probably super reserved and quiet at first but he warks up to the idea of dating you pretty quick
even after he's warmed up to it, it's still very difficult for him to handle the concept
views himself as unloveable and it takes a very long time to convince him otherwise
he's gonna need you to be super supportive and loving
not a big fan of pda, he'll probably only do more intimate pda, like hugging and small kisses on the cheek, around people he's close with, like sherlock and john, but around anyone else he would feel more comfortable doing the simplest forms of pda, like hand holding
super good at gift giving after about a year of dating, for the first year he'll go to john for help, but he'll eventually get the hang of it and, at this point, he's even better than john
will check up on you 24/7
"hello darling, how are you?" "hello darling, do you need anything?""good morning dear, anything i can do for you today?"
a massive fan of low key dates, like coffee shop/cafe dates or walks around the park
on special occasions he'll suprise you with an elaborate picnic
very protective of you, if an enemy so much as mentions your name or poses a threat to you he'll fly off the handle
i'm gonna bet it's probably sherlock's failt that you and mycroft started dating
"hello mycroft" "good morning y/n" "oh for christ's sakes you two just get together already"
it's super obvious to him from day 1, judging by the small smiles that you give eachother, the giddy expressions on both of your faces when the other looks away and the constant excuses to be close to eachother
mycroft is so thankful for sherlock for getting you two together because he physically cannot imagine life without you in it, he can't imagine a life that doesn't involve your smiles, giggles amd hugs
Watercolour and Colour Pencils, A4
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Sketches of Mycroft’s Eyes by Alexander Nussbaum, humble draftsman and character from Serpentynka’s Sketchy series.
Done with graphite pencils of a range of hardnesses in Lexie’s sketchbook at various times when he couldn’t quite shake that gaze.
Created for the print version of Sketchy 2, which will include art by me, @khorazir, @meetingyourmaker, and the author @theartofforensics. Thank you, I’m so pleased to be a part of this. They look a bit fuzzy in this post, so open in new tab for a larger and crisper view.
– I’ve seen so many posts on how to feel productive, but not too many on how to actually be productive. I do firmly believe in the power of mindset but that only does so much if you’re not actually going to sit down and get to work. I hope this is helpful to those who need it right now, whether you’re facing the end-of-the-year deadline or you’re trying to finish an essay before Christmas break is over or if you’re just trying to get out of a writing rut. This, as always, is my advice derived from personal experience and it may not work for everyone, but if this can so much as point you in the right direction, it has served its purpose.
Get Your Priorities Straight
Do you really want to spend this time writing? Or do you need to get that essay done? Is the laundry piling up in your closet, forming into the shape of a demon that’s going to scare the crap out of you tonight? If there is one thing I can pass onto you as advice, it’s to write with a clear mind. I’m not saying that you can’t write if you have other responsibilities, but writing to escape the million other things you know you need to do is not going to make that weight leave your shoulders and isn’t going to allow you to create good content either. it is much easier to be creative when the boring chores of reality aren’t nudging at your brain whenever you get stuck on a word that sounds wrong.
Eliminate All Distractions
Social media is not the only distraction there is that’s keeping you from writing. If you need to get stuff done, realize that maybe it isn’t wise to have two friends over to “study”. Be honest with yourself when the situation is starting to get critical. Do not set yourself up to fail by turning Netflix on in the background because “the noise just makes me feel more comfortable when I’m alone”. That’s what ASMR is for. Don’t make excuses for the fact that creating distractions is a form of procrastination.
Say No To Yourself
Your brain is going to tell you “Just one more YouTube video” or “Just a 30 minute power nap” or “I’ll have more time to write tomorrow anyway”. Ignore that voice. Recognize that that, forgive me if I offend you, is BS. You cannot have faith in the convenience of the future if you want to be a successful writer. If you constantly depend on the cozy belief that you will feel it tomorrow or that you don’t have anything going on tomorrow so you can spend today doing whatever and shove it all on future you, you are going to get slapped hard by reality a lot sooner than you think. Train your mind to hear that voice and respond with “no, there is a good to fair chance that something unexpected is going to pop up tomorrow and that right now is the only time I’ll get to get this done, so I’m going to power through and do it now” because it is much better to have it done early than be worrying about it later on.
Write What You’re Excited About First
So, it’s common sense that you’ll be more motivated to start writing when you’re excited about what you’re writing, so start with that. This is one of the oldest pieces of advice in the book, but it’s popular for a reason. If you need to, start at the end or the middle or a scene you’ve been thinking about a lot recently or whatever. Even if you go back and edit one of your past scenes to throw yourself back into your own story, it’s ok. It’s allowed. Do what you need to do to get into it.
Just Get Started
I promise you that writing is more fun and exciting and a lot easier than you think when you just do it. Even if you know that what is coming out of your pen is garbage, just enjoy it. Fool yourself into thinking it’s the best art there has ever been and sometime into the writing session it will become such. If you tell yourself what you’re writing is golden, it will become golden. Confidence is pretty much everything when it comes to writing, because the confidence shows in the final product at the end of the day. Just remember, like everything else in life, you just have to fake it until you make it.
Face Reality
You’re not going to get 10,000 words written and edited and ready for publishing in one day. You’re not going to wake up tomorrow any more motivated than you are right now. You aren’t going to suddenly feel ready to write your entire book if you spend an hour scrolling through inspirational quotes on Tumblr. You are never going to be more ready to write than you are now, so stop making excuses and procrastinating and read this as a sign: start now. Don’t second guess it, don’t spend time making your surroundings perfect and outlining the chapter ad nauseam. Just write. Right now.
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