idk

"I can fix him" "I can make him worse" OK well I can sit behind him and wrap my arms around his middle and comfortingly rock him side to side

happy APIDA Heritage Month aka Asian Pacific Islander Desi American Heritage Month to my asian selfshippers, my asian american selfshippers, my pacific peoples who selfship, my desi selfshippers, my native hawaiian selfshippers and everyone else who falls under this umbrella! lots of love and joy to you all this month, your f/os would be happy to learn about your culture and can’t wait to spend lots of time with you!

let’s remember to uplift people of color when it matters most and just because the name APIDA groups them together does not mean they all share the same cultures or experiences, it makes the community not only open for everyone but safe as well to remember this and to support these groups in not only this month but every month. 💗

I HAVE to post this here too...y'all selfshippers are so strong and real, tysm....

I thought a computer mouse hairclip would be cute

“i want to take care of you,” they blurt out.

you were taken aback by the sudden comment, having losing your train of thought. you and your fictional crush were having a loving moment, legs sprawled out over each other, heads resting on the other’s shoulder. it was a well needed moment of peace and quiet.

“you want to take care of me?” you repeated, trying to fight back a smile.

your f/o blushes down (or up) at you, then placing a kiss to your skin. they hum, confirming the statement. “you mean so much to me.” they continued. “i love you.”

“i love you too.”

Drawing prompts based on popular/common ship art tropes I saw everywhere on DeviantArt back in 2012

for a while, i ran two selfship imagines blogs: one strictly against proship and one that caters to proship to see how the two communities actually treat each other. I posted similar imagines on both blogs, none specifying the f/o's age, gender, etc, and nothing nsfw.

the proship blog's notifications were disgusting. people talking about the things they want to do to underaged characters, people fantasizing about feral animals, and one guy who pretended the imagines were about his irl sister he wanted to bang. I received the occasional "you need help" anon, but no threats or anything like that.

the no-proship blog? I received constant threats from the proship side. death threats. rape threats. one person made it a point to describe how he would "ruin" me every single day. another tried to doxx me (but ended up sending the address of a TJ Maxx halfway across the country). people talking about how I was "censoring the internet" and I need to "try reading some noncon to lighten up".

both blogs were deleted after a month, and I will never trust a proship person saying they're the ones being treated badly.

Dear god

polyam selfshippers.. imagine this as your polycule

i hope they add people who don’t like Accelerator to the DSM-VI

i need accelerator to jump into my arms so i can hold him

i need accelerator to jump into my arms so i can hold him

imagine your f/o going "cute? me? i think you got the wrong guy" after you fawn to them about how cute they are, but its apparent that they're flustered by it !!

whether it shows itself through change in facial expressions or their body language, or showing itself in the way they start talking. especially when they're usually perceived differently. maybe even as somewhat offputting by the majority of people around them

they're relieved that you perceive them that way !! you thinking they're cute has something comforting about it

Imagine sharing a milkshake (with two straws) across the table with your f/o.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

i once saw this weird rant against selfshipping that was literally nothing but yap. Like nothing of substance was being said other than “here’s my opinion why selfshipping is wrong! Actually it’s not wrong but some people take it too far and are unhealthy!” Like…..ok thank you for the shit literally everybody knew? 💀 I could be a fucking Australian cave diving enthusiast and take that hobby too seriously, what the fuck does that shit have to do with selfshippers in particular

Shout out to self shippers who only romantically self ship with women. You're so awesome and your f/os love you so much <3

do any other selfshippers get a little bit irked when seeing your f/o's headcanoned with sexualities that exclude your gender..... because uhhhh... no? we're dating?? we're married??? we're very in love??? wdym they aren't attracted to my gender? surely you jest...