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Martin | 22 | they/them and he/him | nb bi ace | I just reblog whatever. sideblogs? don't know her lmao. I just have a rotation of fallout and tes.
sometimes I do art too!
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Had to unfollow this one person on here cause they just would not stop making posts about how transfems on e getting periods is just made up symptoms and like, I don't have definitive proof I only have my and others experience but like how do you, as someone who is not on e, who has access to the same amount of studies looking into this with decent sample sizes as I do (none), feel so confident to say it's all just placebo and made up ? What makes you so confident ? Cause I gotta say after almost two years of nearly right on the dot once a month suddenly feeling nausea all week, taking the most unbelievable shits, feeling all my organs cramp, and having mood swings out the ass which always just so happens to line up with when the two people with uteruses in my house also get their periods, I feel like I have more data to work off of than you do
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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)
I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important
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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around
When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry
I had to change that in order to keep those friendships
When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.
So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship
It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.
That's called "living in a society"
People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you
You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises
I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes
There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"
And that's a recipe for disaster
Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do
However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational
We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing
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for the love of god separate the word TERF from the man hating ugly dyke feminist you made up in your head. it is a group founded on the exclusion of trans women from women's spaces, everything else grows from that ideology. it is not a word for when feminist theory makes you mad. it is NOT when women hate men.
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aotearoa friends: i’m writing a submission to parliament against the fast-track approvals bill using forest and bird’s guide. if anyone wants me to send them my submission i’m happy to, you can change name/personal details and submit it yourself as well. submissions have to be made by the end of the week
this is such an awful fucking bill that would have terrible, long-term impacts on our environment. the more submissions we have, the better!
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#australian and i know a little bit of it. i think very few people actually know the whole thing off the top of their head#cos its boring and sucks ass. we could've had waltzing matilda
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if I say anything else on this topic I need you all to behead me but at this rate what’s the point of making new fallout. If they just are completely averse to showing the progress of the world and doing anything with the setting other than brand recognition because it all just follows the exact same plotline and plot beats why set it in another time. Why even bother if it’s basically just going to be the exact same “well war never changes so why should anything we do” shit every single time. I don’t get it.
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Dragons Fucking Car II (Relief), 2016
Jon Rafman
White Carrara Marble 152 x 126 x 20 cm
59 7/8 x 49 5/8 x 7 7/8 in
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Bethesda website wizard.
Design created for the Bethesda website circa the release of The Elder Scrolls II: Daggerfall
Art by Mark Jones
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4/20 related post that I forgot to make yesterday.
Edit- "stopped for some reason" includes job, reliable access, a home environment that allows it, sobriety, etc.
#never had it and not sure if im willing to try it#i know that alcohol has made me feel absolutely miserable in the past so i figure that depressants are not for me
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i really do loathe shipping at this point bc any time a new show or game or Whatever comes out the tag is full of whatever 2 charas people want to fuck the most and like. fucking nothing else. can you people get a grip and actually engage w shit
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taylor swift fans are so scary it's like i'm in the truman show. watching taylor swift fans talk about how she soo gets neurospicy mental illness grippy sock vacation is exactly how truman felt when his wife started advertising coffee or something to nobody in particular
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Nightdead
Isolated 3D model for The Elder Scrolls Travels: Shadowkey
Model by Mark Jones
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