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25 Laws of power for women
Conceal your goals especially the ones that are appealing. Losing weight, reinventing yourself, marrying wealthy. Instead talk about your altruistic goals - to help children, invest in education, this will chase insecure people with vile intentions.
Do not give anyone your source of power: Was is a book that changed your life? a mentor? a movie? Never give up your secret to success. If forced to do say allude to God, the universe, the a random phenomenon
Use the patriarchy to your favor; we live in a world that is, only associate with men who have power, use that power for good.
Never appear too perfect but be selectively vulnerable when needed. Only share something that you will be comfortable saying. You might say “I forget my keys all the time,” “I don’t know how to perfectly park a car “. But never disclose something you are not comfortable with just because you are afraid of being perfect.
Maintain distance in relationships. Friends are the best and you need them. But if you feel that they are becoming too dependent, see them at your own will. But also the reverse could be the case. Your friend may keep a distance, and that is the way of life. You have got to move on from it.
Develop your own style that makes you unique, beautiful, and elegant. Avoid trying to fit in the crowd of people who claim to care less about their style yet have too many opinions about other women’s style
Avoid male friends at all cost, you will have male colleagues, male bosses, male acquaintances, business partners. Keep it that way. You do not want a Truman Capote divulging your secrets to the world. Do not keep a man who does not fit your standard.
You do not have to win at every game. Pick and choose what is best for you and leave room for others. And step down if you have attained that level of success, do not let the society do it for you.
Trust people but remember that we are all humans. So trust with discretion!
Confuse people with kindness; people are not always comfortable with beautiful and intelligent women. That power is too intimidating so confuse them by being genuinely generous, curious, kind, and passionate.
Keep your strong opinions to yourself.. if you support a movement, a way of life, do so silently.
We all have dirty laundry, wash them privately, don’t expose yourself. Remain silent when people try to attack you or shame you. Whatever is not confirmed is not true. You are the only one who knows all the truth about you.
Don’t attract pity or praise: People who pity you do not help you, in fact they might think that you are weak and could mock you at their annual gossipping meeting. And if you are doing things for the sake of praise you are wasting your time.
Choose yourself all the time; never put any one’s feelings above yours.
Trust your own intuition if you feel someone is being malicious towards you, giving you back handed compliments then you should let them go
Never speak bad of another woman. Do not lazy around gossipping. Keep your hands clean and your conscience clear.
Avoid women with low self esteem they will bring you down. For some reason they do not like seeing other women who are doing better than them
Be careful who you seek validation from. Not everyone needs to be pleased. If they are in no way capable of contributing to your life in the ways you prefer, then don’t ask them for their opinions or please them.
Do not compete with other women, if you do you are only putting them on a pedestal. You are making the the standard by which you measure your progress. If you do compete, begin digging your grave.
Do not give unsolicited advice, do not share the inner workings of your mind, If your mouth is very charitable you better start journaling.
Be well-rounded and interesting. It attracts people. It also keeps you busy because you are continually improving and learning. An idle mind is an easily subdued one.
Avoid women who want to live vicariously through you; they want to know who you know, shop where you shop, befriend who you befriend, wear what you wear.
Pay attention to the source of your discomfort; get rid of them. You tell them your dreams and they remind you of all your hindrances. They ask why are you dressed so fancy as though fancy isn’t subjective. They undermine you interests and goals. They will also be quick to bring you down because they are afraid of your potential.
Do not fear power or please power. When we see powerful people we try to hard to befriend them, to be close to them but you need to be comfortable without them. Don’t push yourself in the name of friendship, do not try too hard to be in their inner circle. Your independence of mind is the most important. Instead become a powerful woman, aloof to the presence of power but aware of its importance. Be an ingenious and intelligent and use your creativity to uplift yourself. When you do so it will be hard to ignore you. Even the powerful will become an ally.
Enjoy moments of solitude. Use that time to develop yourself, improve your body, learn new skills, create with your mind, read widely, become more elegant, then launch yourself.
Remember the most powerful women are the most intelligent. Inspired by Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power. Use at your discretion.
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DANGER ⚠️ ! DANGER ⚠️! SCARCITY MINDSET!!!
if you want to level up, you have to get rid of every Cynical Sally, Negative Nancy & Downer Debbie from your life. If you’re goal is to find x, you have to ruthlessly cut off everyone who says x doesn’t exist or x is not possible. They will drag you into being a loser like them. And if you still manage to achieve x, you shatter their picture of the world and force them to confront being a loser. Rather than admit that they are a loser, they will attack and blame you, back stab you.
Also winners surround themselves with winners. If a winner sees you have a loser like this among your friends maybe you are a closet loser and will block you.
Remember The Secret? Abundance Mindset = winner, scarcity mindset = loser!
Winners manifest the impossible and keep hustling until they get there.
Level up requires being ruthless and cutting out every friend who thinks or speaks like this or either you will never among to anything or they will back stab you if you do.
Do NOT entertain cynics.
A young mentee asked what do you do if an older woman says “all males are cheaters”… I would look at that piece of humanrubbish up and down and say “of course… some like you would say that.” Then walk away and block her. Online just block scarcity mindset trash 🚮 before it bites you.
The problem is scarcity mindset people feel entitled to hurt others because of their perception of scarcity. That is why women like this are dangerous to you and others.
Make friends with optimistic people, successful people and those with delusional positivity. Success requires some delusional positivity thinking you are going to succeed if you manifest and try hard enough.. because to succeed you will have to have faith and hustle for years before knowing your goal is possible. We went from living on trees and caves to sending people to the moon and using cellphones.
In this world anything is possible because everything exists. Every kind of person and opportunity exists. You just have to be crafty enough to find that one person who doesn’t cheat and pays your bills and marries you or how to build a billion dollar company. I have seen people with nothing achieve literally everything they set their mind to.
What you seek you shall find. If your friend says your dream is not possible, that is the moment that they stop being your friend. Block the losers and search for the winners circle.
Rich people at the top don’t get rich alone. They build an A team, a winners circle to keep their spirits up when they keep hustling but the goal isn’t in sight yet. Winning requires faith and patience.
Poor stay poor because they think kindness alone is the only friendship criteria needed. You need an optimist circle of winners to get ahead .. and it may hurt to have to drop people who were kind to you for over a decade before they back stab you because they are jealous of you achieving your goals
Get rid of cynics from your girl squad. Either be a lone winner or surround yourself with winners. Losers try to drag you to their level and make drama if you succeeded in spite of that.
Surround yourself with optimists. If not in person in books and podcasts. Build your winners circle now!
Credit Maria Al Massani
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