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I find the intentional use of language that directly applies to sex for a cuddle on the couch is being done on purpose. My irl who heard through the grapevine came to the conclusion George got a teenager drunk to fuck her. And when told it was about a hand on the waist he thought I was fucking with him.
Using phrases like drunk people can't consent and silence is not consent while refusing to elaborate what Caiti was not consenting to (a hand on the skin of her waist) is very deliberate. It's why I've seen people try and lie and say it was a hand under the skirt not shirt. Hypothisisng maybe he groped her when she did not say that.
The switch up from I sat very still and didn't say anything to okay I was very affectionate and got up and down and returned to sit by him multiple times. On top of saying you were considering ego? If you've been drinking but are thinking about someone else's hypothetical ego and reaction to you moving to sit somewhere else you are aware enough of your surroundings to decide you want to sit back down there.
The distortion of facts I can't say if she thought perhaps her story doesn't sound bad enough without them because frankly her first testimony made it sound like George was groping her on that couch while she sat still and wordless. But that is Not what happened as per her second statement amendment. So I can also see how George saw her testimony and thought perhaps her memory of the night was well wrong to put it simply and that's what should have been addressed. Where when she included the accurate story it is clearer to see she was uncomfortable he didn't ask to touch her skin. Which is the conversation we could have always been having instead of the UK group throwing out half baked statements about him being a sexual predator
That's essentially how I feel, yeah. I wonder why it became so extreme and why details were either expunged or lied about. Who encouraged her to frame the story in this way and why.
It's just really sad on all accounts.
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Regarding the GeorgeNotFound Situation
This entire conversation should not have happened publicly.
It was clear from Caiti's initial post that there was a breakdown in communication rather than any "assault" or "molestation." In her own testimony, she never described explicitly stating no, nor giving any indication besides "getting up" to stop the attention (which was later disproved).
That does not mean she wasn't uncomfortable. That does not mean she was not hurt by George's actions. It also does not mean George is a molester because of it.
From Caiti and George's statements, it is clear that this took place over a couple of hours (3-4), and besides the texting afterward, there were no further physical interactions between them. To use a single incident to describe George's behavior is a stretch at best and downright misinformation at worst. In the Wilbur situation, the violations of Shelby's boundaries happened over months with repeated attempts to tell him to stop.
In George's situation, it happened over four hours, in which there were no explicit tells to stop.
That said, I do hope George takes this incident and rethinks his behavior with strangers. Even if it should not be described as molesting, it still hurt Caiti, and if I were him, I would make strides to not repeat the mistakes made here.
Moreover, I think that some parties involved should not have been. Some individuals used the volatile situation to spread their own hate toward the Dream Team. They used Caiti's story to push their own agenda, which, in no way, is not supporting a victim. Her friends should have helped her find closure by seeking reconciliation from her "abuser;" instead, they made the situation a public massacre where she would most likely be harassed after already feeling vulnerable.
My hope is that, behind the scenes, the two will talk about what happened and try to find peace. George clearly did not know he hurt Caiti, and he apologized for making her feel uncomfortable. That does not make him a villain: it makes him a person who made a mistake.
The moral of this whole fiasco is not to support or not support victims. Support can be weaponized for personal gain, and to support blindly is almost as bad as not supporting at all.
Instead, we need to listen. From the beginning, Caiti's story was a plea for an apology from George, and all she needed was George's apology (which she received). She did not need people calling him an abuser, she did not need her friends to utilize her pain to attack George's friend Dream, and she did not need people to pry into both her and George's life for answers.
All of this could, and should, have happened off-screen where the two parties could reconcile and heal.
To Caiti: I wish this had not happened to you. I am sorry you are in pain, and I am sorry your friends used your pain for their gain. I hope you find peace from George's apology, and if you do not, I hope you find peace in life.
To George: I wish this did not happen in the public light. Your mistake did not need to be publicized and scrutinized and instead should have been between you and Caiti. I hope you will help Caiti find peace, and if she does not want it, I hope you grow as a person and do not make this mistake again.
As of right now, this blog will remain positive about the Dream Team. I probably will not be supporting George enthusiastically right now (since I want to be certain this isn't a repetitive behavior and just one incident). However, I will be happy to talk about any fandom content regarding him and the other members.
It has been a rough few days, and I am grateful for the lovely positivity we created between my anons and followers. I give you all many squishes of happiness. Thank you for being kind.
Now, let us all move on to a better and brighter future in this fandom. We have a lot of content coming up, and I'm very excited. Feel free to send any asks regarding the situation; I would love to read your opinions.
TL;DR This conversation should have happened off-camera. Caiti's story should not have been used for clout, and George should not have been attacked for clout. Both need to heal off-camera, and we should support that.
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also re: the dream paying fans is the person making the claim had misinformation. apparently one time on a space lucifer made a joke that dream should pay her for how much she defends him and that one time as a joke he sent her money. Like so deeply fucking unserious the people who spread misinformation and feel like now is an appropriate time to bring shit like that up will rot
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monday warm up, speedpainting study of an LA sunset
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milo is one fire extinguisher tall
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HAPPY EARLY CHRISTMAS here are some dnf gingerbread men I made 🙌
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I stopped reading DNIs because 90% of the time they were just fucking inscrutable to me. I’d go to somebody’s page and it would be like “DNI if you’re a COSLA apologist,” so then I would Google COSLA and it was just like “Welp, either things are really heating up in the Convention of Scottish Local Authorities fandom or I still have no idea what the fuck this person is talking about.” Or “DNI if you identify as ANFO.” Okay, well, I definitely don’t identify as Ammonium Nitrate/Fuel Oil, but that’s probably not what you meant (although hey, maybe you did; I obviously don’t know enough about your views on chemical compounds to outright dispute that option).” Like, you have my blessing to hate whatever obscure fandom pairing or super niche kink group you want, but just know I am embracing ignorance on this one and will not be looking that shit up. Peace.
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and while i'm on the topic of sapnap, his interactions with chat are so enjoyable and fun and he's stubborn and him asking any and all questions about anything that comes to mind and how he'll tease chatters and how he'll sometimes apologise when he yells and he is a polite cowboy, who got two kittens, because he felt bad about the other one being left behind and he's a good cat dad and he loves his friends and :(
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why does everyone who famously suffered have their name start with jc. jesus christ . julius caesar . jream cwastaken.
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