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Making the decision for them

The biggest mental health issue we see when speaking with ABDL’s and littles is the shame/desire cycle with regard to wearing & using diapers. This is especially pronounced when they believe they’d be happier if in diapers all the time but have struggled to make it work.

Feelings of shame often are the catalyst which temporarily kills ABDL desires only for them to return stronger than ever a few hours or days later. This leaves your partner feeling both guilty about not committing to what they know would be good for them and guilty for having the desire to start with.

The good news is them having a supportive partner is the biggest advantage possible and you as their partner have the ability to transform their lives for the better.

Ask yourself if the following are true:

- They seem to be happier and/or less stressed & anxious when diapered

- They’re wearing diapers several times a week and often for multi-day periods

- They’re comfortable using them for #1 & #2

- They’ve worn in different public situations

- They’ve mentioned a desire to be 24/7 before

- They may have even tried 24/7 for a period before.

- You are comfortable with them wearing and using diapers

- You are willing to make some changes to your life if it makes them happier

- You are willing to be involved in their diaper wearing

- You can afford $200+ a month for their diaper supplies

If you answered yes to them all, using diaper discipline to “force” them into the situation they actually want can be extremely beneficial.

We have talked about many ways to use diaper discipline and although this may feel like one of the more extreme options it has proven to be very effective for couples we’ve spoken to and to us directly.

So what are we suggesting? Well in short, you return your partner to diapers full time and stop this negative cycle for good. Think of this more as an intervention than a discussion.

Yes this will be hard at first and there will be times they resist but I guarantee if you stick to it the positive results will speak for themselves.

For this approach I don’t recommend any half measures as this leads to gaps which can cause you and them to waiver and lead to the collapse of the benefits.

So if you’re willing and ready to take on some challenges to help your partner what should you do?

First decide a date from which this will start.

This should be 1-2 weeks away to give you time to prepare and the absolute ideal would be if they’re away for a day or two immediately prior to this date.

Second is to get yourself fully comfortable with the rules you’ll be setting out for them.

These are:

1. They will be diapered 24/7

2. The only exception to this is at work and with friends and family where they can wear pull ups but otherwise they’ll be in high absorbency medical or ABDL diapers.

3. When in diapers the toilet will be fully out of bounds, including at home, in public and on vacation.

4. They should now be treated as having bladder and bowel incontinence.

5. This isn’t a short term change and will likely be permanent.

Also decide on these three rules which we highly recommend but are optional:

- At home all checks and changes will be carried out by me.

- All diapers must be worn until full or have been messy for over an hour.

- At home diapers aren’t to be hidden and should be either be fully exposed or obvious through ABDL clothing.

Third, prepare for the change:

- Make sure you have a good stock of diapers for them.

- I’d recommend having around 200 in stock with a mix of high quality but thinner medical diapers (e.g. Tena Slip Ultima), thick medical diapers (e.g. Megamax) and ABDL themed diapers.

- Gather diaper changing essentials including adult sized wipes, powder, barrier cream, disposable gloves & disposable changing mats (bedwetting mats are perfect)

- To help things along get a stock of suppositories, mini-enemas, laxative tablets, fibre supplements and I’d also recommend devrom to be used to reduce smells.

- Buy some ABDL clothing essentials if they don’t already have them:

- A couple plain onesies to be used in public

- A couple of ABDL onesies for at home and nighttime

- A few ABDL outfits for use at home for example a romper, play dress & baby style tshirts

- Create a dedicated diaper changing room for them including at a minimum:

- A changing table. Ideally this would be built but a dedicated bed with a changing mat can work ok as well.

- A diaper pail (try buy a big one as otherwise you’ll be emptying it daily)

- Shelving / storage for their diapers and other supplies where they’re not hidden.

- A good air freshener or air purifier

- Having a full day or two to prepare can be extremely helpful if you can time it to be around them being out of the house

- This is optional but some light restraints can be fun and a big help, primarily:

- Wrist and ankle restraints on the changing table

- A locking diaper cover

- Padded mittens

- Straightjacketshop is our favorite for these

The big day

This day is going to change both of your lives for the better. Make sure you have everything ready for when they come home. In preparation also do the final step to commit to this and throw away all of their underwear.

Upon arriving home tell them you have a surprise for them leading them up to the diaper changing area. Help them strip down and importantly dispose of their underwear into the diaper pail before getting the to lie down on the changing table. Attaching the wrist restraints are a good idea at this stage if you’ve opted for them.

It’s likely they will actually be excited at this point with this development so don’t expect much resistance.

Diaper them into a thick ABDL diaper before telling them what you’ve decided. It’s best to give the background to your decision and focus on how you think this will be best for them and how you know deep down this is what they want.

Next, run through the rules slowly and a standout moment for me was reinforcing these to him by saying that this meant he’d be never using the toilet in our house again. This will be a lot to take in, and expect them try negotiate some changes to the rules but you should stay firm on all the major points.

Once they’ve calmed down from the excitement and nervousness of it all, dress them in ABDL clothes and try have the best possible evening. Cook their favorite meal, watch their favorite film, etc and keep them relaxed.

Likely more questions and worries will come up but you can normally handle these easily.

The question you will certainly get is “How long will this last for” and it’s important for both of you to accept that this isn’t a game or short term experiment but a permanent change. It’s very important you highlight this but you can provide a review period after a significant period of time.

I would recommend having a review after 6 months and decide if it should continue. 6 months is a good time period as it’s long enough to get through the initial challenges and far enough away to prevent them/you just waiting it out while not accepting the new reality.

First week

The first week is going to be a big adjustment as they realize you’re serious and you both get used to this new world.

As part of proving this isn’t a temporary thing get them to try on all their clothes while thickly diapered and get rid of all which no longer fit well. Follow this up with a shopping trip to replenish their wardrobe with clothing for public wear.

Make sure their diaper area is completely hair free, we find hair removal cream works wonders.

You should also use this week to ensure they know the rules are serious. I’d recommend using a suppository or laxative twice to ensure they fill their diaper and try make one of these be while around you.

Provide huge amounts of encouragement and praise all week. And reenforce that this is going to be great for them and you both.

Keep their diaper exposed at home or covered only by ABDL clothing, there should be no opportunity for them to not be wearing their diaper.

Finally try be as involved as possible in diaper checks and changes.

First month

With the first month try and get into the routine as much as possible and tick off different wearing and usage scenarios. Have meals out with them diapered, go on a day trip with a diaper bag packed, etc.

Continue to provide as much encouragement as possible and continue to check and change their diapers at home when you can.

You should also introduce daily fibre supplements for them as these are good for bowel health, can be used long term and although they will increase the volume of their bm’s it actually helps reduce the smell. Reducing red meats and fatty foods also helps keep the smell down.

This is also the perfect time to experiment with different diapers to see which are best for different scenarios. Try extending how long you keep them in the same diaper before changing to get familiar with their capacities. Expect several diaper leaks during this process and never punish them for these. A waterproof cover on your bed is a good idea.

Second month

Now you’re 30 days in you should be both used to the new situation and they should be now accepting this isn’t a short term change.

This month you should encourage them to begin diaper training and form a bedwetting habit. When diapered they shouldn’t be holding so check their diaper 30 minutes after a change and tell them off if it’s not already slightly wet.

Every night make sure they have 1-2 large glasses of water before bed and tell them you expect them to be wet in the morning. This process will take a few months but if you encourage them to relax and let go in bed and add punishments if you wake up in the morning and find them dry.

Finally you want them to become comfortable using their diaper fully even when out of the house. Have a day trip where they’ll be using their diapers a lot

Third month

This is the perfect time to go on a vacation together so if you’re able to, book a 1-2 week vacation. As they’ll not be around friends or family this whole period should be in diapers only from leaving your house to returning. When going through airport security a dry diaper is recommended to avoid setting off the scanners.

A vacation is a great time to get them even more comfortable with their diapers in public as they won’t be worried about meeting people they know. Experiment with them wearing thicker diapers than normal especially if you’re going on a longer day trip.

Also remember you should be treating them as if they’re fully incontinent so this means swim diapers are a must. If you have your own pool then I recommend using an ABDL swim diaper but also take a discreet adult swim diaper option for use in public.

A vacation is also the perfect time for you to take 100% control of their diapering. Even if you’re not doing this at home I’d recommend you doing all their diaper checks and changes for the whole period and make it clear they can’t ask for a change.

Do not make any exceptions for toilet usage and if you have a day where a messy accident would be very inconvenient use a suppository in the morning or some ducolax tablet the evening before to ensure they’re emptied out prior to the day’s activities.

Forth month

They’ll pass 100 days diapered this month so make sure to celebrate and congratulate them on the achievement.

You both might still be a bit shy about messy diapers at this stage and now is the right time to try change that. If you’ve noticed they hide away from you when messy tell them this and that messy diapers are normal and not something you expect to change your activities together.

If you’re not checking and changing all their diapers already at least start a rule that they must ask permission to change. When they ask, conduct a complete diaper check where it’s fully exposed and either pull back the rear waistband or use your hand on the back of the diaper to check for messy accidents. The other key thing is don’t always give permission, for example if it’s just messy and still has capacity tell them that it looks like it can hold more and to come back in an hour.

To help them get used to messing in your presence force the situation:

- Give them a suppository before settling down for a movie and don’t allow them to getup or change until it’s finished.

- Make them take 2 ducolax tablets in the evening which will result in them messing overnight.

- Use a suppository before a drive or trip to go shopping 

Finally, they shouldn’t be associating a messy diaper with an instant change. It’s important that the state of their diaper doesn’t influence your activities too much. Once they’ve messed try continue your plans for an hour or two until there is a convenient time to change him / let him change. For example if he messes in the early evening, his change can wait until after you’ve eaten dinner together. Devrom and plastic pants really reduces the smell.

Fifth Month

Their diapered life will be feeling very normal now.

Now may be a good time to experiment with swapping out pull ups for thin diapers for work, friends & family. I’d recommend maybe a cloth backed option so they’re completely silent to build up their confidence. Make sure to give lots of reassurance that it is discrete.

Sixth Month

This is the review month so make sure to have a conversation about how they’re finding things. I’m sure you’ll both agree it’s been positive and will want to continue.

Avoid reducing the rules at all and I’d recommend now is the time to commit to them being diapered fully and phase out the pull ups completely.

I think it’s worth calling out to them that this means you’re committing them to diapers permanently. Now is a good time for you to increase your involvement to be checking and changing all their diapers at home.

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This post ended up longer than we expected but hopefully it’s will be useful to you as a partner of an ABDL. As always my DM’s are open and I’m happy to chat with anyone who is thinking about this for their partner and wants some advice.

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Diaper discipline for your partner when you’re not ready for 24/7

Many couples I speak to the diapered partner has a desire to be forced to wear 24/7 but either this isn’t practical in their lives or their partner isn’t ready to get that involved yet.

So I wanted to put together a short guide on how you can implement diaper discipline and forced regression in a ad hoc and none full time way.

With 24/7 diaper wearing the discipline & domination parts come significantly by you removing their toilet privileges in a near total way which results in it being the discipline they need. If you’re instead only going to make them wear on an ad-hoc basis then you need to make some changes.

First although they’re going to be wearing a lot less you need to be more involved when they are wearing. Secondly it has to be unpredictable for them. And finally it should be more intense than 24/7 wearing to make up for the reduced regularity of it.

I did this to my partner before we decided 24/7 was the right path so here as some tips to get you started.

Look for opportunities to make them wear diapers where it will be more embarrassing while still protecting their privacy

- Going on a day trip? Surprise them by diapering them in the morning and packing a diaper bag for them to carry.

- Long drive? Thick diapers are required.

- Staying with friends or family? Diaper them up for bed!

Force them to use their diapers

- Once or twice a week force them to mess their diapers with the help of suppositories, enemas or laxatives.

- Use locking clothes or diaper covers to prevent them from removing their diaper so they have to use it.

- Lock the door to the toilet in your home

- Don’t give them permission to use the toilet in public

- Make them lose control in a semi-public way. You don’t want to expose others to smelly diapers but giving them a suppository and sending them to get groceries or go out for a walk is a favorite of mine. Or hand a suppository for them to insert at the end of a meal out or when on a drive and still an hour or two away from home.

Take control of their first diapering, checks & changes

- Surprise them by walking into the room, with diaper supplies in hand, and diapering them there and then.

- Tell them that they can’t ask for checks or changes and do these yourself

- Check them in a physical way, making them drop their pants or lift skirt

Vary the amount of time they’re diapered

- Sometime it might just be overnight

- Other times enforce 24/7 diapers for up-to a week

- Don’t tell how long each session will last

Throw in extended 24/7 periods

- Going on a 1 or 2 week vacation? Surprise them by diapering them and telling them that you’ve packed no underwear for them.

- Got a quiet month at home? Tell them you’re going to test them being diapered full time for a bit

Make it more embarrassing

- Tease them when they’re diapered

- Threaten then with being made to wear 24/7

- Force them to use their diaper in front of you

- Make them have their diaper exposed in the house or enforce abdl clothing only

- Don’t change them until they leak and then switch to thicker diapers

- Use more babyish diapers or make a male partner wear girly diapers more

Combine diapers with other humiliation elements:

- Male partner? Dress them as a girl when diapered

- Use bondage alongside their diapers; restrain overnight in a spare bedroom, use a straightjacket & suppositories to make them feel helpless, shackle their ankles to their desk in an exposed diaper while working from home, use locking onesies and covers regularly

- Chastity! Lock them up while diapered and experiment with pegging

- Butt plugs? Going out but don’t want them to mess? Plug them up.

- Role play. Nurse & patient or teacher & school boy/girl work great with diapers

- Pull ups or abdl underwear when not diapered

Use forced regression alongside diapers as much as possible

- When at home and in diapers they should not be dressed as an adult. Onesies, shortalls, exposed diapers, baby dresses, etc…

- Use pacifiers and bottles regularly

- Make them wear a bib while eating. Or step things up and feed them yourself

- Tell them they’re a baby, only babies wear diapers, etc

- Turn a spare bedroom into a nursery simply by replacing the sheets, adding some plushies and keeping a few piles of diapers and supplies visible.

How much and when?

With all of these ideas to try the question comes up of how often should they be diapered and how do I decide when that should be (especially if not a natural mommy/daddy).

As a minimum I’d recommend they’re diapered 25% - 50% of each month. In terms of deciding when you should make them wear, I used to do this at the start of each month and week.

At the start of the month I’d look at our plans for the coming month and see if there were any big events to add diapers to. These for example might be a vacation where they could be diapered 24/7, a weekend away, day trips, etc.

Then each week I’d decide how to get 2-3 days of diaper wearing in. Normally this would involve at least a full day at the weekend as well as some nights and maybe a day when he was working from home. Try pick a mixture of at home and in public diaper wearing time.

For forced messing I’d think when would be best for this. A weekend day at home works well especially when using laxatives where the effects can last a while. Suppositories are easier to plan around and can be inserted as part of a diaper check.

For the rest feel free to plan in as much or little detail as you like but keep it a secret from them. I started with very detailed plans which became less detailed as a gained confidence in the mommy dom role.

A tip from me is I setup a separate calendar on my phone to keep track of when he should be diapered and used a simple code to keep it discrete, naming the calendar “chores”:

- cook = they’re diapered

- garbage = forced messing

- clean = diaper change

- break = diaper check

- Etc…

The beauty of this is I could have notification reminders on for all of these and it doesn’t give anything away even if somebody sees it. In the early days, these reminders for me to check and change him were very helpful.

Finally, remember when doing this that you want it to be embarrassing & inconvenient for them some of the time. With diaper discipline and forced regression it won’t work if it’s always fun for them so plan accordingly.

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Discipline Program for Bedwetters

Note to the reader: I was sent this wonderful essay by a good friend and I felt I should share it with my fans here. I know many mommies will find it extremely useful.

The Program

B.D. (Bedwetter Discipline) is a disciplinary regime whereby a chronic adult bedwetter is returned to diapers using various techniques of humiliation, embarrassment, and creative shaming. It should be undertaken only after other methods have failed. It is assumed that medical treatment has proven unsuccessful. Responsibility for managing the problem is taken over by caregivers or their designee in a manner that emphasizes practicality and convenience while ignoring the concerns of the bedwetter. It is understood that a loss of independence, privacy and dignity is inevitable on the part of the bedwetter, however the gains of the program more than justify these insignificant embarrassments.

Types of Diapers

Although disposable diapers may be considered more convenient, for the purposes of this program, cloth diapers and plastic panties are preferable for the following reasons: 1.They allow the bedwetter to feel wetness after urination. 2. The bulk between the legs serves as a constant reminder to the bedwetter that he is wearing diapers. 3. Cloth diapers necessitate the use of accessories such as diaper pins, plastic or rubber panties, baby powder, and diaper bags. For the purposes of humiliating the bedwetter, the use of these items is more desirable. Extra diapers can be added to increase absorbency, prevent leaks, and to add bulkiness under outer clothing when out in public. In addition, cloth diapers can't easily be hidden under night clothing such as onesies or pajamas. Adult-sized cloth diapers are available in several styles; a pre-fold pin-on type is recommended (about two dozen) along with cloth baby diapers for use as liners/inserts. Adult sized plastic or rubber panties are easily obtainable, both in snap-on and pull-on styles. They are available in plain white, semi-transparent, pastel or nursery prints. Nursery print plastic panties are highly recommended and readily available also. If pastel plastic panties are to be used, pink is the preferred color. Six to ten pairs of assorted plastic panties are recommended for the initial layette.

A multi-sensory experience for the bedwetter is desirable and best served by wearing cloth diapers. Four of the five senses are acutely engaged in the process. They are:

Touch (bulk against the skin and a sense of wetness).

Sound (the crinkling of plastic or rubber panties when walking).

Sight (bulkiness, whether or not clothing is worn over the waterproof panties).

Smell (of plastic or rubber, baby powder, and a slight scent of urine eventually acquired by hand washed diapers).

Breaking the News

By the time the bedwetting adult is informed of the decision to return him to diapers (we will refer to the male gender, as most bedwetters are male), diapering supplies should already be on hand. They should include as a minimum, diapers, diaper pins, diaper bag, waterproof panties, diaper rash cream and baby powder. The bedwetter's bed should always be protected by a plastic sheet or rubber sheet. Allowing him to examine the products beforehand will reinforce the fact that the decision is firm and final; and while reasons can be discussed, it should be emphasized to the bedwetter that the decision is final and not negotiable. Allowing the bedwetter a few hours to contemplate the inevitable return to diapers may ease the transition, but that should be of no concern to the caregiver. If necessary, he should be informed that any resistance on his part will result in immediate punishment.

Reasons to wear diapers include:

To prevent wet beds and odor

To improve sleep by eliminating the necessity to change sheets during the night

To lessen disruption to the household

To reduce the volume of laundry

To emphasize the practical consequences of bedwetting

To supply incentives to attain dryness

To humiliate the bedwetter for his childish behavior

To remind the bedwetter he is acting like a big baby

The Routine

The bedwetter should be informed that he will be expected to cooperate in the following regime: At a specific time each evening, (7:00 pm recommended) he will make himself available in his room (or other designated area) for his diapering. It will be emphasized that there are absolutely no exceptions to this regimen; not even when visitors are present. Consistency is crucial. It will be explained that others will be in control of the adult bedwetter until he is ready to control urination by himself. This may include wives, girlfriends, adult babysitters, co-workers or any other designees.

Management and Punishment

It will be explained to the bedwetter that being returned to diapers is a enuresis management strategy, and that management options may include punishment at the discretion and convenience of the caregiver.

Diapering Supplies

While basic supplies will consist of the items mentioned above, other useful additions will include a changing pad, a diaper pail, and baby wipes. Ideally, the bedwetter's equipment will include a changing table. A six-foot long folding worktable is ideal for this purpose, and can be fitted with a blanket and changing pad. A shelf can easily be added between the table legs, and can be used to hold diapers and other supplies. If discretion is desired, a blanket can conceal the diapering supplies; however, it is recommended that they remain in plain sight.

Terminology

The bedwetter's diapers should be straightforwardly referred to as such, and other equipment should be referred to by name, i.e., changing table, diaper pail, diaper pins etc. It is permissible to refer to his plastic or rubber panties as 'baby panties' because of the wide use of the term in the vernacular.

Diapering

At the appointed time, the bedwetter will position himself upon the changing table. At this point he will be wearing just a T-shirt. A set of diapers will have been prepared by combining an adult diaper and one or more folded cloth baby diapers as inserts. The diaper will be powdered, and slipped under the adult's backside. Powder will be applied to his frontal diaper area, and then the diaper will be raised between his legs and tightly secured back to front with diaper pins. His plastic panties will then be slid down his legs with one hand, while holding both his ankles with the other hand. After making sure all the cloth is contained within the panties, he will then be free to remove himself from the changing table and rejoin the others in the household. If pajamas or track pants are permitted, he can then put them on, although it is recommended that his diapers and baby panties remain uncovered.

Discipline

Disciplinary authority can be accorded to each caregiver, or they can report to a central figure.

Post Diapering

The diapered adult will be expected to carry on as normally as possible prior to bedtime. He will not be allowed to 'hide', but might be asked to do chores such as hand-laundering diapers, hanging diapers and plastic panties on a clothesline, rinsing his diaper pail, etc. He will be expected to answer any questions posed by visitors in a truthful and straightforward manner. For example, "I'm wearing diapers because I wet the bed".

Teasing

There is bound to be some teasing on the part of visitors or their friends. This is inevitable and minor teasing will serve as motivation to become dry.

Babysitting

Once diapered, the bedwetter needs to be supervised by the caregiver or another adult. It is permissible, in some instances, to ask friends to undertake this task, or even someone unknown to the diapered adult, as long as professionalism is involved. Disciplinary authority is to be in accordance with the guidelines listed above under 'Discipline'.

Sanctions

Even before being returned to diapers, the bedwetter must understand that his cooperation is required and expected, and that failure on his part to submit to the process will bring severe punishment followed by forced compliance. Punishments may consist of anything from loss of privileges, to spankings. The use of a paddle, whether made of wood or lexan, is highly recommended. Most caregivers who have had to resort to spankings for non-compliance have not had to repeat the punishment. The adult bedwetter quickly learns that he is in a no-win situation. He will be spanked and diapered regardless who is present. Severe sanctions should be reserved for only the most serious infractions, i.e., non-cooperation in the diapering process, and unauthorized removal of diapers.

Frequency of Wetting

While each case is different, studies have shown that once returned to diapers, the average bedwetter will initially wet more often. Usually twice weekly wet beds might translate to five or even seven nights of wet diapers. The phenomenon is not completely understood (perhaps shame, perhaps security), but it is known that after approximately three months, the dryness achievement rate approaches that of untreated bedwetters, then quickly overtakes it. About 80% of adults in the Bedwetter Discipline program achieve dryness within six to nine months. The program may suspended when an adult has been dry for thirty consecutive nights, however, some caregivers prefer to extend the program, depending on the situation. For instances, many spouses who are married to sissies, often find that diapers are not only practical, but appropriate daily wear and continue their usage long after the bedwetter's behavior has improved.

It must be remembered that this program is a zero tolerance program. Any recurrence of bedwetting will require that the adult bedwetter re-enter the program. Some adult bedwetters never achieve dryness. If bedwetting continues beyond six months, then the bedwetter is to be removed from the Bedwetter Discipline program and entered into the more advanced B.H. program (Bedwetter Humiliation). Among other things, this will result in the bedwetter being diapered 24/7.

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Currently in the market for a real, well endowed, playful, kinky Man to “help me out around the house”. LOL!

We’ll keep my sissy baby husband in diapers, chastity, the cutest little dresses and pigtails full time, cuckolded and submissive. He’ll be a good little girl for Mommy and Daddy while we have grownup time together. And if he isn’t, then sissy baby will have to be spanked until he remembers how a good little girl behaves!

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hello losers 💌

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How to Help Someone Regress

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If you're reading this, you're probably a caregiver or babysitter. It can be scary to take care of someone for the first time, and sometimes they need help regressing. Here are some tips on how to help someone, but remember that everyone is different and you should have a discussion with your own regressor.

💙 Use baby talk or simpler words.

💙 Offer to help them complete tasks, saying things like "you're too small to do that, let me help you."

💙 Ask them about their regression interests, like their favorite cartoon or about their stuffed animals.

💙 Propose little activities; color with them, play a board game, ect.

💙 Cook them little foods like cartoon-themed macaroni, or give them snacks like goldfish crackers.

💙 Give them lots of affection, if they're comfortable with it. Hugs, cuddles, and little kisses on the top of the head can help someone get into a soft and fuzzy headspace, making it easier to regress.

💙 Give them very small tasks to do to feel like a little helper, like getting a book you need off of a low shelf, or filling up a cup so you can water the plants.

💙 Sitting the regressor on a high chair or other piece of furniture so their feet dangle.

💙 Tucking them into bed.

💙 Calling them nicknames they like, such as little one or dolly.

💙 Give them small rules or rewards, like a sticker chart for doing chores, or a time to go to sleep.

💙 Cutting up their food for them or even feeding them.

💙 Take them to the store to pick out a toy.

💙 Ask them to say "magic words" when they ask for something.

💙 Holding their hand to cross the street.

💙 Picking them up and carrying them, if possible.

💙 Give them whatever regression items they use, such as pacis, blankies, or stim toys.

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Diapered sissy is looking for some proper treatment.

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Lifestyle VS. Kink

Today, Mommy and I talked about what the community means to me outside of my sexual side. This is just a little of what we agreed makes things magical for us.

Nursing-

The idea of waking up and embracing milk as my main source of nutrients.

The feeling I get from being swaddled in my mommies lap with her nipple in my mouth.

The feeling I get when I slowly regress feeling ever more dependent on mommy.

The closeness it gives not just to me, but to her as well. It's a bonding time.

Having her burp me after getting to full. It gives me butterflies in my tummy.

Permanent Diapers-

The idea I'm slowly giving my control away for someone else as well as myself.

Mommies cute taunts and supporting cooes. 💕

The embarrassing/invigorating feeling of mommy doing a diaper check/change...

The feeling of dependence on mommy to take control of all my potty needs.

Needing a Sitter-

Embracing the idea I'm to small for mommy to leave on my own.

Being exposed to a new person for the dynamic...

Mommy sending requests for videos and photos while out on dates or at work.

Being made fun of by my sitter whose probably younger than me.

Playtime-

Knowing I no longer decide when I get touch myself

Mommy using toys to play with me

Taking away all my devices and putting a parental lock on them.

Timed playtime and screen time

Feeding Time-

Putting me in a highchair to be given my meals.

Giving me food age appropriate

Mommy spoon feeding me to not make a mess.

Keeping me trapped in my highchair till it's all gone.

These are just some of the ideas we get for the non-sexual lifestyle. Tomorrow, I'll post some of our more sexual scenes and activities...

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🍼" You’re Too Little To… “🍼

” Aw, baby. You’re too little use the grown-up potty. Sit on my lap, relax, and go potty in your diapee/pull-up. I’ll help you if you need it. “

” Do you need to go potty? Oh no, you’re too little to use the grown-up potty. I’ll take you to your little potty chair. “

” Let me cut your food up for you, sweetheart. You’re too little for such big bites. You could choke! “

” Here’s your bottle, baby… lay in my lap, you’re too little to drink it yourself. We don’t want it to spill on your clothes, do we? Let me hold it for you. Just put your hands on your tummy and relax~. “

” Uh-uh-uh! Those are adult clothes! You’re much too little for those! Let’s get you in a snug diaper/pull-up–after all, we don’t want you having an accident in big kid clothes~. Stains are hard to get out. We’ll find you more age-appropriate clothes too. “

” Uh-oh, did someone make piddles in their diaper/pull-up? Aw, don’t cry. You’re too little to know when you have to go potty. Let’s get you cleaned up. “

” Nap time, baby~. What’s that? You’re not sleepy? Don’t be silly, you’re too little to go without a nap, you’ll turn into a fussypants. “

” You know the rules; you hold my hand when we’re out. You’re too little to wander around by yourself. You stay by my side at all times. Or do I need to put you in a stroller? “

” Oh no, baby. The public bathrooms are for adults. You’re too little for those. Just go in your diapee/pull-up, and I’ll change you as soon as we get back to the car. “

” You’re too little to check yourself to see if you’re wet or messy. That’s my job~. And no, you can’t change yourself. “

” In the back seat, let me buckle you in nice and safely. Of course I’m using the child-locks. What’s that? You wanna sit in the front? Nuh-uh, you’re too little! “

” Oh, you silly baby! You’re too little to dress/undress yourself! Let me help you. “

” I bought you a nice, big playpen to put you in, so I can keep an eye on you. You’re too little to wander around the house without my supervision! You could get into things you’re not supposed to. “

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49 MORE Diaper Punishments: 49 New Chastity, Bondage, Punishment and Humiliation Techniques for Little Ones Caught Being Naughty in their Diapers (New Full-length Diaper Domination Guide!!)

Hello everyone! I’m excited to announce that I’ve just published a brand new, full-length diaper punishment guide!! This is the much anticipated sequel to my well-known, best-selling guide 101 Diaper Punishments.

The 49 punishments, stories, and techniques in this new 200+ page guide are specifically focused on punishing a submissive for masturbating in their diaper! (Very, very naughty!!)

Enjoy the free excerpt below! And if you want to read tons more creative, devious, and humiliating diaper punishments for dirty diaper masturbators (including corporal punishment, humiliation, bondage, and of course, chastity cages, belts, and devices of all kinds) check out the full length guide on Amazon or Smashwords!

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Free Excerpt: Techniques #7, #8, and #9 for Punishing a Dirty Diaper Masturbator

Technique #7: Bottom Stuffing — Dildos, Butt Plugs, and Other Bottom Toys

We are now moving on to more advanced techniques of punishment:

Implementing dildos, plugs, vibrators, or other ‘toys’ to give your submissive a ‘stuffed bottom’ for the evening (or any amount of time you deem necessary, for that matter.)

“Since it seems you can’t help but reach where you shouldn’t because you want to play in your diaper, Mommy’s decided to give you a special toy to play with in your diaper all night!” you’ll explain to your little as they lay helplessly beneath you on their diaper changing table.

They’ll no doubt squeal as you penetrate them, stretching out their tiny hole with an oversized rubber phallus. You can even press their wet or messy diaper to their private parts as you do it, reminding them of their filthy deed as they squeal from the penetrating punishment.

In addition to the initial insertion itself, stuffing your little one’s bottom accomplishes two things in terms of punishment:

Firstly, the stuffing itself is an invasive, deeply humiliating and uncomfortable reminder that you are in charge of what’s in their diaper, not them.

As they move about in the hours afterward while ‘filled up’—perhaps rolling around in their crib late at night, or perhaps just coloring on their play mat during the day—they will constantly feel their ‘special new toy’ penetrating them, widening them, stuffing them at all times.

They will be forced to think about their naughty, filthy, diapered self-abuse every time they feel the discomfort of the toy in their bottom cavity. And they will associate the humiliating, helpless, private penetration in their diaper with their masturbatory misdeed.

The other, perhaps even more sinister effect of a proper bottom stuffing, is that anal penetration is highly likely to incite the exact same naughty, perverse feelings in your little one’s diapered loins that led them to their filthy misdeed in the first place, and to a much more intense degree.

To quote a scientific article on the topic to prove my point:

Anal sex toys stimulate the nerve endings inside your anus. For penis owners, some anal sex toys are designed to stimulate the prostate. For vulva owners, anal sex toys can apply pressure to the anterior fornix erogenous zone, also known as the A-spot, located inside the vagina between the cervix and the bladder.

With the proper restraints implemented (which I’ll explain in much further detail in a future chapter) suffering the inescapable, unsatisfiable, insatiable arousal induced by ‘Mommy’s toy’ in their diaper all night, is an exquisite punishment in of itself.

And if they whine about the toy you’ve stuffed them with, just remind them that they shouldn’t have been so eager to play down there in the first place, then!

Technique #8: The Castor Oil Method — A Most Sinister of Cures

This next technique is particularly messy, sinister, and utterly infantilizing—all to remarkable effect.

As you prepare your diapered little one for bed, strap them down in their high chair, and give them three spoons of caster oil as punishment for catching them in the act of their sinful diapered pleasure the night before.

As you shove the repulsive, large spoonfuls of foul, sticky oil into their mouths, explain to them:

“Since I can’t trust you to be alone in your diaper without sticking your hands where they don’t belong, I’ve decided to give you enough baby medicine to keep you so occupied all night, that I know you’ll be too distracted to disobey me again.”

If your little one is still blissfully unaware of the effects of castor oil, they will very quickly become acquainted after you tuck them into their bed and lock the bars of their crib for the night.

First, they will very quickly succumb to intense cramps, and their urge to have a bowel movement will almost immediately become overpowering.

Most likely, they will attempt to avoid soiling themselves so early in the evening, if they still have any back-end continence at all, as they’ll know they will be forced to sleep in their poopy mess all night.

They’ll no doubt toss and turn for some time after you put them to bed, biting their lip and clutching their tummy, desperately trying to hold back the inevitable.

Almost certainly, they’ll lose that fight before long. And they’ll squeal in discomfort and embarrassment as they instinctively get on their knees, hold the bars of their crib…

And finally helplessly explode with a massive, poopy mess into the back of their diaper.

As they catch their breath, they’ll struggle with the fact that they need to lay back down in their crib to sleep. And as they do, they will cringe in disgust as they feel their warm, stinky mess sloshing up and smearing across their backside.

For the vast majority of little ones… their stinky, poopy diaper will prevent them from attempting any ‘naughty exploration’ for the rest of the night. If only because they fear their poopy mess might then escape the confines of their diaper.

But that might not be the case for all. And as a caregiver, you may in fact be dealing with a little one, who is in fact, of the most perverse of dirty diaper masturbators. The most naughty of potty-pants who would still even attempt to satiate their filthy, horny desires, even in a loaded, poopy diaper…

But that’s the wonderful nature of castor oil’s unique laxative effects.

Castor oil specifically ensures that your little one doesn’t just have one poopy accident… its laxative effects will ensure continued painful bowel cramps for many, many hours after its administration.

Therefore, even the filthiest of dirty diaper masturbators will find it hard to stroke or finger themselves as they curl and groan from the constant waves of poopy discomfort, their bowels betraying them all night, turning them into a leaky, humiliating faucet of baby-like poopy incontinence.

Needless to say, after suffering tossing and turning in an overloaded, extra poopy diaper and leaky, poopy bottom all night, your charge will certainly be far less likely to risk being caught with ‘naughty fingers’ in their diaper again.

Also, again needless to say, you’re going to want to double diaper them, perhaps even triple diaper them, and secure their diapers with thick plastic or rubber pants, before you put them to bed for the night.

After all, in the morning, you’ll surely be dealing with one of the messiest diapers you’ve seen on your little one yet. Better do all you can to avoid the even bigger mess of a full-blown messy diaper blow-out!

I warned you this method was sinister. 😉

Technique #9: The ‘Special Milk’ Punishment

Finally, the classic punishment for the crime of unauthorized ejaculation… is to force your submissive to consume the very material consequences of their naughty behavior.

Of course, this is likely to be more fruitful for little ones with a penis, but those with a vulva can still have their ‘filthy downstairs juice’ made use of as well.

A classic technique for naughty diapered boys is to catch them immediately after they’ve ejaculated. With their diaper open, their body limp from their unavoidable refractory period, you should use your surveillance tools available to ensure that you arrive right when you can catch them at their ‘stickiest’.

Approach them in silent disgust and disappointment.

Then, tell them to open their mouth wide, wipe up their puddle of cum with your fingers, and shove your sticky fingers in their mouth, demanding that they suck your fingers like a binky, sucking and swallowing until your fingers are nice and clean.

Rinse and repeat. Don’t stop until you’ve forced him to swallow every last bit of his warm, salty mess, the filthy consequences of his utterly shameful behavior.

And privately, enjoy every moment of the humiliated, disgusted look on their face, as they are forced to suffer the embarrassment of sitting in their soggy diaper and eating their own cum as you watch, any sexual drive they had before, now evaporated post-orgasm.

This uniquely culinary punishment alone can do wonders to make your naughty little one immediately regret their choice to satisfy their filthy, diapered urges behind your back, and might be enough to instill a proper disgust at such naughty behavior.

But you may also choose to pursue a more advanced ‘special milk’ technique.

The goal is to collect much more cum over a period of days. Enough to fill a full baby bottle.

This can be done through a regular routine of ‘forced milkings’ from your diapered submissive. But perhaps preferably, you can recruit the help of other, non-diapered, willing male donors. For example, a visiting boyfriend of yours, a male house slave you might have, or perhaps from a festive get together of all your horny adult male friends. (Perhaps even from a potential future Daddy for your little one!)

Once you either have enough ’special milk’ to fill a baby bottle, or perhaps enough to spread the salty seed over a series of bottles mixed in with normal milk, push the rubber nipple of the ‘naughty milk’ bottle into your naughty diaper boy’s mouth, tell them exactly what’s in the bottle and where it came from, in great detail, and force them to drink every last drop of ‘the sinful excretions they seem to like so much.’

Repeat as necessary.

I promise, it won’t take long for your little one to decide they never want to see or smell the yucky, sticky, consequences of their naughty orgasms again, lest they continue to be forced to swallow every last warm, salty drop of it!

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Tips for giving a little a spanking! 🍑👋🏻

So, your little has gotten themselves in trouble again and needs their baby tushy tanned to teach them a lesson? Here’s can you do to make sure their spanking is effective, efficient, and effortless.

-Don’t spank them where they stand. It may be tempting to act aggressively and hit them with a surprise swat, but the anticipation is just as important. Find a spot dedicated for punishments, whether it’s on the bed, a kitchen chair or the changing table, and tell them it’s time to go to their “spanking spot.”

-Once a little has gotten themselves in trouble, the don’t move unless you’re guiding them. Take one hand put it either on their shoulder or the back of their neck, and the other on their diapered bottom so that they feel that their ass is already yours. If they give you any resistance, throw them over your shoulder, but always keep one hand on their butt to reinforce the punishment.

-Once at the spanking spot, grab your little by both shoulders and start to ask them questions about what is going to happen and why. Examples include “do you know why we are at the spanking spot?,” “did you think mommy/daddy wanted to punish you today?,” and “how many spankings do you think your behavior has warranted little one?”

-Wheter or not you use an implement is your preference, but to add to the embarrassment, if your little is cooperating, have them fetch the one you want. Nothing is more intimidating for a young one than having to give their sentence out to themselves.

-Assuming they’re fully clothed and have been properly scolded, it’s time for the ritual of undressing. Don’t be too slow as to wane the impact of what you’ve told them, but going too fast will rob them of the time to think through what brought them hear.

-Don’t take their pants fully off if you allow your little to wear them. Instead drop them somewhere between their knees and their calves so that they can’t separate their legs, reducing their mobility.

-As for their diaper, it’s best to just push down the back to their thighs, or to fully untape it but leave it between your little’s private parts and your lap. The whole experience can be so emotional for a little one they lose control and wet themselves, so save yourself the trouble and keep that diaper in place. Allow the one comforting thing during their spanking to also be a reminder of their infancy.

-If they’re being so disobedient that you can’t get them over your lap, it’s time to break out the restraints. Personally, I think lying them facedown on the changing table and tying their limbs to the padding is best. Then just tear the back of their diaper off and begin their punishment!

-Remember, a spanking for the sake of punishment should always end in tears! No matter the position, if they ain’t crying, they haven’t been punished yet.

-Once your done, and the misbehaving little has been chastised for their actions, reassure them of your love and take the time to bring them back into a happier space. Take the time to feed them a bottle, change their diaper and hold them close to not only give them proper aftercare, but also remind them that they need you for everything, including helping them understand right from wrong.

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