon

if you know other methods or tips, reblog/leave a comment 🫶🏾

Success Stories: Waking Up In The Void

Hey loves 💗💗💗💗!! I'm sure I'm going to get into the void tonight, cuz this is so freaking easy 🫶🫶🫶 !!! I shared some success stories here to motivate people who want to wake up in the void 🙏!!!!

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/718170652701605888/hey-i-woke-up-in-the-void-for-two-day-i-kept

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/718168797987700736/i-got-in-the-void-state-hey-i-decided-to-do

https://www.tumblr.com/littlemissprettyprincess/704654959956918272/i-got-into-the-void-using-your-santa-method-btw?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/718170720197312512/unique-imma-here-after-void-omg-omg-omg-sorry

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/718249756485402624/guess-who-woke-up-in-the-void-state-by-literally

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/718244375733370880/uniquelymeandmyworld-here-is-my-void-success

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/719472151022977024/hello-how-are-you-i-am-very-good-for-now?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/719154688319209472/i-went-to-the-void-last-night-heres-my-success

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/717915358832492544/helloagain-i-did-it-i-woke-up-in

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/718194147242213376/hey-lotus-so-sorry-to-bother-you-during-your

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/717898395705016320/tw-abusive-family-bullying-suicide-attempts

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/718025082355712000/omg-i-almost-forgot-to-tell-you-i-woke-up-in-the

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/717915619719364608

https://www.tumblr.com/voidsuccessarchive/717897165817643008/someone-please-help-3-so-i-started-your

shifttok is so obsessed with rationalizing shifting. literally everything they say is trying to justify why they didnt shift.

"i didnt shift last night because i just said affirmations and went to sleep" BITCH. people do that ALL THE TIME and they DO shift

"i didnt shift because i put my dr on a pedestal" people put their dream colleges on a pedestal. THEY STILL GO TO THOSE COLLEGES make it make sense

"i didnt shift because blah blah blah" bro.. you didnt shift because you're imposing these rules upon yourself that didnt exist in the first place.

think about it. you're jogging on a clear path at a nice pace, you know that you're gonna get to your destination soon. SUDDENLY you start putting down hurdles you have to jump over and holes that you have to avoid. does that make sense to you?

you can shift. everybody can shift. i spent literally 4 years trying to figure out how to shift when i already knew. fucking take a breather and just do what feels right.

the first time i shifted i turned on a sub and went to sleep. no affirmations, no method.

"i dont like doing affirmations, i get distracted." then dont! no one said u needed to

"i have trouble focusing on my method and i keep wandering off" then do that! just let go

you will shift because thats just what happens. this isnt some superpower. instead of searching for the key, realize that you are the key.

🎀Things I’ve learned about Shifting 🎀

1. Background noise doesn’t matter. I come from a Hispanic family household and let me tell you hun it’s freaking loud as hell. It’s like a zoo lol but guess what? I still shifted. At some point you will start to feel your CR kinda “fade away”. I have been in this state where I am in between my CR and DR. I can hear background noise from my CR but I still feel like I’m in a different room or I hear sounds from my DR as well. Has anyone experienced this?? Let me know, I’m curious 🤨

2. Have patience. Allow yourself to relax and naturally connect to your DR. Don’t stress about having random thoughts or having an itch or things like that. Have patience with yourself like seriously you got this babe. Sometimes for me it’s feels like it’s takes 1 or 2 hours until I feel fully connected to my DR. (It’s different for everyone btw) you may take less time than I do. Those things don’t matter if you decide that those things don’t matter.

3. Methods really aren’t needed. If you think about it all methods consist of the same thing usually. It usually consists of affirmations, visualization, subliminal audios, meditation, counting, blah blah blah. If you want to use a method, then do that but don’t force yourself to do a method that doesn’t resonate with you. If you don’t like counting, then don’t count. If you don’t like visualizing, then don’t visualize. Change things up a bit and listen to music that reminds you of your DR or do something that you think is fun.

4. Just because some people like to lie about their shifting experiences doesn’t mean that shifting is fake. Just like in every community there is going to be people that are dishonest or don’t have the best intentions but that doesn’t mean that shifting is a big inside joke. Don’t allow these people to discourage you from shifting to your DR or make you doubt in its existence. Don’t depend on other people's content to feel motivated or believe in shifting. Just KNOW it’s real and motivate yourself to shift. (even though motivation isn’t needed to shift)

5. Shifting is Real. I think we all should know this by now, but I don’t think people really fully understand just how REAL shifting is. I mean you are going to be able to use all of your senses. You will be able to taste food, see your reflection in the mirror, talk to people that may be considered as fictional in this reality, etc. The process of shifting is safe but if you are shifting somewhere that has violence or gore make sure you script your own well-being. High pain tolerance, no trauma, etc.

6. Time isn't important. Just because it's been 4 years or 5 doesn't mean you can't do it. Time doesn't apply to shifting because time is just man-made thing. We created the concept of time not the Universe. Don't blame the Universe for your "Failure". (Spoiler alert: it's not failure) You just need to realize that no matter what, it will happen. It is completely inevitable. Some people have shifted after 5 years so don't give up! It will be worth it.

7. You can't fail at shifting. When you do your method, you will shift to your DR or shift to your CR. You shift all the time. We are constantly shifting consciously or unconsciously. Manifestation and shifting are very much closely related. (But that's another discussion for another time) Just like how we are manifesting on autopilot we are also shifting on autopilot. So, when you do a sleep method, and you wake up in this reality instead of your DR you still shifted. (Just not to your DR) (Get it?)

I hope you found this post helpful! :)

Shifting is as easy as breathing.

I never understood that, because how was something so extreme so easy?

I get it now. Shifting is basically just tricking your mind into thinking you’re going to wake up somewhere different, so you do. You can rely on your subconscious to do the hard stuff like remembering the details you want. All you really have to do is put your mind in a different space. You could blink with the intent of being in another place and be there within (literally) a blink of an eye. At the base of it all, it’s literally just thinking. All you’re doing is thinking.

Shifting is as easy as thinking.

Why you still haven’t manifested your desires?

The simple answer is because you keep changing your mind.

One day you feel like you have it, then another day comes, and you feel like you are doing something wrong and/or feel doubtful.

You keep letting your 3D dictate whether you have your desire or not.

You just need to decide that you have your desire. Do whatever method suits you: affirm, SATS, visualize, etc. But these methods only help you to remember that your desires are yours.

Deciding that you have your desire is enough. Every single minute, you keep choosing the state you occupy. You are either choosing to have your desire or not to have it:

“Remember, life is an ongoing process of creation. You are creating your reality every minute. The decision you make today is often not the choice you make tomorrow. Yet here is a secret of all Masters: keep choosing the same thing.

Over and over until your will is made manifest in your reality. For some, that could take years. For some, months. For others, weeks. For those approaching mastery, days, hours, or even minutes. For Masters, creation is instantaneous.

You can tell you are on your way to mastery when you see the gap closing between Willing and Experiencing.”

So keep choosing your desire. Keep persisting in knowing that you are God and your desires are yours and don’t change your mind about it. Do that until you see it manifest into 3D ❤️🙏

Persisting is just continuing to be the person who ALREADY has it. It’s not persisting to become the person who has it. And it’s not a chore either, since you persist 24/7 anyways.

I absolutely fucking hate how people act like shifting realities/the void state/manifestation are some kind of super power that you can only achieve with hundreds of hours of reprogramming or by doing super confusing methods that most people can’t even comprehend.

All these things I mentioned are simply skills. Do you have to believe you’re good at drawing to practice and become good at it? No. Do you have to believe you’re an amazing gymnast to practice and become one? No.

Manifestation is all about how your assumptions shape your reality, yet you all are out here saying you have to do ‘x, y and z’ to achieve that. But truth is, you don’t have to be in a ‘specific state of fulfilment’ to manifest, not do you have to ignore the 3D, unless that’s what you assume you have to do.

Hell, you could spend all day complaining about not having your desire and still manifest it, as long as you assume you will.

Let’s stop with all those stupid rules when the whole point of manifestation is the complete opposite: There’s no rules, you can do and have anything you want.

(No shade to any creator btw, I love and I’m grateful that we have such an amazing, open community. But I truly believe some people don’t fully understand the concept of manifestation.)