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enigma-thoughts · 3 days
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im sorry i had to do it that line is just so damn *chef's kiss* ARO
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enigma-thoughts · 11 days
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Two aroace roommates we should have a sitcom made about us called nothing or nothing
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enigma-thoughts · 11 days
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“can you people just let friends be friends!!” i shout into the mic. the crowd boos and throws tomatoes at me. “why, are you homophobic?” they accuse. i shoot everyone dead with my aromantic beam.
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enigma-thoughts · 11 days
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“I don’t care about dumb weed jokes,” I said naively, before I saw this
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enigma-thoughts · 18 days
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Things friends can't do according to allos!
(these are all things I have been told with 100% sincerity, and not stuff that I myself believe.)
Give each other meaningful gifts
Pay attention to the others likes and dislikes
Look at one another in a 'certain way' (???)
Match clothes or accessories
Hold hands for 'too long' (???)
Hug for 'too long' or hug 'too close' (???)
Cuddle because it's 'too intimate'
Not want to pull away during a hug or holding hands
Lean onto the other emotionally and physically
Smile in one another's presence
Laugh at each others jokes
Give genuine advice
Text each other 'good morning' 'good evening' 'good night' 'happy birthday' 'happy new years' 'merry Christmas' etc, etc
Ask how the others doing
I'll add more once I think of things I've forgotten
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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Gravity Falls Headcanon I wanna make.
Dipper IS trans (ftm) and his parents are sota supportive, but not really. (Mabel is VERY supportive of Dipper) So when the twins parents called Grunkle Stan, they told him to push more girly things on Dipper and how Dipper thinks that "she" is a boy, and how that needs to get out of "her" head.
Grunkle Stan being Grunkle Stan and not doing everything he's told to. He thought Dipper was a boy so that's part of the reason he pushed him to do all those chores. More "boy" chores to get him that build or something like that. Or to make him feel like an actual boy. And would help him get those hormone pills.
Idk, just a headcanon, not saying it's canon just a thought. Have a great day/night.
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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Boys (me) when no top surgery
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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me: *makes a tiktok about how men can get pregnant and how abortion laws affect these men also*
the comments: "SAY TRANS MEN" "PRO LIFE PEOPLE DONT SEE TRANS MEN AS MEN" "YOU NEED TO PUT TRANS MEN INSTEAD OF MEN, SAYING JUST MEN CAN GET PREGNANT AND CAN GET ABORTIONS ALLOWS CIS MEN TO HAVE AN OPINION ON PREGNANCY AND ABORTION"
like oh my god you fucking people are insufferable.
IDGAF WHAT PRO LIFERS THINK AND I DONT NEED TO SAY "TRANS MEN," TRANS MEN ARE MEN.
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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every month there seems to be a person admitting a hyperspecific thing that makes them dysphoric and people attacking them over it because they dont feel the same so.. let me break this down for people that dont understand.
excessive and rigorous hygiene routines, doing housekeeping related tasks like cooking or cleaning, etc. those things can make a transmasculine person dysphoric. you know why? gender roles. these things have been constantly portrayed as "a womans duty" and have been pushed onto them their whole lives. of course theyre going to have complicated feelings when doing them even if they enjoy them.
theyre not reinforcing gender roles, theyre victims of it. theyre doing their best to be vigilant of when patriarchal thinking seeps into their minds and mingles with thier insecurities. theyre making jokes and pushing the thoughts away. leave them be.
if your reaction to somebody else's dysphoria that you dont understand is to claim youre embarrassed of your transness then simply become cis :]
or fuck off.
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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I am trans not because I feel extreme dysphoria as a girl, but I feel extreme euphoria as a boy. The first time I went out in public presenting masculine, and had people refer to me as a boy, filled me with such giddy joy that I can't properly describe. It felt right, it felt like I'd found the missing piece of my life, and that's honestly incredible
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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here's to trans men with anger issues. here's to trans men who are loud or raise their voices without realizing, neurodivergent or otherwise. here's to trans men who get irritable or frustrated or impatient easily due to trauma, neurodivergence, mental illness, pain, or other disabilities, here's to trans men who can't take care of themselves, here's to trans men who can't stuff down their emotions, here's to trans men with violent intrusive thoughts, here's to trans men who snap without meaning to, here's to paranoid and psychotic trans men who become scared or hostile toward others without causing violence due to delusions and hallucinations, here's to trans men who struggle with homicidal ideation
here's to trans men who are bitter and angry and don't want to get better, here's to trans men who have tried to recover from trauma and have failed, here's to trans men who can't access proper mental health care because they aren't taken seriously, here's to trans men with mental health care trauma, here's to trans men who cope poorly with anger and hit inanimate objects and do "scary" things that don't actually hurt other people physically or emotionally.
here's to trans men with complicated mental health issues who need help but get insulted and called mean, rude, scary, shitty, assholes, dicks, jackasses and abusers. here's to trans men being human, too, and struggling with things just like anyone else. that doesn't make us evil, we are heavily traumatized by cisheteronormative society. here's to trans men who don't hurt other people but get told they do because people won't let men struggle with their emotions. i love you. you're loved. keep your chin up.
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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"testosterone wont turn you into a yaoi twink" not with that attitude
the second testosterone enters my body i'll become the prettiest boy ever. the clouds will part and rose petals will fall around me as a choir of angels sing to announce my arrival whenever i enter a room
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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Still have no idea how to look at responces on here cause it just takes me to a blog when I click one, but a few dumbass terfs did call me a man ("men like you 😤😤😤!!1!1!1!1!!!" Kinda shit) in the first couple of words so that's hilarious.
Just assuming that I'm a guy (they're right! I'm a trans man!) because I'm better/smarter/cooler than them and devaluing their idiot ideology at the same time is adorable.
Loves, woman can also be smarter than you. I just happily happen to not be one. You should really deconstruct those sexist assumptions. 🤭
I hope they can still see what I say after I block them! I don't usually block them, but when I do it would be nice if they just had to live with it.
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enigma-thoughts · 21 days
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its kind of sad that if I, a trans man, decide by my own free will to wear a dress, I have to specifically tell people that I'm not detransitioning. Trans men, boys, mascs, and neutrals can wear feminine shit. Just because we want to be fem doesn't make us suddenly not trans or faking it or whatever the fuck else.
we get to decide how we identify.
not the clothes we wear.
and not you.
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enigma-thoughts · 26 days
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happy trans day of visibility y’all! have some memes from my transgender meme collection
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enigma-thoughts · 26 days
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Ok y’all, I need you to drop links for free binder services. It’s November which means that parents won’t think it’s odd for their children to request that they not inspect packages. They’ll simply assume it’s a present for whatever holiday they observe. So please do your part by dropping links in the reblogs and trying to get this seen by those who need it
edit: I’m not going to guilt you into reblogging, because that might not be safe for you for whatever reason, but if it is possible, it would be greatly appreciated if you could reblog instead of/as well as liking. Reblogging ensures that more people see this, and the more people who see it the greater possibility for good.
edit 2: ok @the-maddened-hatter made a master list of what’s been added so far
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